How to pack the fruit of marriage in Shouxian

1. marriage the man to the woman's fruit package is what

The man should be prepared for the woman's side of the five children's clothing "socks, underwear, outerwear," the girl out of the home to change, the daughter out of the home when the feet can not touch the ground, otherwise it will take away the bride's family's wealth, the man to your home when you want to set off firecrackers, the female side to set off firecrackers, "is a sedan chair whip," the female side must be at the male side before sunset to reach the home, or else the male side of the family's in-laws will blind The wedding day, there is crying sedan chair, crying the more powerful that the deeper the feelings of mother and daughter, the wedding day, the male side to the female side to receive the bride, there will be a red package, which has a red envelope, the female side of the family to see to the red envelope to add money, but also the money in the package, the money is called "children and grandchildren money", the male side of the female side of the family, the female side of the family should be ready to sugar tea, and eight kinds of pastries to let the male side of the family to eat. The male family to eat, the bride in the car to go when there are two and the bride's generation of older brother or brother in the car before a slow walk, the slower, the better, before to send men and women to half of the distance of the home, now all mean on the good.

The bride seems to chest also put a mirror, I do not know what it means, but also to prepare a live carp, and so the next morning the bride got up to do a good job and the groom to eat,. I know so much.

You want to know a little more if you ask the older old man.

2. Shouxian wedding bride price how much

Anhui Shouxian bride price 1, the gift is generally given to the woman 5000 yuan! Red packets do not need to give the woman's family and relatives! 2, the bride price is generally pay attention to have chicken, fish, cake, sugar double the number of portions, gift stretcher draped in red cloth, lined with cypress branches, jujubes, cinnamon, peanuts and other auspicious objects, sticking the bright red double "Hei Hei" word to send on.

After hiring, the male party must also be in the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, Spring Festival to the female family to present "festival gifts" to go. This custom is still popular in rural areas.

3, three gold wedding to buy! Can also be appropriate to set the situation! 4, matchmaking. Commonly known as "no clouds in the sky do not rain, on the ground without a matchmaker is not married", the most important thing to pay attention to "parents' orders, matchmaker's words".

*** and after the establishment of the country still exists in the custom of the matchmaker, but marriage autonomy, free love dominates the mainstream; after the 80s, the towns and cities organized marriage agencies, newspapers and magazines, as well as the computer online also passes the marriage advertisements and other means of contact. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.

The birth year of the man and the woman, the month, the day, the time with a fixed heavenly stem and earthly branches **** for the eight characters, by the fortune-teller to project whether there is a "Chinese Zodiac punch" phenomenon, Yuexi and other places circulating the "Anti-marriage Song": "never white horse afraid of the golden calf, sheep and rats meet once the Hugh, the snake see the fierce tiger such as a knife, the golden chicken see the dog in tears. The golden chicken see the dog tears flow, the spirit monkey and pig different circle, auger dragon jade rabbit not to the head". The majority of people are not superstitious after the establishment of the *** and the country.

The matchmaking. Sub-male phase female, female phase male, there are phase people, phase home and other projects, inspection and interaction, to enhance understanding.

Geng. Also known as pass the gung, pass the post, the next decision, that is, the exchange of marriage invitation.

The name of the post red and green Jane, mandarin ducks book, allow the book, small book, etc., is the writing of the names of the parties of men and women, birthdays and parents of the name of the wedding post. The man writes the word "respectfully request" in the post, and the woman replies with the word "respectfully allow".

*** and after the establishment of the country has not popularized this custom. The bride price.

Also known as the gift, line recruitment, that is, the man to the woman to send the bride price. Depending on the state of the family depending on the abundance of gifts, generally speaking, there are chickens, fish, cakes, sugar, double the number of portions, the gift stretcher draped in red cloth, lined with cypress branches, jujubes, cinnamon, peanuts and other auspicious objects, stickers bright red double "XiXi" word to send on.

