When men and women get married, why "one worships heaven and earth, one worships Gaotang, and the husband and wife respect each other as guests"?

In our present life, we can find from some movies and TV plays that when men and women get married, they should worship heaven and earth, worship the palace, and husband and wife should worship each other. Although this kind of scene is no longer visible to many modern people, it is still very common to the older generation. When men and women get married, the worship of their parents still exists.

Paying homage to the church is a traditional etiquette and custom that has spread since the Southern and Northern Dynasties in China. After the couple got married at that time, it was equivalent to our present people getting married, and it also represented that two people officially became legal couples.

Worshipping heaven and earth first is actually worshipping heaven and earth, which means thanking God for giving us everything now, while worshipping Gaotang means worshipping both parents, which means thanking parents for raising us. The main purpose of husband and wife worship is to show that both husband and wife accept each other's advantages and disadvantages from today. From then on, the two sides never give up, take care of each other and live together.

Many times, as children, when they are bullied or encounter some difficulties outside, they will think of their parents, then come to their parents to complain, and then complain to their parents. When I get home, whether I am happy or not, my parents are happy to cook a meal. My parents are like an excavator. When we saw them or ate the meals cooked by their parents, we were very happy and forgot all our troubles. Forget all the unpleasantness, so when men and women get married, there will be a two-week hall, which is to worship our parents. This is also to thank our parents for taking care of us, nurturing us, understanding us and sticking to us at all times.

But what is said by heaven and earth is actually a feudal superstition. After all, life is earned by yourself.