Famous sentences related to family education

1, family education combines leniency with severity, and family members are safe all their lives.

-Lu Desheng (word near the stream)

When parents criticize their children, please save some face for them. Successful family education comes from parents' in-depth understanding, acceptance and respect for their children, rather than exposing their shortcomings.

Lv Bin

3. Family education should change from experienced educators to scientific educators, from one-sided emphasis on book knowledge to emphasis on teaching children how to behave correctly, from simple orders to equal communication.

-Li Lanqing

Parents should not command their children in a commanding tone. Children should have proper entertainment before staying up late. Don't punish children in front of others.

-Chen Heqin's family education

Parents need to make their children awe and respect, not by being strict, but by being able to make their children admire and respect you everywhere in their behavior, then the children will respect and respect you in unison.

If parents' perverse and frivolous behaviors are enough to arouse children's contempt, then even if you beat them and scold them every day, they are not afraid of you.

-Chen Heqin's family education

6. When a child threatens to cry, parents absolutely refuse him.

-Chen Heqin's family education

7. Before being educated, a child is like a Sossus; After education, it seems that every silk has been colored. It is good to learn well, and it is not good to learn poorly. When he doesn't study well, it is not easy for his parents to teach him well in the future.

-Chen Heqin's family education

8. Children should be honest. Parents should be honest first. If they are dishonest, children will never be honest.

-Chen Heqin's family education

9. Many children's fears are mostly cultivated by their parents' hints. Parents themselves are afraid of this and that, so they don't want their children to be bold. Children are easily hinted at. Terrible hints will make children afraid; But the suggestion of anti-fear can make children dispel their fears. Therefore, we parents should be careful about our actions and words, so that our children will not be timid.

-Chen Heqin's family education

10. In family education, parents should not only protect their children's lives, but also protect their nature, hobbies and personal interests. In fact, many children's natural hobbies or interests sometimes conflict with society, schools and others. When a child faces conflict, he always has some kind of fear, because sometimes it is difficult for him to judge whether he is doing right or not, or whether his way is appropriate.

This time is actually a good way for parents to protect their children. What I mean by protecting children is not unprincipled connivance, but a responsibility of parents for their children's personal safety. To do this, parents need to have some choices and responsibilities.

Today, we live in a complex environment, and children may be in danger at any time and anywhere. Parents must have a clear sense of safety in order to better protect their children. We should also convince the child that his parents are willing and capable of protecting him, so that he will naturally come to his parents.

-Zhang Wenzhi's Milk Honey Salt-The First Law of Family Education

1 1. In family education, I firmly believe that parents must stand behind their children unconditionally.

This view has been questioned by many parents: when you say that you want to stand behind your child unconditionally, do you mean that no matter what mistakes your child makes, we must support him? Standing behind a child unconditionally does not mean standing behind what the child does unconditionally, but standing behind the child's life unconditionally. Priority should be given to protecting children's lives and preventing any dangerous things from happening.

In my opinion, parents should put their children's life safety above any right or wrong judgment. Only when parents really do this can children build a strong trust in their parents.

-Zhang Wenzhi's Milk Honey Salt-The First Law of Family Education

12, if you can express all the essence of family pedagogy in a few words, that is, let children become firm people and be strict with themselves. I seem to be exaggerating here: if he is invited to the wedding, even if everyone present is drunk, his mother believes that her children will come home sober.

-Suhomlinski

13. For parents, family education is self-education first.

-Krupskaya

14. Another content of family education is to cultivate children's obedience. The cultivation of obedience can make children have the desire to grow up. On the other hand, if you don't pay attention to cultivating children's obedience, he will become abrupt and arrogant.

-Hegel

15, the child is like a piece of white cloth, unconsciously stained with color, mother's teaching, etiquette, family education needless to say, even the subconscious actions of adults are imitated by him, and this absorption is meticulous. Since ancient times, people have said that "children are the mirror of mothers", but once this image is illuminated, it will not disappear easily and will remain on children for life. Considering this, I'm afraid the metaphor of mirror is not appropriate enough.

Daisaku Ikeda

16. In any case, first of all, let the children grow up freely, which is the expression of parents' deep affection, and this affection must be the purpose of running a family. Parents must be narrow-minded, emotional, or completely dependent on the authority of their elders and so on. These are harmful to family education.

Daisaku Ikeda