Sima Guang "family model" family style and family training_Quotes and Sentences Appreciation

Sima Guang's "Family Model" Family Style and Family Training_Quotable Quotes and Sentences Appreciation

Song Sima Guang's "Family Model".

1. To correct the family in order to correct the world.

The Poetry Scriptures praised the character of King Wen of Zhou, saying: first set an example for his wife, and then extend it to his brothers, so as to achieve the purpose of unifying the family and ruling the country.

This is all the reasoning emphasized by the sages to first correct the family style and then correct the world style.

The ancient Chinese tradition of emphasizing family education has often been denounced by modern people as promoting feudal hierarchy, not realizing that respect for the elderly and love for the young is a basic duty of human beings from nature, and is the initial starting point for cultivating human love.

Of course, the significance of traditional Chinese tutelage goes far beyond this; it also proposes a basic model of moral construction in which the family and the state are coextensive.

This model is not simply to equate governing the family with governing the country, and to transplant the experience of governing the family into the strategy of governing the country. Rather, it seeks to extend the analogy of the feelings of the family to the society, and to treat the family as the lowest unit of the social structure, so that each individual first cultivates the qualities and abilities of adapting to and dealing with the affairs of the society in the family unit.

This is a visionary approach to family education.

The Chinese traditional family education is an excellent model in the history of world education that perfectly combines family education with social education.

2. A gentleman with little desire is not enslaved to things, and can go straight.

A gentleman who reduces his desires will not be enslaved by material things and will be able to walk straight ahead.

The villain reduces his desires so that he can be prudent, economize on expenses, and stay away from crime and family wealth.

That is why the ancients said: thrift is a variety of moral **** with the implementation of the guidelines.

Extravagance inevitably produces greed.

The gentleman is greedy for wealth, distorting morality and inviting disaster.

The common people are greedy, they want too much, spend money recklessly, and even destroy their families.

Therefore, the greedy person must be bribed to become an official, and the people must become thieves.

The only way to get to the bottom of the problem is to be a slave to the material things.

Only by suppressing greed can we stand on top of the material and be independent, and maintain a free spirit that is the most precious thing on earth.

When a civilian chooses luxury, he not only exhausts the hard work he has accumulated, but also turns the mansion into a cage.

The people in power will not only betray their country's discipline by allowing their greed to flourish, but will also use public power as a claw.

Sima Guang's assertion that a greedy person who lives in an official position is bound to bribe, and a person who lives in the countryside is bound to steal, should be taken as a lesson for people today.

3. The first is to make the most out of the situation, and the second is to make the most out of the situation.

Since ancient times, the love of the child but do not know how to teach the child and make them fall into danger, humiliation and confusion can not be counted? If you love a child, you should educate him and make him grow up well.

Where is the love for his children that leads them into peril, shame and confusion? Most of the people who love his children say that they are still young and ignorant, and that they will educate them when they grow up.

This is the same as cultivating the early buds of harmful trees, and then saying that we should wait until it grows to the thickness of an embrace before cutting it down, and then cutting it down again is not more strenuous. And it is like opening the cage to release the bird and then come back to catch it, and unleashing the horse and then come back to chase and catch it, where it is easier than not opening the cage to release the bird and not unleashing the horse at the first place!

The two important principles of ancient Chinese tutelage thought are to teach the child and to teach the child before it is too late.

Today, people love their children, most try to meet the needs of children, which is tantamount to allowing childish children to rule over the mature parents; or the child is still unaware of the reason, refused to correctly educate the child, which in fact, missed the best period of exertion of education.

Once a child's character is formed and finalized, it is rock solid and difficult to shift.

Ancient tutelage puts the responsibility of teaching children into every family, which is certainly more complete and far-sighted than relying on the schooling model of education.

4. The wife of a man. The first is that it is not a good idea to have a good time, but it is a good idea to have a good time.

As a wife, she should have six virtues: gentleness and obedience, cleanliness and hygiene, generosity of heart and not envious of others, frugality and economy, humility and prudence, and diligence in labor.

