Parents have traditional ideas and outdated concepts. How to communicate with parents is the most acceptable?

If you can't understand your parents face to face, you can communicate with them by letter. In fact, parents are concerned about their children's future and will not give them trouble for no reason.

In the letter, you can write down your feelings and thoughts, so that your parents can fully understand your true thoughts. You can also tell your parents that you need their understanding and your own independent space, but you must show your respect for your parents at the beginning of the letter. For example, it begins with "Hello parents ...". Don't write the content too rigidly. Use more vivid and interesting words to let parents feel the ups and downs of your inner activities and feelings while reading.

Don't question your parents in the letter, but express more entreaties. For example, "Give me some freedom, I'm suffocating". In addition, you should also consider it from your parents' point of view and express it euphemistically. Don't let their love oppress you. For example, "I know you are all good for me, but what I need is not …" In short, let parents feel what feelings you want to express to them from different angles.

It can be said that this method is the most acceptable to parents. After receiving your letter, they will also consider whether they are asking too much of you, so they will relax their demands on you and care more about your love life.

Be sure to communicate with your parents calmly, and it is best to regard your parents as your friends. Communicate with parents calmly. What they say is not necessarily wrong. There is an old saying that if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer. The old man eats more salt than you. There is nothing wrong with this sentence. If you think what your parents say is wrong, don't refute it to your face. Respecting parents is also a kind of filial piety.

Summary: I think parents can say whatever they like. How did he coax you when you were a child? When he is old, he needs you to coax them and communicate with them with your heart. There is no need to change anything. If you are excellent and don't worry about your parents, you have the right to change. What can you communicate with? Is this a fact?