Thoughts on reading Fu Lei's letter

During his wandering life in a foreign country, Fu Cong learned a lot of spiritual nutrition from his father's letters. Always give him guidance, encouragement and encouragement. Let's walk into Fu Lei's letter world together. Next, I will sort out my thoughts on Fu Lei's letters. Welcome to read!

The feeling of reading Fu Lei's letter 1 With the rapid development of society, people's living standards are constantly improving, but there are still some family problems hidden in it. For example, the communication between children and parents is a big problem. However, Fu Lei often communicates with his son in a foreign country through letters, which is worth learning from his parents and friends.

As a middle school student, my family is relatively open, so the communication problem between parents and children is not too serious, but it is a bit. For example, when I was an otaku, my family always said that I was too busy to go out and play with my friends. What should I do if I get sick? So they told me to go out more. Now I am a complete "little madman". I can go out to play and never stay at home. Whenever I say I want to go out to play, they say I don't know how to study when I go out every day, even if I haven't been out for a week. I don't even know whether I should go out to play or stay at home.

Fortunately, I have a father who will actively communicate with children like Fu Lei, but through talking with my classmates, I found that they have very little communication with their parents. It is not so much that there is no, but that parents can't pull their faces down and children can't afford to be brave. If neither side takes the initiative to "attack", the problem will only get worse.

Let's think about how Fu Lei communicated with his son. First of all, he can "save face". No matter his elders, he still "humbly" asks about his son's recent situation and thinks about his son's back and forth. When his son goes to the competition, he should think of his son. If his son returns to China to perform, he and his wife can meet his son, but going to the competition again may affect his performance.

The whole book can reflect Fu Lei's deep love for his son. In their time, the way of communication was very simple, and letters were the most important one. In the past, Fu Lei's letters had to travel across the ocean to reach his son. In this case, he and his son can have so much communication. Now we can contact each other through a phone call and a WeChat. Can we still be stumped by this question? No, we make it smaller and smaller. In fact, it's just something as tiny as a grain of dust.

I hope all students can read this book well and see how Fu Lei communicates with his son. At the same time, I also hope that parents can accompany their children in the process of reading, * * * study together and * * * make progress together.

Feelings of Reading Fu Lei's Letters 2 In our traditional culture in China, affection and filial piety occupy an extremely important position. No matter how big a child is, no matter how much he has achieved, he is still a child in the eyes of parents. As Fu Cong, one of the protagonists in Letters from Fu Lei (who is over eighty), said, "I think many people always ask me about my letters from home, as if I were a child. I am no longer a child in a' letter from home'! "

Yes, while we are still reading Fu Lei's letters from generation to generation, Fu Cong has gradually drifted away and established his own "home"-a world-famous pianist with unique personality, extensive knowledge and cynicism. In his body, there are distinct double overlapping shadows: Fu Cong in music and Fu Cong in humanities. Musician Fu Cong is full of poetry and fantasy, and is called "the piano poet". There is a pure, simple and magical classical beauty in his piano sound; As a humanistic Fu Cong, he dabbled in the traditional culture of China. He is knowledgeable and outspoken. There is a contradictory duality in him: rebellion and obedience; Delicate and rough; Integrity and tolerance; Poetic and tragic.

Seeing Fu Cong with so many auras, we can't help thinking of the devoted and painstaking father in Letters from Fu Lei. The father, who is extremely strict with his son's professional requirements and extremely concerned about the trivial matters of life, leads us ideologically, helps us emotionally and brings us too much touch and shock. In real life, there are too many examples of "father and son are enemies", which makes people sad and worrying. Looking back on the father-son relationship between Fu Lei and Fu Cong, they are not only beloved relatives, but also harmonious teachers and students, and even more common friends and bosom friends. Letters from home full of affection for calves give us too much thinking and inspiration.

