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Reflective consciousness is to put feelings into your real life and talk about feelings with examples in life, because the purpose of "feelings" is to guide practical actions, otherwise it is meaningless. The following are my thoughts on the open class of family education in 2022, hoping to provide you with reference and reference.

Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (1) At the beginning of September, I learned about colorful sunshine education by chance. Although I have only been in the group for a few days, I joined the group without hesitation in order to learn family education methods from Mr. Han more systematically. Although I have always paid close attention to family education and bought many related books to study, I have always felt that it is meaningless. You forget after reading it, and you can't apply what you have learned. My son grows up day by day and has more and more ideas. He can't obey me as before, which makes our relationship more and more tense. His father and I are in a hurry and don't know how to educate. Loose management, free children, strict management. He also has a strong antagonism, anxiety and helplessness ... He has studied courseware for more than a week and listened to several classes of parent-child communication. He thinks that Mr. Han's class is very operable and suitable for us. I also learn slowly and keep thinking and practicing as the teacher says.

To sum up my experience:

1. Good parent-child relationship is the basis of all family education methods. Without a good parent-child relationship, it is difficult to move forward.

I used to educate my son in the most traditional way, asking him to obey my arrangements and orders unconditionally, and not to object. Causing my son to either suppress crying or strongly confront me, both of which will hurt. After studying, I understand that I should regard him as my best friend and treat him fairly, not unilaterally. The purpose of education is not to control him, but to make him grow better.

I have always thought that the most important thing in educating children is to let them study hard, and there are few other moral and habit education.

Through family education and study, I understand that it is most important to cultivate children's various habits from an early age. Under reflection, in today's society, in the face of all kinds of people who do bad things, everyone will always say that they don't know how their parents educated them. Even if a person doesn't study well, there will naturally be a way suitable for him when he grows up, but if a person's conduct is bad, our parents are hard to blame. We can't leave a lot of wealth to our children, but I intend to leave my favorite child a good personality, moral character and a happy childhood, so that he can be happy all his life. .....

What do you think of the 2022 family education open class? (2) At present, many family educations are busy grasping children's learning, grasping their grades, attending some cram schools and the like, and pinning their education on school education. In fact, a child's future study and development depends on his or her habits. When children develop all kinds of good habits, it is naturally equal to success. Although school education is very important, family education can not be ignored. After all, children spend more time at home. As the saying goes, "parents are children's first teachers." Therefore, parents should read more books on family education, learn the theory of educating children, and master some correct educational methods. Now I just want to talk about my personal views:

First of all, we should try our best to create a family environment conducive to children's growth. Family harmony can make children feel safe and form a healthy and good personality and psychology. Therefore, even if my husband and I have contradictions, they will not intensify in front of the children. I spend more time with children. Every weekend, my husband and I chat, shop and play with our daughter, so that her daughter can enjoy the warmth of her family and experience the care of her parents.

Second, we should cultivate children's good hygiene habits and work habits. Now they are all only children, and some parents spoil their children too much, which makes them form the bad habit of "reaching for clothes and asking for them" from an early age, which seriously affects their future development. Since I was a child, I have asked my daughter to wash her hands with me and dispose of the leftovers after dinner. Change clothes and shoes when they are dirty, and clean them with adults. Because of my insistence, my daughter gradually developed a good habit of eating before meals and washing her shoes by herself, without feeling bitter or troublesome. Let her decorate the room by herself and put the lamps, chairs, books, pens and other utensils by herself. I'm just for reference. It is suggested that she make two small flower baskets as pen holders and scraps of paper. Grandma saw the praise, and her daughter blossomed and felt the joy of the fruits of labor. Today, my daughter is in high school and lives on campus. When I came home for the first time, I told me that I made the bed, hung mosquito nets, arranged clothes and other things by myself, and other students in the dormitory were handled by their parents. My daughter naturally showed a sense of pride in her words.

Third, we should cultivate children's good study habits. I teach my daughter to listen attentively in class and finish her homework on time. I write her daily homework on a small piece of paper and put it in a pencil box. What do you mean, a good memory is better than lazy writing? When you go home to do your homework, put all your homework on your desk, so that you can review before solving problems, do the easy ones first and then the difficult ones, and put them in your schoolbag when you finish a subject. If you don't understand, ask your classmates, ask your teachers, and don't back down. After dinner, I spend 40 minutes reading some newspapers, magazines, famous essays and masterpieces every day. The required reading of Reader broadened my knowledge and laid the foundation for the improvement of my writing ability, thus winning the first prize of the essay competition in Gusu Cup for two consecutive years.

Fourth, we should pay attention to the shaping of children's independent behavior and independent communication habits. We consciously take her to some group activities, go to the park to play, encourage her to play with other children, and teach her how to get along with others in the process, so that she can know how to be modest, polite, civilized and honest. Some parents don't want their children to be class representatives, thinking that distraction is time-consuming and affects learning. I encourage my daughter to be serious and responsible, contact teachers more and communicate with classmates more. Everything I say and do has a subtle influence on children, so that children's social ability, independence and autonomy have been exercised and the quality of cooperation has been improved.