After hiring, the male party must also be in the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, the Spring Festival to the female family presented "festival gifts" to go. This custom is still popular in rural areas.

But because of the different regions, the bride price to send the chicken of the dead or alive. 2002 April, Jieshou City, a pair of young people to get married, the groom's family sent two wedding car to go to pick up the bride, with the car lifted to the gift box hanging a live chicken, the bride heard the tears, according to the bride's side of the wedding customs, the day of the wedding should be sent to the cooked chicken, send a live chicken is the local rituals of funeral.

The groom and the bride's home is more than 100 miles away from each other, but the wedding customs are very different, so that the wedding fuss, the bride went back to her mother's home after the ceremony. The groom was furious and sued to the city court, and was granted a divorce.

It is clear that wedding customs are not trivial. The first thing you need to do is to choose a date for the wedding.

Also known as the day of the report, choose auspicious, over the big book. Agree in advance the date of marriage, please fortune-teller to choose an auspicious day, written on red paper, the male party to prepare gifts, please accompany the matchmaker to the female family.

Resignation ceremony. The old custom by the male party to prepare gifts in the day before the wedding (or two days) sent to the female family ancestor resignation.

The dowry. In the old custom, the man prepares a gift and sends it to the woman's family to pay tribute to her ancestors.

The general dowry has clothes and quilts, chests and cabinets, pots and buckets with gold and silver jewelry, etc., heavy gifts, such as property, houses, forests, cows and sheep, etc. Today, there are appliances, houses and other items. The dowry is a gift of a few items such as home appliances, houses, and so on.

Wringing face and crying marriage. On the wedding day, the female family invited the "Fushou" women for their daughters "open face", that is, with a white line tattooed sweat to dress up the bride.

Before the sedan chair, friends and relatives and good sisters from the same village to accompany the married woman crying marriage, known as "the more you cry, the more hair." Welcome the bride and haunted house.

Marriage must be arranged in the new room, lights and colorful, red candles on the hall, the door of the room to paste the happy couplets, bed sewing was each exquisite. The bride is often carried in a sedan chair, or simply in a wheelbarrow, donkey, or horse-drawn carriage. After the 1980s, tractors, trucks, and passenger cars were used in the countryside, and cars were used in the towns to welcome the bride.

The bookish people of Tongcheng emphasize posting couplets on the door of the sedan chair for singing, with the man giving the first couplet, the woman giving the second couplet, and carrying the boy and girl - a pair of pairs of children - to meet the bride, which is called "warming the sedan chair". Bride out of the sedan chair, the male family with two bags on the ground, take turns to move pass, so that the bride stepped on the bag forward, known as the "pass bag" (pass generation), the bridesmaids and other people next to the chanting: "pass a generation, joyful; pass the second generation, full of children and grandchildren; pass the third generation, glory, wealth and prosperity; pass the fourth generation, four generations with the same family; pass the fifth generation, five generations. Five sons to the ......" and so on, in order to seek good luck.

Worship and into the cave. Traditional worship ceremony in the home hall, some in the clan hall, roughly one worship of heaven and earth, two worship ancestors, three worship in-laws, and finally the couple worship.

The bride from the sedan chair to worship all links are covered with red silk cover, into the bridal chamber after the beginning of the groom holding a scale pole to pick the cover, the bridesmaids also sang jingles in the side for the blessing. Such as "scales picked up, in-laws happy", "cover picked on the edge of the bed, a lifetime of a scholar" and so on.

Then the friends and relatives to carry out the "new room" activities, called "new room three days without size", out of the difficult to take a new couple for fun. Late at night, the guests scattered, the groom to the kitchen to bring food and wine to eat with the two, said to drink "cup wine", food, jujubes, cinnamon, lotus seeds, eggs, etc., meaning the meaning of auspicious celebrations.

A small number of young people also took the newcomer asleep into the room to steal a piece of clothing as evidence, the next day to the host family to ask for "happy fruit" to eat, said "steal the new room". Three Dynasty and honeymoon.

