Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional virtues - Do you have to be able to cook as a woman? Why?

Do you have to be able to cook as a woman? Why?

I think an important aspect that is blurred by having women cook is that cooking is more often than not not a chore, but love. Nature dictates the responsibilities of men and women in society and in the family, not to say absolutely, but in a very subtle way.

As a woman, I don't know if you have ever experienced a man is not at home, and it happens to be some of the home is a man often do things, such as repair, replacement or handling problems, objectively speaking, many of these things to the woman's wisdom or physical strength is also able to do, but you will not be the first to think of this should be a man's business, or you do not do so well when you do it when you will miss him in the time of time, or even more so if you happen to be seen by your neighbor while doing it, will there be a strange feeling in your heart. If not, I do not know what to say, if there has been, then I think the reason should be the same, no one stipulates that women should cook, but the significance of women cooking for men is great, the quality of the meal in the second, the key is that he enjoys the woman's love for him. When people talk about love, it seems like it is all about roses and romance, but real love is in the firewood and salt of life.

I think you're going a little off the beaten track in your pursuit of gender equality, if you think that freeing yourself from housework and letting the man do a little bit of the housework is equality is a little narrow-minded. Mutual understanding, mutual respect is equality, your man is willing to repeat your cooking, that is his love for you, if you do not want to do because of bad, or the pursuit of equality forced him to do, all the flavor changed. Equality between men and women is relative but not absolute, when you think you should get the man at home to enjoy the "privileges", you are willing to give up your woman's "privileges", such as playing a little temper, make a little sex, the management of the accounts, etc., you are willing to bear the The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

There is also a key point is that many men love his woman, willing to pay for her, even if they go to do what they do not want to do, but this does not mean that he is completely voluntary or enjoy the process, he did this just because of the love, and if the woman is naive to take this for granted, and do not take into account the man's feelings, which is unfair to the man, to the love of a kind of It is not fair to the man, and it is also a shame to the love. The same is true for women, of course.

Cooking is not necessary, I can not have an accurate answer, but as a man, I would like to say that for the vast majority of men, there is a woman for him to cook, that is happiness.