The above is just my experience. In short, every parent has the same wish, and wants to help their children as much as possible and grow up with them. So please care and encourage them to develop good behavior habits with tolerant love and patience!

Watch the comments on the 2022 family education open class (3) The school can build such a good platform for parents and schools to exchange and learn. As parents of students, we are very grateful to the school! As a parent, I can only use two words to summarize the cultivation of children's good behavior habits: helplessness. Children just listen to the teacher, but at home is different from at school. Why? Because of the sacred position of teachers in children's hearts, teachers love them most, teachers are omnipotent and uncompromising ... Teachers are the best motivators for children. When children need praise and help, as the parents of their first teacher, we are not as experienced and patient as school teachers. I think that when children enter school, our parents should also enter school, study with their children and graduate together. ...

According to the spirit of this report, combined with the good practices and shortcomings in our family education, after careful reflection, I will pay attention to the following aspects in future family education:

First, care for children and let them grow up in a happy environment.

Family environment is very important for children's growth. Because of the nature of our work, we can't spare much time to spend with our children. Children have been in full-time care at school since kindergarten, and now almost all of them are brought by grandma in the first grade. What's more, neither side pays attention to their emotional control. Being a typical loving father and strict mother at home, there are often some unnecessary quarrels and conflicts, which give children a feeling that their father can be presumptuous at home and lead to poor academic performance. This lesson is extremely profound and irreversible. The biggest feature of education is irreversibility. In this regard, we must correct it in time. First of all, the two sides communicate with each other, understand each other, eliminate misunderstandings and spend more time with their children. If children want to thrive, they should create a happy environment, so that children can feel the warmth of home and the happiness with their parents.

Second, set an example and cultivate children's good conduct.

The first is that parents agree. Husband and wife should be highly consistent in educational principles and concepts, and should not fight with each other, leaving their children at a loss. Secondly, we should form good living habits. Good habits benefit people for life.

Third, respect children and improve their good personality.

In the education of children, we should treat them as subjects with independent personality and respect them, and we should not do everything instead, let alone spoil them. When you encounter something, you should discuss it with your children, let them participate in family management, and learn to handle some basic affairs. Don't think that they can ignore their opinions just because they are young. This is not desirable. The core of people's mental health is self-esteem and self-confidence. As long as self-esteem and self-confidence are achieved, psychological problems rarely appear. If you don't take children seriously, you can't talk about cultivating children's self-esteem. Help children deal with interpersonal relationships. At this stage, children's interpersonal relationship is mainly partnership. Good peer relationship can make children get respect among peers and have a sense of belonging to love, which is very important to cultivate children's self-esteem and self-confidence. At the same time, it is necessary to cultivate children's modest personality, lower themselves and learn to be tolerant and harmonious.

Fourth, persevere and strengthen children's quality education.

We should strengthen self-reliance education. Let children learn to do their own things, establish the spirit of "suffering" from an early age, learn to take care of themselves, and understand the hardships of life. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to cope with setbacks from an early age. We can start with some small things, such as not rushing to agree to children's requirements and let them grow up in "adversity". It is necessary to cultivate children's broad interests and hobbies. This in itself is a manifestation of loving life, which can promote children's positive psychological development and is also an important way to improve their comprehensive quality. It is necessary to provide various conditions to cultivate children's interest, especially reading interest, select some books with profound thoughts, and cultivate children's habit of "deep reading".

Due to my limited professional knowledge, these experiences are superficial. I suggest that schools organize systematic lectures on family education on a regular basis through the platform of parent school, so as to improve the level of family education of parents as a whole and cooperate with the teaching work of schools to achieve coordinated and sustainable development.

Comments on the 2022 Family Education Open Class (IV) Children's education is the most concerned and confusing issue for parents. After listening to Professor Wang Renyuan's lecture today, I fully realized the importance of family education. Educating children should start with the education of parents and families. Parents should set an example and actively cultivate their children to form good habits from an early age. Children have strong plasticity, and childhood is the golden age of education. Grasping this important period is very important for a child and even a family. By listening to today's lecture, I have the following experiences:

First of all, parents should attach importance to family education.

Parents are children's first teachers, and children are most likely to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can they receive the best educational effect. Every five days in school, teachers consciously cultivate children's character, conduct, will and interests. And children are easy to accept and grow up. However, in the past two days on weekends, children are easily spoiled by their parents at home, and they have no regular study and life. After five days, they forget the good habits cultivated at school. Only when parents realize the importance of family education and take the initiative to do it well, can children grow up healthily, grow into towering trees that shelter from the wind and rain, and become the pillars of society.

Second, parents should set an example.

