What are the wedding customs in Yudu County, Jiangxi Province? How is the wedding held?

The man first brought his parents to the woman's home to propose marriage, with light gifts and red packets, red packets to the elderly and siblings. This is the first step, what's the name, I can't type it out. The second step, is engaged, the man with the bride price on the woman to propose marriage, the two sides negotiated to meet the day of marriage, (to meet the marriage on the evening of the first day of the man to meet the marriage team to arrive at the woman's home, to bring their own band. The next day after eating breakfast, the groom back bride on Jiao (on the car) after firecrackers can go out). The third step is to prepare for a good marriage ready. During this time, men and women try to minimize contact. Otherwise, women women joke about the male side of the monkey ah.