Is it still important for contemporary young people to fall in love?

"Suitability" still has a certain importance in the love of contemporary young people.

First of all, from the perspective of family and social background, "the right match" can ensure the matching of family and social status of both sides and reduce the contradictions and conflicts that may arise because of class differences. Secondly, from the perspective of economic conditions, "suitable for each other" can ensure that both sides have a relatively stable economic foundation and can adapt to the needs of future life and development. Third, from the perspective of cultural values, "caring for each other" can make the two sides more compatible in values and living habits and reduce obstacles to communication and getting along. Fourthly, from the perspective of social circle and interpersonal relationship, "being suitable for each other" can make both sides have the same social circle and network resources, which is helpful to each other's career development and social activities. Fifth, from the long-term perspective of marriage, "matching the right family" can provide a stable foundation for marriage and increase the chances of happiness in the future.

However, we can also supplement the "door-to-door" from a broader perspective. For example, the diversity and openness of contemporary social values make people pay more attention to personal quality and personality when choosing a spouse, rather than being limited to social status and economic conditions. In addition, today's young people put more emphasis on individual autonomy and the pursuit of happiness. They prefer the partnership of freedom, equality and respect to the traditional partnership.

To sum up, "being suitable for each other" still plays a certain role in the love of contemporary young people, especially considering family background, economic conditions, cultural values, social circles and the long-term development of marriage. However, with the changes of the times and the diversification of people's values, we should also pay attention to personal quality, personality and pursuit of happiness, rather than taking "mutual suitability" as the only criterion. Finally, everyone should weigh the pros and cons according to their actual situation and values and make a choice that suits them.