"When I went to bed last night, I warmed your childhood again. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of two or three and six or seven, like a sketch, which makes us happy and worried. " I'm afraid this is something parents often do, especially when their children grow up and travel far away from home. I couldn't sleep all night thinking about the night before my son left for the military camp. I got up at three in the morning and wrote a letter to my son. There seems to be a thousand words to say. In the end, it means paying attention to your health, studying hard and obeying orders. Great intellectuals like Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are no exception, but they have such incomparable happiness: "My son has become a friend. What else in the world can compare with this happiness! " Moreover, Fu Lei made no secret of his praise for his son's merits: "In the process of getting along with you, I learned patience, speaking skills and sublimation!" What a good father to learn from children!

In the dialogue and communication of music, Fu Lei showed his profound artistic attainments. He taught Fu Cong more than once that painting, music and literature are interlinked, and his works need to inject his own feelings to impress people, instead of deliberately pursuing gorgeous beauty. "Art is the purpose, and skill is the means. People who always pay attention to means will inevitably forget his purpose. " In fact, this is also very enlightening for us as teachers. Every class we have can be regarded as our work. We should not only pay attention to classroom teaching skills, but also pay attention to children's learning and teacher-student interaction. This is a process in which teachers and students grow together. What is our purpose? Of course, children can really learn knowledge, so as long as we have a heart that loves education and pour our true feelings into classroom teaching, I believe there will be greater gains!

Because Fu Cong went abroad early and was deeply influenced by western culture, he did not forget his motherland and traditional culture. This is inseparable from Fu Lei's careful education. When his son won great honor, he reminded him: "The wealth and reputation mentioned by Confucius are like clouds, and the modern names also belong to spiritual wealth. The name outside the body is only pursued and amazed by ordinary people in society; It has nothing to do with the smallness and greatness of the individual itself. " In dealing with feelings, he leads like this. "As the old saying goes,' a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water'; There is also a saying that' husband and wife respect each other as guests'. It can be seen that only calm, subtle and gentle feelings can last, and husband and wife will be completely confidants and friends, which is what we call lifelong companions. "

In terms of cultural differences between China and the West, he analyzed that "China people are mostly peaceful, indifferent and simple-minded, and they are more satisfied than westerners. The ideal of China people is to pursue wisdom rather than faith. We only saw that the ancients mentioned enlightenment and never regarded faith as a pleasure in life (this is precisely the happiness in the eyes of Westerners). " In terms of financial management, he enlightened, "As the old saying goes, it is better to cut expenditure than to increase revenue. Our desire is endless, the so-called' hunger for food'. If we go hand in hand, we can use as much as we can, even if we fight for money every day. " When writing China's Chinese characters, he corrected his mistakes like this: "Don't write' competition' when you are afraid, and don't write' what is the same? "This is an intellectual in China, and this is a father in China, always reminding overseas travelers not to forget the culture of China and the motherland!

What's more commendable is that the father told his son many times that writing more letters and discussing more problems are more opportunities to sort out ideas, and many perceptual knowledge can be transformed into rational knowledge. Such training cannot be ignored. Writing more letters can inspire you at any time and help you with your future study. "People always have to push themselves. If they don't force themselves, they can't solve the problem. " It is with this kind of persecution that we have our favorite letter from Fu Lei.

Back to real life, should we spend more time and think more about writing notes for our elderly parents, for our growing children and for our classmates? Let's drink to our rapidly passing years!

3 "To serve the people, one doesn't have to stand at the conference to give a speech or do earth-shattering things, and tell others what he knows and thinks at any time and place. This is virtually sowing seeds, fertilizing and cultivating the country." This is a passage written by Fu Lei to his son's family. I saw a father inculcating his son in a letter from Fu Lei, and there was a trace of concern between the lines. My love for Fu Lei and his son deeply touched me.

This book mainly talks about how Fu Lei tells children how to be a man, how to engage in art and how to treat life in his letter. He taught his son to be a modest and prudent person and an "artist with both virtue and art". In life, Fu Lei also actively teaches his son. From letters from home to career, life, art to eating, I think of him. Moreover, he dares to admit his mistakes in front of his children and give experience and teaching from his own experience.

