Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional virtues - Care about each other, care about the contents of handwritten newspapers.

Care about each other, care about the contents of handwritten newspapers.

Education must start with dolls, and family education is an important part of education. The growth of children directly affects the progress and development of human beings, and parents play an important role in the integrated education in schools. Parents are the children's first teachers and role models for their healthy growth. Therefore, as parents' own quality and self-cultivation, for the future of the motherland, the prosperity of the nation and the rejuvenation of China, I hope that all parents in the world will devote themselves to education and care, shoulder the rights and obligations of educating and cultivating children, and make selfless contributions to the healthy growth of children. Let me introduce my own experience in the process of educating children.

First, the acquired factors of children's growth are more important.

Once a child is born, the innate conditions are undeniable. We must admit that people's talents are different, but the acquired factors are more important for a child to truly become a talent. As parents, we are very concerned about children's education. From the moment the child fell to the ground, we clearly realized that we have a child and our whole family should create a good living environment for him. First of all, the family is harmonious and happy, and family members respect each other. We don't take a simple and rude way to educate our children, but care for them, educate them patiently and get along with each other on an equal footing. Care about children's education from an early age, cultivate and educate children from all aspects, exercise children, tell him stories of young heroes from an early age, carry out revolutionary traditional education, and let him know that it is not easy to be a man. In order to cultivate children's hands-on and brain skills, we fully mobilize children's thinking ability and cultivate children's hobbies. Such as singing, painting, calligraphy, playing the piano, etc. These are conducive to the healthy growth of children. Through these activities and study, they laid a good foundation for their children's future study and improved their own quality and self-cultivation. When the children were in the fourth grade, we asked their opinions, strengthened the study of calligraphy and let them enter the art class. Whether it's windy or rainy, or hot summer, our parents insist on accompanying them and lose a lot of rest time. Whenever children encounter difficulties, we always give encouragement and help. Through various trainings and studies, they not only enriched their spare time, but also improved their cultural quality and became more confident.

Second, educate children to love labor and do their own thing.

I asked my child to love labor and train him to do his own thing since he was a child. After he is three years old, he will dress himself. After the age of seven, he slept on a separate sheet. Even if there are many clothes and thick clothes in winter, he is required to wear them himself and take them off himself; In summer, he was asked to wash some small clothes by himself. A little older, I slowly let him do some housework as much as he can. At this time, parents should not be afraid that he is not good enough to let him do it, and be careful not to miss the opportunity to exercise him. And check the quality of his work, and don't allow him to perfunctory. In this way, we will let children do more small things and chores in their daily lives. Only when we can do the little things around us seriously from an early age can we take the lead in society, do great things and become the pillars of the motherland in the future.

Third, always talk about credibility and keep your word.

Honesty and trustworthiness are the basic principles. I want my children to develop this good quality from an early age. I remember when my child was in the first grade of primary school, he said, "Mom, there are many lovely animals in cartoons. Will you take me to the zoo to see them on Sunday? " I know children are naturally active and fun. In addition to studying, we should also take our children to the city to play and broaden our horizons. So, I agreed to his request. On Sunday, we took our children to the zoo and Martyrs Park for a whole day. The children are very happy to see lovely animals. From then on, we told our children that if you listen to your parents at home and your teachers at school, your academic performance will be excellent. Shall we take you to the zoo and the park? The child jumped three feet high with joy and replied, "Good!" In the future, we will take him to play every year, so that he can learn about the great rivers and mountains of some ethnic groups from an early age and let the children love our great motherland and nature.

Sometimes, we promise our children that after finishing their homework every day, mom and dad will accompany you to play badminton, table tennis and jump rope, and tell him a short story at night. In short, children should be taught to be trustworthy in everything, and they should fully enjoy the warmth of their families and the selfless care of their parents. Let him feel the beauty and happiness of his childhood.

Fourth, take the lead in setting an example and promoting virtue.

Respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Love is the virtue of human existence, and love is the foundation of social development. However, some children have become selfish under the doting of their parents and elders. As long as others care about themselves, they will not care about others and will not love others. In order to cultivate children's good psychological quality and code of conduct, we often tell children some stories about respecting the elderly. We set an example and ask them to respect their parents and elders. As parents, we should first set an example in these areas and let the traditional Chinese virtues penetrate into the hearts of children.

Dear teachers and parents, it is the common wish of every parent to have a successful child. It is our duty to educate the next generation, but it is impossible to train children in one step. We should cultivate children's integrity, kindness, full of ideals, positive optimism, earnest study spirit and tolerant and open-minded attitude in family education-the first lesson of children's life, so that children can grow into people with noble quality and morality and practical ability to cope with competitive society.

Let each of our parents raise their children with their love and grow up healthily! Let the children move towards their own success and glory!