Why do many young people resist blind date?

Blind date is a common way of marriage introduction in China traditional culture, but in modern society, many young people don't like blind date, the main reasons include the following:

First, mandatory and passive. Blind dates are often introduced by parents, relatives and friends, not by young people themselves. This passivity and compulsion make young people feel stressed and uncomfortable. Blind date is often carried out under the pressure of family, society and culture, not because you really want to get married or find someone.

Second, information asymmetry. The blind date may not know enough about each other, and the blind date occasions are often restrained, so it is difficult to really communicate and understand each other. Therefore, many young people think that the information of blind date is asymmetric, and it is difficult to know the real situation of the other party, and it is also difficult to determine whether it is really appropriate.

Third, the unsuitable object. Because blind date is often introduced by parents or relatives and friends, it is difficult to guarantee the quality and matching degree of the object. Some young people may feel that the blind date doesn't match them, or they are quite different from their hobbies and life values, which also makes them unwilling to participate in blind date.

Fourth, choose diversification. With the increasing diversity and openness of modern society, young people have more ways and channels to choose their partners, such as meeting the opposite sex through social networks, parties and hobbies. Compared with the traditional blind date, these new ways of understanding are more free and open, and can better meet the individual needs of young people.

To sum up, the reasons why many young people resist blind date include compulsion and passivity, asymmetric information, inappropriate objects and diversified choices. To change this situation, parents and society also need to respect the choices and wishes of young people, and at the same time, they need to promote the development of young people's marriage and love through more channels and ways.