Today's society emphasizes the equality of men and women, and naturally ignores the virtues that should characterize the role of a wife.

Only through gentleness and respect can we resolve disputes and cultivate harmony without losing our femininity.

If you are fighting with your husband over some trivial matters, you will end up tearing the family apart and hurting the children.

The only way to keep a stable and warm home for your husband is to be magnanimous.

If you are jealous, mean and suspicious, you will drive away all the friends around your husband, which is tantamount to destroying your family's reputation and leaving your family in the cold.

Only cleanliness, thrift and hard work are the ways to keep a house in good condition.

It can be said that a good wife is the key to a family's vitality and harmony.

Sima Guang Quotes and Sayings

Sima Guang Quotes and Sayings

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2. All people are proud of extravagance, but I am proud of thrift and simplicity.

3, the small things are not confused with the so-called can, the big things are not confused with the so-called talent.

4. If you don't have enough feet, you can't get a good look at Shu again!

5, Ren Xian will rule, Ren disdain will be chaotic, the inevitable way.

6, instead of getting a small person, it is better to make a fool.

7, on the lower system, oligarchs to unify the crowd, and the program is set.

8, for the official to choose people, only talent is with. If you are not talented, you can't use it.

9, pinning the evil in the unemergent, 弥祸于未形.

10, instead of getting a small person, it is better to make a fool.

11, I have no one, but the behavior of life, no can not speak to people.

12, the talent, the capital of virtue; virtue, only the handsome.

13, talent and virtue full of saints, talent and virtue and death of fools, virtue over the talent is called a gentleman, talent over Germany is called a villain. Where the art of taking people, if not the saints, the gentleman and with it, and with the villain, not to get fools.

14, the gentleman is not servitude to things, can be straight road; villain is not desire to be able to honor the body, far from the crime of Feng family.

15, where everything is also in the honor of the success, its failure will be slow.

16, do not accept the gift of non-participation, the shame of the establishment.

17, the teacher is easy to meet, the teacher is difficult to meet.

18, the former thing is not far, I belong to the teacher.

19, raising children do not teach the father's fault, training is not strict teacher's inertia.

20, the cover of the smart and spacious people quit in the absence of breaks, Cham Jing Anshu people quit in the latter part of the time, the broad heart of the vast people quit in the forgetfulness.

21, the small man more desire to seek delusional weeks to lose their families and lives.

22, do not vegetate and want to seek wisdom, like not cutting jade and seek literary talent.

23, the virtuous man, his virtue is enough to Dunhua Zhengcheng, its talent is enough to Dunzheng vibration discipline, its bright enough to candle micro-anxiety far, and its strong enough to knot benevolence and solid righteousness. The big one is to benefit the world, the small one is to benefit a country.

24, the poor think of a good wife, the national chaos think of a good minister.

25, generosity and prudence, offense but not.

26, the saint's officials, as if the craftsman's materials, take their strengths, use their shortcomings.

27, the coin thick words Gan, people are afraid of.

28, life is not beneficial at the time, death is not heard in the future, is also self-abandonment.

29, tolerate small wrath and save big faith.

30, there is a sage can not and, with no sage is the same.

31, the way to use military, soothe your sincerity, control the enemy your fraud.

32, the saint of Dayu, is to cherish the inch Yin; as for the crowd, when to cherish the minute Yin, can not be born without benefit at the time, death is not heard in the aftermath, it is self-abandonment.

33, good management of wealth, to raise their own from, and collect all the rest, so inexhaustible, and up and down to the full.

34, the friendship of human ministers, it is appropriate to speak directly, non-gou A Yi Shun finger.

35, arrogance is born of wealth, chaos is born of negligence.

36, luxury is more desire. Gentlemen who want more are thinking of the rich and powerful, and the road in vain is quick to disaster.

37, the eagle hit the sky wind strong, roc flying waves spring.

38, the book can not not be recited, or on the horse, or in the middle of the night when not sleeping, chanting its text, thinking about its meaning, get more.

39, the mouth has a honey belly has a sword.

40, the feelings of all people, the poor think of change.

41, face from the back of the word, the ancients have warned.