Children need to develop good study and life habits, which are most influenced by their parents. You told your children not to throw clothes about, but you left them on the sofa when you got home, and you kept asking them to tidy up their clothes. Will the children do as you say? Children are not allowed to watch TV and play games online, but when children are doing their homework, parents are staring at loud TV programs or sitting in front of the computer and playing all kinds of games selflessly. What do children think and how do they feel balanced? Therefore, parents should set an example and ask their children not to do it. First of all, they should not do it themselves. The best way is to accompany the children to do their homework, or when the children are doing their homework, parents can read books, newspapers and do some housework quietly, so that the children can feel that their parents are not at leisure when doing their homework, so that the children will have a sense of balance and be willing to do their homework.

Third, strengthen communication with children.

Parents should communicate with their children more, even if they are busy, they should spare some time to talk, chat and tell stories with their children. In parent-child communication, we should pay attention to scientific methods: First, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, children will be willing to talk to you, and parents can learn more about their inner world.

Fourth, learn to appreciate your children.

Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. Encourage and appreciate children more, and constantly cultivate their self-confidence, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-reliance. Appreciation is love for children. If our parents can find the advantages of their children with loving eyes and point out and correct their shortcomings in the right way, "You can do it" and "You are great", with the encouragement of their parents, many children will change and grow up happily. Don't criticize a child just because he didn't get a high score in the first exam. Encourage him to say "He did well in the exam" and "He did well in the exam", help him analyze the reasons why he didn't do it right or well, find ways to do it, and don't be helpless when encountering such problems next time. Appreciating children will bring them happy motivation and upward self-confidence. The secret is that it removes the huge stone of inferiority that is pressing on the child's heart, so the child's potential erupts like a volcano.

Fifth, create a good learning environment for children.

Environment can easily change a person, especially a child. Some people say that children's brains are fertile soil, and weeds will grow if crops are not planted. This shows the importance of the environment to children's growth. Husband and wife love and family harmony will make children feel the existence of love and the warmth of home. The affection between parents and children is irreplaceable by any affection. Parents should cherish this affection. A harmonious family has a positive influence on children. Only when children live in a loving family will they have the interest and motivation to learn, and they will know how to love others and society. Parents should always read books and newspapers, so that children can feel that reading books and newspapers is a very happy thing. After a long time, children will naturally like to learn.

Children are the only parents. Parents have the responsibility and obligation to educate and train their children well. They don't want their children to make great achievements in the future. They just want their children to grow up healthily and happily, with self-confidence and self-improvement, independent personality, interest in learning, enthusiasm for life and love for others and society.

Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 (5) Last Thursday, my son's primary school organized a lecture on family education and invited experts from Beijing Industrial and Commercial Bureau to give lectures. Although the lecture was not long, I benefited a lot. I have some experiences:

First, we should fully understand the significance of family education.

Good parents are better than good teachers. Parents should be children's first teachers, and children are the easiest to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can they receive the best educational effect. Only when parents realize the importance of family education and take the initiative to do it well, can children grow up healthily, grow into towering trees that shelter from the wind and rain, and become pillars beneficial to society! Therefore, every parent should be aware of this, not only to give their children enough freedom, but also to create superior material living conditions to be competent. Stocking also needs a certain degree, and parents need free education and planning to promote their children's healthier growth!

Second, several effective methods of family education

1, teach by example

Children need to develop good study and life habits, which are most influenced by their parents. You tell your children not to throw clothes around, but you throw them on the sofa when you get home. You have been educating your children. This effect will obviously not be effective. You don't let children watch TV and play games online, but when they are doing their homework, they are comfortable watching vulgar TV dramas and playing online games, which makes them feel embarrassed. Therefore, setting an example is more useful than a thousand words.

2. Teach children good learning methods.

For example, preparing lessons, listening carefully in class, thinking synchronously with teachers, strengthening interaction and so on. Just blindly asking children to improve their academic performance, but not knowing how to help them sum up good learning methods, may not be able to receive the desired results in time. Especially in winter and summer vacations, it is beneficial for children to borrow books for the next semester and let them take time to preview their lessons.

3. Learn to appreciate education

It is said that the child is still his own. Therefore, it should not be difficult to appreciate your children from the heart. However, parents should educate their children in an appropriate way, don't criticize their children because their exam results are not satisfactory, and don't take it out on their children because of work pressure and other reasons. Children have many advantages, such as honesty, kindness and trustworthiness, which many adults do not have. Parents who can tell their children the advantages of 10 in one breath are qualified parents. Treat children equally, respect children, let children build up self-confidence from an early age, and face their study and life positively and optimistically.

4. Create a warm and happy family atmosphere.

Parents should respect each other, treat others with civility and courtesy, and create a warm and happy family atmosphere, which is also a good environment for children to grow up healthily. Let children feel the warmth of family, it is best to treat their parents as friends and share the confusion of growing up with you. How happy this is!

5. Grow up with children

Never too old to learn. Everyone is constantly growing, progressing and maturing, not because you know everything right as a parent. Grow up with your children and experience the fun!