Funeral Customs in Linzi, Zibo

Compared with the man's family, the procedure is much simpler.

You only ask your elders (father or uncle, uncle) to take you to your mother-in-law's house to pay homage on the funeral day.

1. In the early years, sacrifice was also very complicated, and it was necessary to be a "sacrifice". It's much simpler now, as long as "money" is enough, that is to say, when buying money, there are generally two copies of "money worship": one is placed in a place where "foreign things are expensive", that is, where Zhuang's blind date is "sealed", and a symbolic tens of dollars is enough; The other is the "ghost" place for bookkeeping. This is the place where relatives collect accounts, and there must be a lot of them. If you give a funeral to your mother-in-law, you can decide for yourself according to your income and status. Generally, there are many respectable people, so be sure to write down the names of "male elders".

2, the man's family sent two sisters (or the man's sister-in-law) to give your object "filial piety", that is, to help, so as not to be too sad.

3. Inform the man's sisters and brothers that they may "collect money" for your other half, commonly known as "accept the head".

4. If you have a son, because it is a funeral for your son and grandmother, you need to customize the "ban". If you forget what color it is, it may be blue, which is generally understood by people who sell wreaths. Your son must "kneel down", "treat guests" and "thank guests" in the mourning hall and cry to the grave after the funeral. If it is a girl, this article 4 is completely exempted.

You don't need to kneel in Peng Ling. Moreover, as a "guest", you will usually be arranged to "sit at a table" with your elders. Usually after dinner, people go to funerals (customs vary from place to place now). Only when they go to the funeral, follow the team to the grave (even if they don't go to the grave, they can leave the village) to complete the task.

At this time, you can follow your elders and take your children home.