42, the hero is useless.

43, frugality, so recognize its beauty.

44, poor and lowly friends can not be forgotten, chaff wife does not go down the hall.

45, non-credit can not make the people, non-people can not keep the country.

46, the right heart for this, cultivate the base.

47, the problem of people, is not reading history.

48, talent, the capital of virtue; virtue, talent of the commander.

49, for the official to choose people, only talent is with. If you are not talented, you can't use it.

50, heaven and earth's work can not be hastily, difficult industry when tired days and months.

51, virtue over talent, called the gentleman; talent over virtue, called the villain.

52, Chu does not use Wu Qi and cut the chaos, Qin used Shang Jun law and rich and strong.

53, read the important book, can not not memorize.

54, the right mind as the foundation, cultivate the body as the foundation.

55, heard its fault, over the day to eliminate the blessing; heard its reputation, transcript of the day loss and disaster.

56, not to raise the scholar and want to seek wisdom, such as not cutting jade and seek literary talent.

57, on the system below, oligarchs to unify the crowd, and the discipline is set.

58, scholars are more valuable to do, but not more valuable to know.

59, listen to both is clear, biased belief is dark.

60, love is not the way, appropriate so harmful.

61, the work of heaven and earth can not be hasty, difficult industry when tired days and months.

62, the big one for the program, the small one for the discipline, so Zhang Li up and down, neat humane.

63, the gentleman more desire is greedy for wealth, in vain, quick disaster; the small man more desire is to seek more delusion, defeat and death.

64, the master of the self-will, then all the plans do not enter.

65, the upper does not believe in the lower, the lower does not believe in the upper; the upper and lower separation, to defeat.

66, people can not seek to prepare, must give up their shortcomings, take their strengths.

67, the husband of a word of promise, a thousand gold is not easy.

68, the blame for its difficulties, then its easy to be correct without labor; make up for its shortcomings, then its long without success.

69, with people like a tool, each take their strengths.

70, the government to get Yin as the basis, governance to remove the filth as a matter of business.

71, good management of wealth, to raise their own, and collect all the rest, so inexhaustible, and up and down to the full.

72, where the art of taking people, if not saints, gentlemen and with it, and with the small man, not as good as a fool. Why? The gentleman held the talent for good, the villain held the talent for evil. Holding the talent for good, the good is not to carry on; holding the talent for evil, the evil is not to carry on. Although the fools want to be bad, the wisdom can not week, the force can not win, such as milk dogs wrestling people, people get and control. Villain wisdom enough to attempt its treachery, courage enough to determine its violence, is a tiger and the wing also, its harm is not much! The virtue of the people of the strict, and the talent of the people of love; love is easy to pro, the strict is easy to alienate, is to inspect the people more hidden in the talent and left in the virtue. Since ancient times, the country of the chaos of the minister, the family of the defeat of the son, the talent has more than enough and not enough virtue, to the subversion of more than one, is not special Zhi Baiya! Therefore, for the country for the family if you can review the talent and virtue of the points and know the successive, () and why the loss of human enough to suffer!

73, as small as the big, prudent and small.

74, the lift of wisdom for the country, not for the private sector.

75, Ping and then clear, clear and then bright.

76, lifting talent not out of the clan, the use of hard power, is not a party to help business, no punishment for adultery.

77, benevolence to thick under, thrifty to sufficient.

78, the letter, the great treasure of the ruler.

79, scholars are more valuable to do, not more valuable to know.

80, the birth of the sky, each with its own bias. The country's use of people, prepared for the long. However, if the person who throws himself in the direction of the state does not succeed, he is not using his strengths, and his strengths are not being used.