"Letters from Fu Lei" fully embodies Fu Lei's thoughts, and what is written on paper is all some household words. Letters from Fu Lei is like a clear spring, and the feelings are so pure and simple. Fu Lei loves his children, but at the same time he doesn't forget to educate his son. Fu Lei's love for Fu Cong did not turn into that kind of ordinary warmth, but always put morality and art before their feelings. Just as his strict discipline of Fu Cong's childhood is not recognized by ordinary people, this is his deeper love for his son. From Fu Lei's words, I saw his hard work as a father on the road of his son's growth.

From the book, I also felt the good intentions of my parents and the lofty love they gave us. As Fu Lei said to his son in his letter, "Son, I am afraid I have learned as much from you as you have from me. Especially in the past three years, you have added many profound experiences to my life. I learned patience, speaking skills and sublimation from getting along with you! "

So "Letters from Fu Lei" has brought us closer to our parents and let us know each other and understand each other.

Comments on Fu Lei's Letters 4. Fu Lei's Letters Collection is a "devoted and fatherly teaching book, and the best reading for art apprentices". A book about how to educate children, A Letter from Fu Lei is a collection of letters written by Fu Lei, a famous literary translator, literary critic and art critic in China, to his son.

Fu Lei is a sincere person. I think it should be an honor to have such a father, because he treats his children as independent individuals, admits his mistakes and is sincere.

Fu Lei's letter opened a window for us to understand the past history and well preserved the memory of that era. It is precisely because of its existence that the excellent morality of the Chinese nation is clearly interpreted. It is not only Fu Lei's education for children, but also the criterion for us to act.

In fact, Fu Lei is just one of Qian Qian's parents, and he is also one of the representatives of Qian Qian's parents. He has the most common and common love in the world, and it is also the greatest and most sacred love in the world, but in fact, our parents also have such great parental love as Fu Lei.

After reading this book, I understand that it is natural for parents to love their children. Being a mother, I really realized the taste of the word "distressed", thinking that maternal love is hot, but I don't know enough about it. Like some "responsible" parents, I expect too much from my children, or I am eager to achieve success. I pay attention to adjust my mentality and have heart-to-heart communication with my children.

I read Fu Lei's letter and saw this book for the first time. To tell you the truth, I was a little disgusted at that time because the cover of this book was not good-looking. But after reading it carefully, I changed the book.

If you communicate with your family about your life and study by writing letters, how long can a letter last? How many letters can I write? The Frey family answered this question well. Because the book "Letters from Fu Lei" is full of correspondence between Fu Lei and his wife and son Fu Cong for more than ten years. Sometimes a letter can fit into a book of up to five pages. Letters are all handwritten, and more than ten years of letters are enough to publish books, which shows the length and value of letters.

Most of the contents of the letter are Fu Lei's guidance on his son's studies and personality, his concern for his life and physical health, and his emotional guidance. Occasionally, some parents express their feelings for his son. But what all these letters have in common is that Fu Lei and his wife obviously love their son. Whether in music guidance, personality advice, or advice when dealing with feelings, you can feel Fu Lei's concern and expectation for his son. Didn't our parents tell us what Fu Lei said to our son? Have parents ever told us about their shortcomings in character? Have you ever stood and watched the homework you are finishing? Have you ever talked to yourself about getting into a good university? ..... At that time, Fu Lei was just an ordinary' father', hoping that his children would grow up and be carefully nurtured.

Fu Cong didn't live up to his father's expectations. In the letter, Fu Lei wrote down the joy mainly because of Fu Cong's progress and achievements abroad. And all this, naturally, is due to Fu Lei. Fu Lei and Fu Cong live in harmony in the atmosphere of correspondence, which is probably the best family atmosphere that every family yearns for.

If we can, like Fu Cong, listen carefully to our parents' daily nagging, reflect on and correct our own shortcomings, I believe we will achieve something in the future.