The next day or the third day of the newlywed, the groom led the bride to the front of the hall to see the in-laws and family members, that is, "the cave last night, stop the red candle, to the dawn in front of the hall to worship the aunt and uncle," described by the custom. The Tang poem "Newly Married Bride" also says: "Three days into the kitchen, wash your hands and make soup.

Not yet familiar with the nature of the aunt's food, first sent the little aunt to taste". Today, the rural areas have survived the "kitchen" project, only to ask the bride to symbolically add firewood to burn a fire and only.

Three Dynasties "back to the door", the ancient name of the "return to the Ning", also known as the "province". Generally only go back to the mother's home to eat a meal to return, because of the common practice of "newlyweds do not empty rooms in January", known as the "honeymoon".

To the full moon, before officially returning to the bride's home or friends and relatives to move around, stay, etc. After the 80's, young people in the towns and cities popular travel honeymoon activities, also known as "travel marriage", by the two people selected scenic routes, by the newlywed vacation out of the country to travel once.

Generally speaking, 10,000 to 30,000 bar Beijing side is. Qingdao's lowest and most basic is 31800.00, meaning three together to send! Guangdong ... Some women's don't want too much gift money, I remember a relative only gave 3999 Fuzhou city's before is 33,000, now is 53,000 .

But the most important thing is that the man has to buy a house for the woman Tianjin is now 3-5 million bar There are also 70-80,000 have more money to give No money to give less After all, it is the marriage of daughters is not for sale.

3. Shouxian people married shocked the country Shouxian people are very rich

First of all, I do as a Shouxian people, their hometown of marriage customs expressed strong resentment! The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'd like to say that I'm not sure what I'm talking about! I'm not sure about the city, so let's start with the countryside! The first step is to meet.

Every time you go home for New Year's Eve, it's a good time to meet someone. We've all been working hard for a year, and when we get back home in a few days, we're sure to be introduced to someone who can help us.

Because most of us abide by the sacred order left by our parents: "Don't fall in love when you work outside, and be sure to marry our local." This is why the price of girls in Shouxian has skyrocketed.

Let's start with the meeting! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new product or service, and then you can get a good deal on a new one. The meeting place is always in the marketplace.

Or in the matchmaker's home, note: the man should try to wear a decent, handsome a bit, so as to ensure the success rate of the matchmaking. At least bring a pack of twenty dollars or more of cigarettes, because the encounter and the woman came to the elders to send cigarettes, so as to show your maturity and will do people.

Even if you are a new adult who does not smoke. After greeting each other, the man and the woman can walk around the market and talk for a while.

Note! In just a few minutes, you'll have to decide if you want to marry her or not. Then the couple will go home and talk to their families about the next step.

If one of the parties does not like each other, this thing is over, if both feel okay, then you can proceed to the next step. Step 2: Go shopping.

After the men and women meet, it's time to hit the streets and buy something. What to buy? The first step is to buy the clothes.

Buy a diamond ring, cosmetics, and now generally are both men and women, two people, from home by car to the county's best shopping mall to buy clothes. The woman buys the clothes and the man pays for it.

As the blind date time is winter, so to buy two down jackets, two sweaters, two pants, two pairs of socks, two pairs of shoes, and a leather box. The meaning of buying two sets of clothes is that good things come in pairs, and buying a suitcase is to put the clothes you bought in it.

The ring was bought for the engagement. At this time Almost to dinner time, to find a restaurant to eat.

The first time to take the future girlfriend dinner, is never cheap. The first thing you need to do is to find a decent restaurant, and at least order eight dishes, and then order them if you can't eat them all.

Then both men and women can go home, the clothes are brought home by the man first. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.

The third step: engagement. Because of the previous meeting and shopping, the man showed for the woman to go through fire, in the determination, and now finally can be engaged! The woman went to the man's house to collect money and draw a pledge when she got engaged.