Si Ma Guang's Famous Quotes and Sayings

Si Ma Guang's Famous Quotes and Sayings

1) Seeing each other is like not seeing each other. I'm not sure if I'll ever see you again, but I'm not sure if I'll ever see you again. After the song and dance, I woke up, and the moon was slanting in the deep courtyard, and the people were quiet. --The first time I saw you, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night. There is no more willow wadding due to the wind, but sunflower to the sun. --Sima Guang "guest in the early summer"

5, the road of governance, we must examine all the rest of their own and strengthen their deficiencies, the cover of the smart and sparse people to avoid being too aware of the few heard and fewer people to avoid being congested, the courageous and strong to avoid being too violent, love and warmth of people to avoid being unbroken, Cham Jing Anshu people to avoid being after the time, the wide heart of the vast people to avoid being forgotten. Must review their own when to quit and Qi to righteousness, and then neutralization should be, and the clever pseudo-doers do not dare to look forward to than week. --Sima Guang "Ziji Tongjian"

6, what is a gentleman? What is a little man? Virtue is greater than talent is a gentleman, talent is greater than virtue is a villain. --Sima Guang, "The Great Encyclopedia of Ziji"

7, the correct heart as the foundation, cultivate the body as the foundation. -- Sima Guang

8, do not love their relatives, how can they love themselves -- Sima Guang "family model"

9, the work of heaven and earth can not be hasty, difficult industry when the cumulative days and months. --Shi Ma Guang

10, "There is no willow wadding because of the wind, but there are sunflower to the sun. -- Sima Guang "early summer"

11, all the success of a hundred things in the respect, and its failure will be in the slow. -- Sima Guang

12, for the mother, do not suffer from unkindness, suffering from the knowledge of love and do not know to teach. Ancient saying says: "loving mother loses son". Love and do not teach, so that the fall in the unscrupulous, trapped in the great evil, into the criminal, to the chaos, not others defeated also, the mother defeated also, since ancient times and the present, if it is more than enough, can not be counted. --Sima Guang "family model"

13, the family is poor think good wife, the country is in turmoil think good phase. --Sima Guang

14, read the important book, can not not recite. --Shi Ma Guang

15, luxury is more desire. Gentlemen want more is to think of adoring the rich and powerful, in vain, quick disaster. --Shi Ma Guang

16, scholars are more valuable to do, but not more valuable to know. -- Sima Guang

17, the way of family harmony: endure endure endure -- Sima Guang "family model"

18, talent, the capital of virtue; virtue, the talent of the commander. -Sima Guang

19, all people are all extravagant for the honor, my heart is only frugal for the beauty. --Shi Ma Guang

20, rather than get a small man, it is better to make fools. --Shi Ma Guang

21, the treasure bun loosely drawn, lead light makeup. Green smoke and mist cover light, flotsam and jetsam. --Sima Guang, "Moon on the Western River"

22, tolerate small wrath and save big faith. --Shi Ma Guang "Ziji Tongjian - Tang Ji VIII"

23, the original "Zhou Yi": away from the lower Xun Shang. Family members: favorable for female chastity. Tuan said: Family members, women are in the right position within, men are in the right position outside, men and women are in the right position, the great justice of heaven and earth. In the family, there is a strict ruler, and parents are also called parents. The father is the father, the son is the son, the brother is the brother, the brother is the brother, the husband is the husband, the woman is the woman, and the family is righteous. The world is settled when the family is right. -- Sima Guang "family model"

24, the good governance of wealth, to raise their own from, and collect all their surplus, so inexhaustible, and up and down to the full. -- Sima Guang

25, if people have no feet, both get Long, again look at Shu evil! -- Sima Guang

26, for the official to choose people, only talent is with. Gou or not talented, although the relatives do not use. --Shi Ma Guang

27, the mouth has a honey belly has a sword. --Shi Ma Guang "Ziji Tongjian - Tang Ji - Xuanzong Tianbao yuan year"

28, "heard his faults, over the day to eliminate and blessing; heard his reputation, transcripts of the day loss and disaster. --Simaguang "Ziji Tongjian - Jin Ji""

29, mountains and rivers just like the old, how many future people. --Simaguang "Close your eyes"

30, see each other as if you do not see, more love is like no love. After the songs and songs are scattered, the wine first woke up, the deep courtyard moon slanting people quiet. -- Sima Guang "Xijiang Yue Bao Bun Loosely Pulled"