After reading Fu Lei's letter 6, every letter from home is a cultural heritage, let alone a letter from Fu Lei. Letters from home, as the name implies, refer to letters exchanged between family members and relatives. About after the appearance of words, letters from home appeared, which can be said to have a long history. With the gradual enrichment of written language and the invention of paper, letters from home have gradually become popular, and today, letters from home are one of the ties to maintain family ties.

Letters after letters express deep feelings between the lines, reflecting beautiful interpersonal relationships, noble living standards, excellent behavior and moral traditions, and patriotic enthusiasm of boxing. These contents are all part of the excellent culture of the Chinese nation. Take Letters from Fu Lei as an example. The general theme of nearly 100 letters from Fu Lei is to educate children, base themselves on and act according to Chinese civilization. To be successful, we must serve the motherland first. Family letter can be said to be the best interpretation of the excellent morality of the Chinese nation.

Fu Lei's letter opened a window for us to understand the past history and well preserved the memory of that era. It is precisely because of its existence that the excellent morality of the Chinese nation is clearly interpreted. It is not only Fu Lei's education for children, but also the criterion for us to act.

In addition to teaching people to stand up and act, Fu Lei's letter is full of affection and touching between the lines. I can't help thinking of my parents. Although they are not great men, they are not as famous as Fu Lei, and they won't talk about putting people in one position, but they always think of me, and they will think of me first and plan for me no matter what they do. Fu Lei's letters contain many truths about being a man and being a man, which is a valuable spiritual wealth. However, isn't the daily teaching of parents the criterion of standing and acting? My parents are not as reasonable as Fu Lei, but they have always been very kind to me.

After reading Letters from Fu Lei, I learned a lot about being a human being and felt the greatness of family ties.

Comments on Fu Lei's Letters 7. Fu Lei's Letter is an excerpt from a letter written by Fu Lei and his wife to Fu Cong and Fu Min.

This is not an ordinary letter from home, it is the best reading material for art apprentices, and it is also a painstaking teaching article full of fatherly love. It is human nature to love his son, but Fu Lei always puts moral art first and family affection second.

Reading Fu Lei's letters, we can see a father's deep love for his son, and also highlight Fu Lei's profound artistic attainments, love and respect for friends in life, and political concern for national development. He can also discuss the various personality characteristics of art with his son as friends and confidants, and can also teach children the truth of being a man and let them experience the love of their parents. This naturally reminds us that our parents, like Fu Lei, may have a yearning for us, expecting us to become adults and have a deep and unreserved love.

One letter after another expresses deep affection between the lines, embodying perfect interpersonal relationship, noble living standard, excellent conduct and moral tradition. Taking Letters from Fu Lei as an example, the general theme of nearly 100 letters from Fu Lei's family is to educate children, stand on their feet and act according to Chinese etiquette; It is very important to serve the motherland if you are determined to succeed. Family letter can be said to be the best interpretation of the excellent morality of the Chinese nation. Letters from Fu Lei opens a window for us to clearly explain the excellent morality of the Chinese nation. It is not only Fu Lei's education for children, but also the criterion for us to act.

If you carefully taste this good book, you will find a different family world and understand a different human world.

After reading "Fu Lei's Letter" and opening "Fu Lei's Letter", a series of affectionate letters from home came into view. Parents' earnest instruction and children's gratitude all flowed into my heart unconsciously.

Letter from Fu Lei is not only a letter, but also a platform for artistic exchange between Fu Lei and Fu Cong, and profound artistic skills can be seen everywhere. In the fresh words, I can also feel the deep affection between father and son, even though I am separated from Wan Li, I still feel it.

The most common thing in letters from home is about music. Father and son often talk about their views on music, their feelings about music works and their comments on artists in letters at home. Fu Cong won the third place in the 5th Chopin Piano Competition. He is a famous pianist and has been praised by famous musicians at home and abroad. These contributions are inseparable from his strict father.

