Common sense of cultural etiquette in China

1. Award-winning composition for studying China culture and etiquette in the fourth grade.

Qiqihar, Northeast Network, September 20th, September 18 at 9: 00 am, teachers from Liren Classic Reading School were invited to give a lecture hall on "Speaking Chinese Studies and Understanding Etiquette" for more than 30 school-age children and their parents in jianhua district Xinhai Community Service Center and jianhua district Bukui Street Maternal and Child Service Center.

"Every time a saint teaches filial piety, he believes ..." More than a dozen children aged 4 to 6 read Disciples Rules aloud and began to learn Chinese studies and know manners. How to bow, how to walk, how to sit properly. Under the teacher's demonstration, correct the child's bad posture on the spot, and let the child and parents know "Chang Li Yao Ju" in the interaction.

"The child has a good sitting posture and is rewarded." "I leaned against the door and stood on the threshold, right? Is the posture good? " "No, it's not good-looking." One-on-one answer, these preschool children understand reason and etiquette. Cai Fuhan is 4 years old. She can not only recite Disciples Rules, but also learn to use them flexibly. "My mother asked me to promise immediately, raise my hand to answer the teacher's question, and salute when I see my elders." Nan Zhou, a resident of Wangzai Garden Community, is also deeply educated after class. "We didn't learn these etiquette knowledge when we were young. We should let the children know this from an early age and listen to the teacher's explanation. I feel that Chinese studies are not profound, but teaching people to do things, which is very enlightening. In the future, we must set an example and teach our children to be polite and polite. "

2. Learn the keynote speech on Chinese etiquette

-Speech on "Reading Classics of Chinese Studies, Shaping the Image of Civilization and Being a Teacher of Etiquette" Dear leaders and teachers: Hello everyone! The topic of my speech today is "reading classics of Chinese studies, shaping the image of civilization and being a teacher of etiquette".

The land of China, the classics of Chinese studies have been passed down for thousands of years. As we remember, Lin Xiangru, a generation famous soldier, returned it to Zhao intact, but he was not proud of his work. He still attached great importance to the affairs of state and treated the disrespect of General Lian Po with a broad mind, which resulted in the ritual story of two generals "offering a humble apology".

We remember a generation of sage Confucius, who traveled all over the world and extended in all directions. Even after thousands of difficulties and dangers, he still insisted on the way of educating people without learning etiquette and educated future generations with civilized etiquette. It's really called "the mountain rises and the scenery stops"! The basic principle of being a man-civilized etiquette is not only the primary tool for interpersonal communication, but also the moral standard for people to measure their behavior. In the vast ocean of Chinese classics, we have seen countless poems and chapters that educate future generations with civilized etiquette, splashing down in the long river of history and arousing distant silence! "Disciple Rules" wrote: "Parents can't wait; Parents, don't be lazy. "

There is a saying in the San Zi Jing: "When I was a child, I had little time; Teachers and friends, learn etiquette. " "Guanzi" has a text: "Courtesy, righteousness, honesty and shame, the four dimensions of the country, the four dimensions do not open, the country dies."

"Zuo Zhuan" has a cloud: "Rite, pass the country, settle the country, make the people, and benefit future generations." Xunzi once said: "If people are rude, they will not be born, if things are rude, they will not succeed, and if countries are rude, they will be uneasy."

Confucius said, "Self-denial and courtesy are benevolence. A day of self-denial and self-denial, the world is benevolent. "

This is a wonderful world. Through traveling in the ocean of Chinese studies, I know what is a state of etiquette, what is the principle of being a man, and what is the way to be a teacher.

As teachers, we are not only the source of imparting knowledge, but also the gardener of teaching and educating people, or the messenger of inheriting civilization and the model of carrying forward social civilization. As teachers, our civilized manners should be shown not only in class, but also in life and countless details.

"Don't do it with small goodness, and don't do it with small evil." Everything we say and do will set an example for students and society. Therefore, we should shape our own image and strive to become a teacher of etiquette.

