How should ordinary people be filial?

The dutiful son kept filial piety for three years, during which he did not stick couplets, set off firecrackers, wear red or green, and refused bad hobbies.

Precautions:

1. Don't wear jewelry during the wake. Men should not wear trousers, women should not wear skirts, long hair and heavy makeup. Especially don't wear slippers and show your toes. Even in the wake in summer, you should be patient.

Second, during the wake, don't gossip, especially for future generations, and don't quarrel in the coffin shed for the funeral of the ancestors. Even if future generations have great grievances, it is not too late to let the ancestors walk the last stop of their lives with dignity and then solve them.

3. During the wake, men and women in the mourning shed shall not be ambiguous, and there shall be no promiscuity in the mourning shed, mourning hall and filial piety room. Otherwise, the light person is unlucky, the heavy person is exhausted, and the lotus flower withers.

Filial piety rules for children who have lost their fathers are as follows:

1. It is forbidden to visit relatives and friends during the period of filial piety, especially to attend happy events.

Within 0/00 days of the death of immediate family members, it is best to be filial at home. Don't travel, visit relatives and friends, etc. unless necessary. So as not to bring your sadness to others. Especially weddings, business opening, celebrating the birth of babies and other happy events, it is best not to attend.

Children are forbidden to wear red and green clothes during mourning.

During the mourning period, ancient children paid attention to wearing filial piety and white mourning clothes within 100 days; After a hundred days, wear dark clothes such as black and blue to show filial piety, and avoid wearing red and green heavy makeup. In modern society, although many friends wear the word "filial piety" instead of mourning for such a long time because of their work and life; However, you still can't wear red with green.