At this point, the man's family should prepare twenty dishes, three or five tables. And some of the dishes are not ready in a day or two, and not just anyone can do it.

The long time can buy, if you are not lucky, can not buy. If you can't do it right, you'll need to hire a specialized chef to do it.

The twenty dishes, must be on the full, less one, will let the woman's family pick out the problem, and thus do not agree to the marriage. The man and the woman can be betrothed after the wine and the meal.

Engagement of course, there should be a look of engagement, is to pay the deposit. Nowadays, it is usually 10001 and 11600, and 12800, 6 and 8 are auspicious numbers, 10001 represents "one in a million".

In the end, the woman took the deposit and the last time you two shopped for clothes to go. I forgot to mention that the two sets of clothes and other things should be worth about 30,000.

Do you think this is all done? The answer is no. There's a lot more to it than that, so let's go to step four.

Step 4: Worship. As the previous engagement is completed, the next is the man to go to the woman's home to pay homage (are engaged in the Spring Festival, in the first month before the fifteenth to pay homage).

The first time to go to his girlfriend's home, things can not bring less, even if the road is difficult to walk. The future father-in-law will certainly invite a group of people to drink with you.

Note: This wine must be drunk, and must not be drunk. The future father-in-law must ask you some words during the meal, drunken nonsense, may lead to the death of the marriage.

After everyone is satisfied, you can go home. Before you go, your future father-in-law will give you a few hundred dollars to kowtow, 600, 800, or 1,000.

The three to four million dollars is now finally a little payback! Don't be too happy too early, this time you have to pay attention to see if your girlfriend has nieces and nephews and so on. If so, you have to give them money.

At least give 200, if there are two, have to give, even if they are still breastfeeding children. This will show your maturity and ability to do things right.

To the old man to pay tribute to the task is finally completed, and now it is the turn of the fifth step. The fifth step: the gift.

At this point, both men and women went to the field to work, and each went to their own city, each doing their own work. Don't fantasize about taking their girlfriends out to work together, with your little deposit you want to take people's daughters to cohabitate, that's impossible! I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on a new one.

At this point, if it is a major holiday, such as: Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, the man's family must have someone to have the woman's home to send gifts. If you don't send a gift, the woman's family will withdraw from the marriage on the grounds that the man's family doesn't know the rules.

Not only to send gifts so simple, the man in the field thousands can not and other women to talk about love, deny the woman will be returned to the marriage, and do not return the money. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a conversation with a woman who was in the middle of a conversation with a woman who was in a relationship with someone else. This is a good question! If the woman has other boyfriends in the field, this is the woman's breach of contract, she will return the deposit to the man.

As for moral damages, the law does not seem to have this item. If the man and the woman have stuck it out for a year, or maybe two, three years, then I can congratulate you.

After several years of hard work, your love has finally come to fruition. Now it's time to move on to the last part, which is the most crucial.

Step 6: Get married. To get married, you need a new house, either built or bought.

Buy and cover the price is about the same, about twenty thousand, the man out.

The new house will have new furniture, which will also be paid for by the man.

What is the woman's contribution? Out of some dowry, such as: TV, sofa, quilts and so on, most of them are bought with the male money. I forgot to say, before the woman got married, the man has to give the woman to buy "three gold", namely: gold earrings, gold rings, gold necklaces.

Welcome to marry the day, not you think so smooth, certainly will give you a little accident, and then the man out of money "leveling". In short, the day of the wedding, the man should bring at least ten thousand dollars in cash, to cope with the emergency.

There is also the wedding dowry can not be less, and now are generally 100,000. The first thing you need to do is to get the money to pay for it.

4. Shouxian general marriage daughter will want how much bride price

This is an article in my QQ space, may be helpful to you, please refer to!

