How to make out with your girlfriend without refusing?

First of all, she is a traditional girl. Sexually, it's slower. Because in her heart, she can't accept to respond to your love by warming up. Maybe she likes other contact methods. You should try to get her interested in you before she can respond. Her thoughts are always wandering in the old ideas of the past. She may subconsciously resist the intimacy of intimate contact between couples, or she may be afraid that after the passion, you will break up. Her mental disorder is a problem. Fear of deep love is not that she doesn't want to accept you, but that she has to overcome her inner difficulties in order to live the way you want. You should talk to her patiently, let her know that your mind will not give up on her because of close contact, let her really believe in you, and let her know that the purpose of your doing this is caused by your warm feelings. And you have to tell her that she has grown up and can undertake things between men and women, so when she accepts you, she must open her heart, open the closed protective layer and show her fiery heart to listen to your love, so that her feelings can have a longer-term development space. The flower of love will last forever!