The way of making friends

The way of making friends has four points: making friends with virtue, suffering and ****; making friends with sincerity, mutual respect; making friends with knowledge, more knowledge; making friends with the road, the law happy and harmonious. Friends, useful three friends: friends straight, friends understanding, friends heard. The loss of three friends: friends will be open, friendly and soft, friends will be sycophantic.

Friends straight: straight, means upright. This kind of friend is sincere, frank, upright, with a kind of Langlang personality, without a trace of sycophancy. His personality can influence your personality. He can give you courage when you are timid, and he can give you decisiveness when you are hesitant.

You Lang: You Lang "Shuowen Jiezi" said, "Lang, letter also." Letter, is honesty. This kind of friend is sincere, not hypocritical. With such friends, our hearts are proper, stable, and our spirits can be purified and sublimated.

Friends with a wide range of knowledge: These friends have a wide range of knowledge, in today's terms.

Friends who are not as good as those who are not as good as those who are not as good as them.

"Friends will be open" and "friends straight" is just the opposite, this kind of people have no integrity and honesty, there is no principle of right and wrong. Their principle is to make you happy so that they can profit from you.

Friendly: This kind of person is a typical "two-faced" person.

Note: The friendships are a test of one's own vision and one's ability to understand the world.

Friends of sycophancy: sycophancy, refers to the overstatement, boastful people, is what the people say, "light will play lipservice" people. The person who is sycophantic is the one who has a clever tongue but an empty stomach.

The three friends in the Analects of Confucius are those who flatter and flatter, those who are double-faced, and those who are boastful. Such friends cannot be made, or they will pay a heavy price.

There are three principles in making friends: to be treated as a gentleman there are three, the words are said to be impetuous before they are spoken (don't rush to speak), the words are said to be hidden without being spoken (don't have something to say without saying it), the colors are said to be goze before they are seen (no eyes, don't speak with your eyes closed), and the excesses are too short to be true.

We all want to live life more efficiently, to friends, more a care. Advice but a good way, do not stop if you can not, do not humiliate yourself.

Choosing a friend is choosing a way of life. "The fragrance of the Taoist wind and virtue spreads a thousand miles", a person with morality and cultivation, no one is not pleased, regardless of the distance, everyone will compete to come close to. Those who interact with him will also follow his self-examination and be promoted, which is called "making friends with a good friend, entering the room of orchids, and not smelling its fragrance for a long time, that is, with the transformation of it".

The Chinese saying goes: "Treating people with sincerity, touching people with virtue, and making friends with goodness, this is what is called the way of straightforwardness". Friendship with sincerity and truth, treat each other with courtesy and respect, get along with peace and lightness, and encourage each other to learn the way, are all the principles of making friends,