My parents' feudal thoughts make me very tired. What should I do?

These things happen to children in a city, especially girls, because I am also a city person, but I am a boy.

The reason why parents are like this is, first, to blame this so-called "society" in others' mouths. It is true that this society will make people unpredictable. I'm ten years older than you, and I've been through so much. Second, the contrast between parents' thoughts and this so-called "society" is to help parents brainwash themselves.

Let's put it this way, whether it's the post-70.80 s or the post-90 s, most of the men and women who want to succeed in their careers go out to work in the countryside, and few in the cities. Why? Because people who come out from the countryside to work hard have left their parents, they have to learn to solve everything by themselves, and their parents have no ability. With slow experience, they will have more experience, so they will succeed. The living conditions of children in our so-called cities are indeed better than theirs, but most of us are controlled by our parents. For example, I studied architecture, and when I became a supervisor, my parents wanted me to "eat this bowl of rice" and become a director in the future, with hundreds of thousands a year. However, some migrant workers, excavators and parents are unable to make their own loans and contract earthwork. But if we do this, our parents will break up with you directly. If you are qualified to do it by force, you will succeed, and your parents will say "how can my children do it?" If you don't succeed, your parents will say, "I told you to be a good supervisor, but you didn't listen to the old man." Now, I'll let you fool around. "

So in some ways, especially in career, the parents of children in the city are definitely stumbling blocks, but we can't kick them out. What about interpersonal relationships? I was a boy, a little better than you, and my parents didn't care much, you know.

Personally, I think you should learn from me Dropped out of school at the age of 20 and left home. Because some things, not really because my parents forced me. Because there are some things at home that run away from home, if you don't contact, you won't contact. I must be ruthless. I haven't contacted my mother for eight years. My father died when I left. Eight years later, I made a small achievement and went home. My mother is still my mother, because at that time, I knew that my parents wouldn't really want you. As long as you live well, what about these things? After all, I am a man and you are a woman, so I don't know if I taught you this way. If you have enough social experience, you can try it, because your parents will forgive you whenever you go home and in any state.

It may be selfish to say this, but I want to tell you that the way I teach you is to tell you that you are cheated, because "when" is put there for people to cheat, and no one is cheated, so how can there be the word "cheated"? But people always grow up in despair. This sentence is correct. I remember that after three years away from home, when I really had no money, I called my mother and asked her to give me some money. My mother replied, "No matter where you are, I will take a taxi back to the door to give you money, but don't make trouble when you come back" (I am an only child), but I didn't go back and grew up in despair. That's a hopeless situation (this is what I think, there are no obstacles in the world, and the sun will not stop rising tomorrow because of you). If you met it at that time (it is impossible not to meet it), then your choice is ........................................................................................................................................................

Ask yourself, okay? Ask yourself when you are calm. On the other hand, if not, do you know how enviable the aura of parents is now? I can even tell you that when I came home at the age of 28, I had almost tens of millions of property by myself, and I still regret it now. What about you? Don't say you can do it, I'll ask you, what are you doing for? You know, when your parents are like this, when you have nothing to do, you are disgusted with them, even disgusted, but when you have something to do? I can tell you that no matter who is right or wrong, no matter who is hurt, your parents will protect you at the first time. This is also the painstaking efforts of parents, so when you don't want to be at that home, calmly ask yourself, why did you leave? If it's for my own career, I agree, and even I can help you in some ways, but ask myself again, ok? Can you do it when you encounter any obstacles?