Why is your family getting poorer and can you tell why?

Why is your family getting poorer and poorer?

A family or a family will get poorer and poorer reasons, I summarized a few, there is no summary of the place, people in the comments section to add.

The first one is that in the whole family, there is no older person with a bigger pattern to lead the way, there is no family tradition or family style to pass on, and all the younger generation are working for others.

Secondly, the younger generation in the family will be bound by the children, he can't let go to go out, and the elders will only use the past to teach the younger generation, we need to give birth to more children, as for how to educate the children to give birth to, how to lead the way, the elders will think that as long as you can give birth to, then we will be able to afford to raise.

Thirdly, the elder only cares about his own comfort, and he can't take any correct experience to pass on to the younger generation, when he is old and needs someone to take care of him, only then will he remember his own children.

Fourth, siblings will always do their own, hearts are not united, not united, the whole family is like a plate of scattered sand it, and occasionally can rely on their own efforts to turn over the success of the so one or two out, but he and the family side of the whole of the affinity will be estranged to almost no, because of all the most difficult things are his own to stick down.

The fifth, dare not imagine. The poor often find excuses for their own failure, they will always think: have done their best; forget it, I only have so much energy; other people have a good time is that other people are smarter than us, always confined to the imagination. The difference between success and failure is not the difference in ability, but the difference in not holding on. The poor people often do things without permanence, do a period of time to think about giving up, especially no return or encounter difficulties, it is easier to compromise.

In fact, a really good family, are several generations of mutual incentives, mutual support, *** with the efforts of a result, really can rely on a person's efforts to reverse the fate of the very few. Some elders in spurring the younger generation to let him work hard, but also think about it, you have come over this life, you bring the family what, inheritance of some what?