What do couples do that is scarier than divorce? Did you get caught?

What do couples do that is scarier than divorce? Have you been cheated? "Buddha said that you have to look back 500 times in your last life to pass by in this life." I have to admit that fate is really a wonderful thing. Many people have inadvertently come into contact, and as time goes by, they get to know each other better and better, and even feel lucky because they cross acquaintances. Many couples are like this. They may be passers-by passing by in the street, but they have entered each other's world under the wrong impetus. Teacher Yang Lan once said that married life is not only happy, but also suffering, friendship and unforgettable friendship.

The first is domestic cold violence. Many people will inadvertently increase domestic cold violence against girls in their marriage life. When dealing with other people's problems, we always persuade others to communicate, because communication can solve most problems. But ironically, we can't communicate actively in our emotional life.

The second thing I like to mention is the past. This will be harmful to the relationship between husband and wife. Many people will bring up the past when quarreling, but we should know that this "old account" is a thing of the past, and no matter what the situation, everyone should learn to look forward. Only in this way can we succeed and continue.

The third thing is to like comparison. Nowadays, many couples like to compare blindly with others, but life is their own. Too much comparison will make their life more and more tired, and even lead to their love in trouble. The thing is, when arguing, the relatives of the other party will be implicated. This has a fatal and serious blow to each other's marriage life. No matter what kind of quarrel, it is not correct to immediately blame the other elder.

The fourth thing is to spread the dirty clothes among each other. There is an old saying in China, "Wash your dirty linen in public", which is related to the social development of a family. Many couples will wash their dirty linen in public when they quarrel, which will not only do some harm to the other family, but also be very unworthy. You should understand that an affair involves ethics, and the most terrible thing in marriage is an affair. Judging from illegal crimes, the motive of "love to kill" is very frequent now. In a sense, an affair is actually more terrible than divorce.