"The bride price of the intention and more or less"

First, the bride price of the intention:

Married when the man needs to give the woman gift money, more or less. Its meaning varies. In the early days, it is a gift of love, handkerchiefs, personal objects, etc. that the two sides of the willingness, life has been fixed. Into the private society, marriage has become a sale, the bride price has become a deposit, the woman has become a material. In the sale of marriage, the bride price indicates the value of the woman, some regions and ethnic groups directly known as the value of the gift. After the liberation, the marriage law explicitly abolished the sale of marriage, but in some places, it still continues, and gives a new content. That is, after the bride price is sent, the marriage contract is formally concluded, generally may not be reversed. If the woman repudiates, the bride price shall be returned to the man, if the man repudiates, the bride price is generally not returned. The amount of the bride price is negotiated between the woman's family and the man's family's economic situation.

Second, the bride price varies: it also includes gold and silver jewelry, cars, wedding houses and other objects.

This has little to do with geography. The difference between urban and rural areas is not great.

The first time you start to figure out a lucky

Hundred miles of peach one, 101 yuan; the great rise of its way; then the more change the bigger, the more climb the more powerful.

One thousand miles, 1001 yuan;

Ten thousand miles, 10,001 yuan;

Ten thousand purples and thousands of reds, ten thousand purples (50 yuan) ten thousand, counting half a million, one thousand reds (hundred yuan) one thousand, counting 100,000; *** counting six hundred thousand. A move, a move ----- luxury cars, a move ------ real estate;

Three pounds six, a hundred dollar bill on the weighing weigh three pounds six.

Third, the sky-price bride price is not gnawing the old, hurt the old?

Now the bride price is more than sky-high? The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for it. Calculated to know, not to mention the bride price, on a set of wedding (two rooms and a hall 80 square meters) less than a million or so. How many years does the average working family need? The girl's family can also do their own calculations, their family existing how much savings? Parents are getting older and older, but also support grandparents, to put it bluntly, smashed bones boiled into oil can sell a few dollars? Not chewing the old but chewing the old. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty!

Fourth, arm in arm:

In recent years, as the phenomenon of climbing phenomenon continues to ferment, the bride price is also defiantly climbed! This is also not only blame the woman, but also in the male side of the show of wealth, a big row, some men do not compete, I'm afraid that I can not find a daughter-in-law, every possible way to put together money. However, there are also men do not spend money, sincere love, due to the simple, new wedding. What's more, the woman accompanied by a luxury car, wedding house! This depends on whether it is true love? Or really love money! Calling on the whole society *** with *** this disguised selling marriage habits!

5. Shouxian what customs, attractions, specialties

Shouxian custom

Shouxian people character bold, hospitable, weekdays come to people, firm to stay for dinner, playing wine to buy food, set to drink a drunken party. When it comes to marriage, birth, birthday, building, moving and other celebrations, it is more fanfare, feast guests.

Huainan banqueting customs are:

First, seats

Seats mainly include seats and tables in two aspects. Local in the past to set up a seat for the square table. Can sit eight people, so commonly known as "eight immortal table". The usual way to set up a square table is to have the table seam perpendicular to the door. Because the door to the south, the table is usually east-west. Seat row is, facing the door of the left-handed is on the seat, the right-handed is two; face west of the right-handed is three, the left-handed is five; face east of the left-handed is four, the right-handed is six; left-handed is seven, back towards the door of the right-handed is not the seat, commonly known as the "to put (wine) pots of", "diarrhea of wine

The upper seat is usually occupied by the elders, the main guests. If the guest is the host's junior and younger or the host's junior, the host should also sit on the upper seat. The last seat, commonly known as "the pot of", usually by the second host or the host's juniors to sit, responsible for the pot of wine, dishes and plates.

Second, the dishes

In the past, the dishes at the banquet, cold dishes with a plate, hot dishes with a bowl. Not counting the plate counting bowl. There are eight bowls and ten bowls.