31, flat and then clear, clear and then bright -- Sima Guang

32, for the official to choose a person, can not be made, with a gentleman, then the gentleman Bi to, with a small person, then the small man competing for advancement. - Sima Guang "Tang Ji 10 - Taizong Zhen Guan six years"

33, I have no one, but the behavior of life, no one can not speak to the ear. --Shi Ma Guang

34, not treasure gold and jade, but loyalty and trust as treasure. --Shi Ma Guang

35, the birth of the sky, each with a long bias. The country's use of people, ready to all the long. However, the casting of the direction, often do not help, the use is not the long, the long is not used. -- Sima Guang

36, use people like a tool, each take advantage of their strengths. --Shi Ma Guang

37, swordsman eagle team, general white tiger teeth. Split the army logos water, riding hunting sands. I have a book in my sleeve, but it's hard to reach home with a letter. Can not hear the dawn horn, blowing all the fallen plum blossoms. --Sima Guang, "On the Seaside"

38, life is not beneficial to the time, death is not heard in the future, is also self-abandonment. --Shi Ma Guang

39, do not raise the scholar but want to seek the virtuous, such as not cutting jade and seek literary talent. -- Sima Guang

40, the upper to control the lower, the oligarchy to unify the masses, and the discipline is set -- Sima Guang

41, people can not seek to prepare, must give up its short, take its strengths. -- Sima Guang

42, if you ask about the rise and fall of the past and present, please only look at the city of Luoyang -- Sima Guang

43, temporarily like a guest, return to not home. --Shi Ma Guang

44, "but the sunflower to the sun" --Shi Ma Guang

45, good can be the law, evil can be a warning. --Sima Guang, "The Table of Entering the Ziji Tongjian"

Si Ma Guang's Famous Quotations from the Past

1. Seeing each other is like not seeing each other, and how can there be love like there is no love at all? Sima Guang's "The Moon on the Western River"

2. The bun is loosely drawn, the lead is lightly made up, the green smoke and mist cover is light, and the flotsam and jetsam is undefined. I'm not sure if I'll ever see you again, but I'm not sure if I'll ever see you again. When the music and songs are over and the wine has just woken up, the moon is slanting in the deep courtyard and people are quiet. Sima Guang's "The Moon on the Western River"

3. "Twenty-eight to fight the world, quit horse life, galloping thousands of miles, just for the dream of haunting? Sima Guang "Ziji Tongjian"

4, April clear and rain at first clear, the southern mountain when the household turned clear. The wind will not rise from the willow flakes, but the sunflower pours to the sun? Sima Guang "guest in the early summer"

5, the road of governance, we must examine all the rest of their own and strengthen their deficiencies, cover the smart and sparse people to avoid too much investigation, the lesser-heard and lesser-known people to avoid congestion, the brave and strong people to avoid too much violence, love and warmth of the people to avoid no breaks, Cham Jing Anshu people to avoid the time after the wide heart of the vast people to avoid forgetfulness. Must review their own when the precepts and Qi to righteousness, and then neutralization should be, and the clever pseudo-doers do not dare to look forward to than week? Sima Guang "Ziji Tongjian"

6, what is a gentleman? What is a villain? Virtue is greater than talent is a gentleman, talent is greater than virtue is a villain? Sima Guang, "The Great Encyclopedia of Ziji"

7, the correct heart as the foundation, cultivate oneself as the foundation? Sima Guang's

8. If you don't love your relatives, how can you love yourself? Sima Guang's "Family Model"

9, heaven and earth's work can not be hasty, hard work when tired days and months? Sima Guang, "The Family Model"

10, "There is no willow wadding because of the wind, but there are sunflower to the sun? Sima Guang's "Early Summer"

11, all the success of a hundred things in the respect, its failure will be in the slow? Sima Guang

12, for the mother, do not suffer from unkindness, suffering from the knowledge of love and do not know to teach. As the old saying goes: "loving mothers lose children". Love and do not teach, so that the fall in the unscrupulous, trapped in the great evil, into the criminal, to the chaos, not others defeated, mother defeat, since ancient times and now, if so much more, can not be counted? Sima Guang "family model"

