Seek advice: about Henan's way of treating the elderly, habits, mentality, customs

As a native of Henan, I think Henan people are very traditional in supporting the elderly, although in recent years there are a lot of people are not willing to support the elderly at home, and some of them also drive their own parents out of the house, causing the elderly to sue their children's phenomenon. These are not deserved, I think, Henan people in general in the support of the elderly, first of all, in addition to the material on them to have the necessary guarantees, the most important thing is the spiritual care, usually go home to see the old man, more with them to chat, talk to them, they are feeling very happy, that you are very filial piety to them. This is more important than anything else!