How many people are suitable for picking up girls?

Married men usually have 4-6 people to take care of their relatives. This number will not be too large, which will cause confusion when taking the bride, nor will it be too small and imposing, which will show disrespect for the woman. Marrying a bride is an indispensable part of marriage, and there is no explicit provision on who will make up the bride-marrying group and how much to leave. But after all, marriage is a major event in life, and everything should be paid attention to, so the choice of the bride group is still worth noting.

Generally, it depends on local customs to take a few people to visit. Generally speaking, the number of people who pick up relatives is even. For large-scale weddings, the number of people who pick up relatives can reach 4-8, and for small-scale weddings, there are not so many people who pick up relatives, but 2-3 people are enough. Of course, some areas are singular, and unclear newcomers can ask their elders.

Introduction by relatives

The bride selection in a man's wedding is usually when the sedan chair is carried to the center of the courtyard dam and the hall is not parked. Mr. Li made a few polite remarks, indicating that he had successfully completed the task of choosing a bride. After the hostess thanked him politely on behalf of the host, the sedan chair stopped.

Then, a beautiful young and articulate aunt or elder sister selected by the man's master, holding cypress or safflower, went to lift the curtain of the sedan chair and said, "A purple cloud in the east, a red flower in the west and a red flower in the purple cloud, please get off the sedan chair." If the bride doesn't get off the sedan chair, she will pull her relatives and say, "Listen, new girl, pull her relatives and get off the sedan chair quickly, lest your brother be sad."

When the bride gets off the sedan chair, she takes off the corolla (the sedan chair is connected with the corolla) and keeps the hijab. She will make a red silk (cloth) belt with two knots, one for the bride and the other for her own holding, and lead the bride into the first room step by step. At this time, the man knew the guest's words: "play gongs and drums, play suona, pick up new people, go to the husband's house, go to the courtyard dam, and have big red flowers." After entering the room, the hostess still presided over the chapel.