To be a teacher, we must first inherit the civilized language. "Glory and Dedication" says well, "A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June."

When students greet us, a "hello" brings us closer; When students encounter difficulties, the phrase "let me help you" makes the children feel warm; When students get their grades, they say, "Congratulations, come on!" Let children have the motivation to move forward; When the students waved goodbye to us, the phrase "see you later" made the children miss getting along with the teacher. Our civilized and polite language should be like a warm current flowing in every student's heart.

As teachers, we should also inherit civilized behavior. Confucius said, "He is upright and acts without orders. His body is not upright, although he disobeys orders. "

In the corridor, when we bend down to pick up a piece of paper, the children will look for traces of paper scraps peeling behind us; After exercise class, when we hand our children a tissue, they will reach out when others need help. In class, we give our children thumbs up, and they will give us the purest smiles. In life, when we care about their health, they will regard us as their closest relatives.

Our civilized behavior should reverberate in every corner of the campus like a wonderful music. As teachers, we should also inherit the concept of civilization.

Because there must be civilized and noble thoughts behind civilized language and civilized behavior. As Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator in China, said: Learn thousands and be a real person, teach thousands and seek truth. "

To evaluate beauty, we must have a cultivated mind, inherit civilization and have noble thoughts. Our civilized thoughts should fill the campus and ripple in the hearts of students.

Civilization is a mountain, and etiquette is the sea. The mountain is high because it does not exclude every stone; The reason why the sea is wide is that there are thousands of streams.

Let's take the civilized spring breeze of the Reading Festival of "Reading the Sea, Taste the Book" as an opportunity, strictly demand our words and deeds, start from bit by bit, make the best of each other's strengths, * * * shape our lofty feelings and broad cultivation as the sea, and strive to be a teacher of etiquette. Let's embrace civilization with our children and walk with civilization! Let the flower of campus etiquette bloom with a smile forever! My speech is over, thank you.

3. How to combine the etiquette of Chinese studies with entering the park?

At present, there are various educational methods and characteristic training programs in kindergartens, but as educators, after paying attention to cultivating children's abilities and talents, we will find that our children need to strengthen their manners, which can be seen in these children who have just released their knowledge. Where is the naive personality when I was a child?

Learning Chinese etiquette and paying attention to civility and politeness are the embodiment of a country's good social atmosphere and an important symbol of national progress. Although many kindergartens now define "etiquette" as the teaching content instilled in children, for a child who grew up in such a pampered environment, he may be constrained by the strictness of teachers and the mutual supervision of classmates at school, and once he returns home, his nature will be exposed. The effect of this education is of little significance.

It is particularly important for Chinese learning kindergartens to choose the correct educational content and methods. It is indeed a great difficulty to combine kindergarten with Chinese studies education and compile Chinese studies etiquette courses suitable for young children. Zhide Preschool Education Alliance, the first service platform of kindergarten Chinese studies system in China, has built eight systems through 16 years of preschool education experience.

1. Kindergarten Automation Operation Management System (Director Operation Intelligence System)

2. Team management system (teacher team system)

3. Parents' initiative recommendation system (parents' work system)

4. Diversified Chinese studies curriculum system (Chinese studies curriculum system)

5. Environment creation system (registered environment creation system)

6. Easy lesson preparation-free teaching and research system (teaching and research system)

7. Large-scale event specimen planning system (brand event planning)

8. Alliance Family Resource Sharing System (National Alliance Platform Resource Sharing System)

The curriculum system of Chinese studies created by Zhide Preschool Education Alliance enables children to grow into people with good moral cultivation under the influence of Chinese classics.

Zhide Preschool Education Alliance, the first service platform of kindergarten's Chinese culture system in China, summarized the problems encountered by traditional kindergartens in upgrading brand kindergartens, including: kindergarten development and construction without direction, no platform, team fatigue, management system and so on.

1, comprehensively analyze the key points of 10 in brand upgrading of kindergartens, and enhance the core competitiveness of kindergartens without increasing hardware investment.