Fu Lei disciplined Fu Cong when he was a child. It was the 1940s, and even Shanghai, an isolated city surrounded by Japanese invaders, was filled with an evil and poisonous atmosphere. Mr. Fu Lei doesn't let his children play in the street. He keeps them at home and cultivates his own music and culture. He also pays great attention to children's words and deeds and living habits. He asked the children to live frugally and study hard, and supervised Fu Cong to play the piano for several hours every day. However, Fu Lei is not a rigid education. Once, Fu Cong was practicing the piano, and suddenly he was inspired. He skipped and ran his own music. Father felt abnormal and came downstairs. Fu Cong frighten hurried back to the music. But this time, Fu Lei not only didn't blame Fu Cong, but told him to play the music himself. The father and son studied it together and named the music just now "Spring".

When Fu Cong grew up, he went abroad to study and perform, and Fu Lei's letters from home always accompanied him. When Fu Cong was struggling outside, his letters from home were his only comfort. In the early morning of September 3, 1999, Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei left this world with heavy mental shackles. More than two months later, when Fu Cong learned the bad news from a French friend, he was dizzy and burst into tears.

People love their son more than anything else. Fu Lei's painstaking efforts to the children are all integrated in a letter from home. Fu Cong learned his faith and spirit from his father's letters while living in a foreign country. Put him in the situation of an overseas orphan, as if his parents were still around to teach, encourage and spur him, and give him more courage and strength to overcome all kinds of difficulties and obstacles and go his own way. He refused invitations from countries hostile to the motherland and never did anything detrimental to the dignity of the motherland. This spirit of loving the motherland is inseparable from the ardent patriotic education that Fu Lei gave him thousands of miles away.

Fu Cong's artistic attainments are inseparable from his father Fu Lei's careful teaching. Fu Lei is gone, but the letter from home is still there. The love and spirit brought by Fu Lei's letters will always affect the next generation.

After reading Fu Lei's letter, everyone realized the kindness and teaching of their parents. When I read this letter from home, I felt a different kind of education. I seem to have found the son of another parent, which most children can't understand. Those letters from home, like precious heart-to-heart confidences again and again, have brought us closer.

After reading Letters from Fu Lei, I was really moved by Mr. Fu Lei's seriousness about life and his care for children. Letters from home range from career and art of living to eating, dressing and spending money. Parents can learn how to educate their children, art students, especially piano students, can learn how to improve their skills, and friends who are interested in the history from the early days of liberation to this period can also get some understanding from Fu Lei's description. What impressed me most about this book is to strengthen personal cultivation. As can be seen from the words in the letters from home, Fu Lei is a person who is very strict with himself, and even has a bitter taste in some aspects. Fu Lei asked his son to set three principles: don't say anything sorry for the motherland, don't do anything sorry for the motherland, and don't become a citizen. The spirit of loving one's son and teaching one's son is touching.

Some people think that letters are the most authentic, natural and honest words. Yes, because what you write comes to mind immediately, and where the thoughts go, the words go. This is especially true when writing to relatives. He dares to analyze himself, admit his mistakes in front of his children, and give experiences and lessons from his own experiences. So, I want to read Fu Lei's book. We should be reading Fu Lei himself. Fu Lei also teaches students in accordance with their aptitude. In Fu Cong's music education, he initially emphasized skills, and then repeatedly asked him to really understand the work itself. In other words, he always thinks from the perspective of "why" and looks at the essence of things.

Fu Lei's own ideological experience in educating children is also constantly improving. What we see in Fu Lei is the idea of the integration of Chinese and western cultures. Noble parents raise successful children. Fu Lei and his wife have been working hard to raise their two children all their lives, and both children are very successful. Parents' inculcation, sincere communication between children and parents, and affection between the lines all gave me strong infection and enlightenment.

After reading Fu Lei's book, I know a lot and know my parents better. This book is not only an educational book, but also a book that can bring parents and children closer together, so that children can know their parents better and parents can know their children better.