13, the family is poor think good wife, national chaos think good phase? Sima Guang

14, read the important book, can not recite? Sima Guang

15, luxury is more desire. The gentleman is more desirous of the idea of adoration of the rich and powerful, in vain, quick disaster? Sima Guang

16, scholars are more important to do, but not more important to know? Sima Guang

17, the way of family harmony: endure endure endure? Sima Guang "family model"

18, talent, the capital of virtue; virtue, the talent of the commander also? Sima Guang

19, all the people are all extravagant for the honor, my heart is only thrifty and simple for the beauty? Sima Guang

20, instead of getting a small man, why not make a fool? Sima Guang

21, the treasure bun loosely pulled on, lead light makeup. The green smoke and mist cover light, the flotsam and jetsam is not fixed? Sima Guang's "Moon on the Western River"

22, tolerate small wrath and save big faith? Sima Guang's "Ziji Tongjian" ("The Great Encyclopedia of Political Science"). Tang Ji VIII

23, the original "Zhou Yi": away from the lower Xun Shang. Family members: Li female chastity. Tuan said: Family members, women are in the right position within, men are in the right position outside, men and women are in the right position, the great justice of heaven and earth. In the family, there is a strict ruler, the parents. The father is the father, the son is the son, the brother is the brother, the brother is the brother, the husband is the husband, the woman is the woman, and the way of the family is right. The world is settled when the family is right? Sima Guang "family model"

24, the good governance of wealth, to raise their own from, and collect all the rest, so inexhaustible, and up and down to the full? Sima Guang

25, if people have no feet, both get Long, and then look at Shu evil! Sima Guang

26, for the official to choose people, only talent is with. Gou or not talented, although the relatives do not use? Sima Guang

27, the mouth has a honey belly has a sword? Sima Guang "Ziji Tongjian? Tang Ji? The first year of Tianbao of Emperor Xuanzong

28. "If you hear of his faults, the faults will be eliminated and the blessings will be realized; if you hear of his reputation, the faults will be lost and the disasters will come", he said. Sima Guang, "Ziji Tongjian? Jin Ji""

29, the mountains and rivers are just like the old, how many future people? Sima Guang "Close your eyes"

30, see each other as if you do not see, more love is like no love. After the songs and songs are scattered, the wine first woke up, the deep courtyard moon slanting people quiet? Sima Guang's West River Moon, Bao Bun Loosely Held

31, flat and then clear, clear and then bright? Sima Guang

32, for the official to choose people, not to make a mistake, with a gentleman, then the gentleman all to, with a small person, then the small man competing in carry on? Sima Guang "Tang Ji ten? Taizong Zhenguan six years"

33, I have no one, but the behavior of life, no one can not speak to the ear? Sima Guang

34, not treasure gold and jade, but loyalty and trust for treasure? Sima Guang

35, the days of the people, each with a long bias. The country's use of people, ready to all the long. However, the casting of the direction, often do not help, the use is not the long, the long is not used? Sima Guang

36, with people like a tool, each take the strengths? Sima Guang

37, swordsman eagle team, general white tiger teeth. The army is divided into logos and water, and the riders are hunting for the sand. Water, riding hunting sand. Waves have books hidden in their sleeves, it is difficult to reach home by letter. I can't bear to hear the dawn horn, blowing all the fallen plum blossoms? Sima Guang's "On the Seaside"

38, life is not beneficial to the time, death is not heard in the future, is self-abandonment? Sima Guang

39, do not raise the scholar and want to seek the virtuous, such as not cutting jade and seek literary talent? Sima Guang

40, the upper to control the lower, oligarchs to unite the masses, and the discipline is set? Sima Guang

41, people can not seek to prepare, must give up its short, take its strength? Sima Guang

42, if you ask about the rise and fall of the past and present, please only see the city of Luoyang? Sima Guang

43, temporarily like a guest, return to not home? Sima Guang

44, "but the sunflower to the sun"? Sima Guang

45, good can be the law, evil can be a warning? Sima Guang "into the Ziji Tongjian table"

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