2, kindergarten brand operation experts, for your garden "physical examination", find the crux, easy to resolve.

3. Guo Xue Kindergarten establishes a mentor to plan your kindergarten 1 to 1, so that your kindergarten can be promoted to the local pre-school education cultural brand benchmark, and the kindergarten brand development plan for the next five years can be made clear for you.

Dexue, the first service platform for Chinese studies kindergartens in China, has integrated more than 200 kindergartens/kloc-0 served in China and the resources of more than 300 allied kindergartens. Build an automatic operation management system and a team management system for kindergartens, and build the brand of kindergartens within six months to one year.

4. Etiquette famous sentences in Chinese studies

1, a gentleman keeps his mouth shut. The Book of Rites

If you don't outdo others, you will attach importance to your self-cultivation and always maintain a leisurely and carefree attitude. No matter how you look at it, how you respond, you are solemn and generous, well-behaved and not rash. Don't slip of the tongue, which means be careful, don't find fault with others, don't hurt people's pain, and don't be sarcastic.

2, people are polite and safe, and rude and dangerous.

The Book of Rites

People are polite, pay attention to etiquette when interacting with others, and speak respectfully and courteously, so they will get along well with others under any circumstances, and will not hurt others or be hurt by others; Otherwise, being rude to others and speaking rudely, no matter how big or small, no matter how long or short, will inevitably lead to contradictions, quarrels and even fists and feet.

3. People who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. Mencius

"Constant" means "permanent and lasting". People who love others will always be loved by others; People who respect others will always be respected by others. This is the old saying, "If you want to respect yourself, you must respect yourself first." .

4. People are rude, but they are not born; Things are rough, but they are not successful; This country is rude and restless. xunzi

People have no manners and cannot survive in society; If you don't pay attention to etiquette, you can't do things successfully; Without etiquette, the country will be in turmoil.

5, be kind to each other, comfortable and warm; Bad words hurt people, make enemies and invite trouble. (proverb)

A pleasant speaking attitude and polite language will make people feel comfortable and warm; A rude attitude and rude remarks will make people resentful and bring disaster.

6, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. (proverb)

A touching word makes people feel a warm current surging in their hearts even in the cold winter; A hurtful word, even in hot summer, will make people feel cold.

5. Stories related to Chinese studies

When I read the "Three Character Classics": childhood, adolescence, being close to teachers and friends, and practicing etiquette, it reminded me of a story, which was Chengmen Sydney.

Now, let me tell you a story. This story is in the Northern Song Dynasty. There is a scholar named Shi Yang in Jiangdong County, Fujian Province. He especially likes studying, looking for teachers and friends everywhere. He studied under the famous scholar Cheng Hao in Luoyang. After Cheng Hao's death, he recommended Shi Yang to his younger brother Cheng Yi to study in Yichuan Academy.

Shi Yang was over forty years old at that time, and his knowledge level was quite high. However, he is still modest and prudent, and respects his teachers and friends. He was deeply loved by Cheng Yi and regarded as a proud pupil by Cheng Yi. One day, you Zuo, who was studying with him, asked Cheng Yi for advice, just in time for the teacher to take a nap in the room.

Shi Yang advised Youzuo not to wake up the teacher, so they stood quietly at the door, waiting for the teacher to wake up. After a while, it snowed heavily and became more and more urgent. Shi Yang and Youzuo are still standing in the snow. Youzuo can't stand the cold. He tried to wake Cheng Yi several times, but Shi Yang stopped him.

It was not until Cheng woke up that he suddenly found two snowmen outside! From then on, Cheng Yi was deeply moved and tried his best to teach foreigners. Shi Yang didn't expect much, and finally learned all the knowledge of the teacher. Later, he returned to the south to spread Cheng Zhu's Neo-Confucianism and formed a unique school, known as "Mr. Kameyama".

This story tells us that when we are young, we should get close to our tutors, make friends and learn manners and knowledge from them.