Informal banquet on eight bowls. On the table before the table on the first four to six plates of cold dishes. Guests seated on the four hot dishes for drinking. The first is a whole chicken, the second is a whole fish, the third is a noodle round son (a bowl of 24), the fourth bowl is sweet soup. Therefore, there is a "first bowl of chicken, two bowls of fish, three bowls are round" said. Wine drink almost, and then on the four dinner dishes. Five, six two for the lining dish (can be seasonal, economic conditions to determine, can meat or vegetarian). Seven is eight blocks, eight e799bee5baa6e79fa5e98193e78988e69d8331333361323037 way for salty soup (such as egg tomato soup, bok choy egg soup, etc.).

Formal banquet (such as marriage) on the ten bowls. The first ten plates of fruit, the guests to eat some withdrawal, and then ten plates of cold dishes, and then ten bowls of hot dishes. Hot dishes divided into six before and after four.

The first six dishes for the wine. The first bowl of famous dishes for the fixed seat, more on the hoof cells, sea cucumbers and so on. On the former for the hoof cell seat; on the latter for the sea cucumber seat. The second bowl of whole chicken, three bowls of whole fish, four bowls of round, five bowls of lining vegetables, six bowls of sweet soup.

The last four are dinner dishes. Seven and eight bowls are lining dishes, nine bowls are eight large pieces, and ten bowls are savory soup.

Third, drinking

Put the pot to pour wine, starting from the top seat, in turn down. The wine should be poured full, and the wine should be full to honor the people.

The master of the cup to persuade the guests to drink, the guests can end the cup; the master of the chopsticks to let the dishes, the guests can move chopsticks. *** After drinking three glasses of wine, the host should first start from the top seat one by one toast, guests can find their own objects to toast each other. The local custom is to drink with the person being toasted. Toasts are usually made in pairs. The first thing you need to do is to drink the wine.

When eating, it is forbidden to put chopsticks in the bowl of dry rice (which is used to worship ghosts and gods).

The master can not eat before the guests eat well, even if the bottom of the bowl to leave a mouthful, should wait for the guests to eat all the rice before eating.

After the guest has finished eating, he can put his chopsticks flat on the bowl to say "I'm waiting for you to eat", and the host can remove the guest's chopsticks and put them on the edge of the bowl to say "don't be polite".

Shou County Attractions

Humanistic Spectacles Tomb of King Yu of Chu, Tomb of Marquis Cai Zhaohou, Anfeng Pond, Confucius Temple in Shou County, Shou County *** Temple, Bienen Temple, Shou County Ancient City Wall, Liu An's Tomb, Shou County Museum, Tomb of King Huainan, Shou County Kiln Ruins, Xuan Di Temple, Sun Shou Ao Memorial Museum

Natural Spectacles Lake Wabeng, Dajing Reservoir, Huaguo Reservoir

Shou County Specialties

Handcrafted items Zijin Inkstone, Shou County Specialty Products

Food Shou Chaihu Shouxian strawberries Hao Wei Pear Vanilla

Silverfish Huaiwang fish

6.Help, Anhui Shouxian to

Our side is so, the bride price to 40,000 to 80,000 ranging, there are a lot of people marrying to the Shanghai Shanghai man to give the bride price of 120,000 yuan.

But basically Shouxian married Shouxian bride price is also basically bride price to 40,000 to 80,000 ranging. After the man gave the woman bride price, the woman's parents will take this money to buy the daughter's dowry, such as home appliances, quilts, tea sets and so on probably spend more than 20,000 yuan.

If the man does not want appliances and furniture and so on, because it is not convenient to transport far away. The woman will go back to the man 30,000 like.

In fact, the parents of the woman in addition to dowry hand can be left more than 10,000, this 10,000 will wait until you have a child, the child over the full moon and then spend. 4 gold is the ring bracelet earrings necklace.

These basically love when you buy. On the day of the wedding, some women want to get on the car gift 10,000, some do not.

If you already have a house that woman is not necessary to ask you to house money.