Why is there such a saying in Fujian "to marry to marry Hui'an women, to marry not married to Putian men"?

The expression "to marry a woman from Hui'an, not a man from Putian" is not universally applied in Fujian, but is a more localized colloquialism. The following are some of the possible reasons, but they do not represent the views of all people in Fujian, and are for reference only:

1. Geographic location and cultural factors: Both Hui'an women and Putian men live in different parts of Fujian, with Hui'an women located on the southeast coast of the country and Putian men located in the north-central part of the country. The difference in geographical location leads to differences in their culture, habits and lifestyles. Therefore, this proverb may have been created on the basis of such differences.

2. Traditional division of family roles: In the traditional division of family roles, Hui'an women are regarded as those who show stronger abilities in domestic work and taking care of family members. They usually take on more domestic work and play an important role in running and caring for the family. Putu men, on the other hand, are more likely to play a major role in economic activities and working outside the home. This division of family roles, although changing in modern society, may still reflect the influence of traditional attitudes in this proverb.

3. Personal qualities and abilities: This proverb may also reflect the evaluation of the personal qualities and abilities of Hui'an women and Putian men. Hui'an women's performance in family and domestic work is considered an excellent quality, while Putian men's ability to engage in economic activities and work outside the home is also considered an advantage. However, such evaluations may be too one-sided or geographically biased.

It is important to note that this proverb is not shared by all people in the Fujian region and does not apply to all situations. In modern society, men and women are undergoing changes in the division of family roles, economic activities and social responsibilities. Therefore, we should look at everyone's choices and behaviors with openness, tolerance and respect, and avoid over-reliance on sayings or stereotypes.