Being too honest, interpersonal relationships will become worse and worse, and the road will become narrower and narrower!

With the rapid development of society, the space for human activities is getting bigger and bigger, and the interaction and connection between people has exceeded any previous era. In the face of complex social realities and all sorts of people with different temperaments, people who are too honest often feel at a loss, do not know how to cope with, resulting in poorer and poorer interpersonal relationships, the road is narrower and narrower, and their own blessings will slowly disappear.

Specifically, the reason why too much honesty in interpersonal relationships is getting worse, there are four reasons.

First, too honest people feel very painful to interact with people

Do too honest people, often very strong self-esteem, the reason why they are afraid of socializing, and feel very painful to interact with people, it is too much self-esteem, afraid of losing face caused by. As long as attention is paid to observe, it is not difficult to find that those who are too honest people once appeared in social occasions, will immediately become uncomfortable, coy, is the kind of people's minds, "have not seen the world" and "can not be a big deal" people, such a person! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.

Second, too honest people can not find a way to do things

Too honest people lack the courage to interact with others, the network is very narrow, so, when things tend to find the door, only to be anxious. China has thousands of years of feudal cultural traditions, self-sufficient small farm economy produced by the "small farmer consciousness", so that people live a long time "sunrise to work, sunset to rest" life, so there is also a ".... Everyone sweeps the snow in front of his own door, not caring about the frost on other people's roofs", "the sound of dogs and chickens is heard, and old people do not communicate with each other", which are bad interpersonal habits. Long-term historical deposition, it makes people in the psychological formation of a kind of communication inertia, although with the development of the times, many people have overcome this inertia, but too honest people are still the same, they are afraid of this in interpersonal communication, afraid of that, always seek trouble for no reason! Moreover, psychological research also shows that the more civilized and open the social environment is, the less room for survival for those who are too honest, the more difficult it will be to do things.

Three, too honest people do not know that the commitment will bring trouble

Most honest people are good people, because they can not wipe the face, always easy to give others a commitment, and sometimes know that they can not be done, but also too embarrassed to excuse. The result is that they can't get things done, they are complained about, they bring a lot of trouble to themselves, their relationships are getting worse and worse, the road is getting narrower and narrower, and some of the blessings that have been accumulated from other sources are slowly disappearing.

Four, too honest people will not be polite

China is a humane society, pay attention to you to me, so, to be polite, most of the time, is not a hypocritical performance, but a kind of respect for others, at the same time, but also reflects their own good cultivation. However, in the view of too honest people, socializing, chilling, polite these polite behavior are perfunctory, hypocritical performance, to its great exclusion, do not know the basic human feelings, so, in the interpersonal communication, naturally, more and more unwelcome.

In short, in modern society, the importance of interpersonal relationships has become more and more prominent, too honest people in this regard is often easy to lose, therefore, do too honest people, need to work hard to overcome their weaknesses in interpersonal relationships can not be passive waiting, but to be proactive to face and open up, so that the road will go wider and wider, the blessing will be more and more prosperous.