How to meet the woman's parents?

1. When preparing the place for the first meeting, according to the custom, the man will take the initiative to make an appointment. Generally speaking, the man should take the initiative to visit the woman's home, which is a respect for the woman's family. If both parties agree, it is no problem to choose to meet at the man's house.

The specific meeting places are restaurants, private rooms, hotel rooms, tea restaurants, cafes, etc. It is a good choice. It is most appropriate to arrange the meeting at home if conditions permit. Because at home, the relationship between the two sides will be more intimate and cordial. And when eating, no one will disturb you, more like a big family enjoying happiness together.

2. Prepare the meeting ceremony.

After all, it is the first time for parents to meet, so it is appropriate to bring some gifts. First, show great concern; Second, show respect to them; Third, show your heart; Fourth, show your sincerity.

The choice of meeting gifts can be health care products and fruits, their own local specialties. Especially your own local brand is the best, skin care products or cosmetics? Good tea or coffee will do.

3. Prepare bride price and betrothal gift.

First of all, it is necessary to determine whether this first meeting is a direct contact. If it's not an engagement, then you should prepare a small gift for the girl. If it is an engagement, then this gift is also called bride price and betrothal gift, and it is still generally required. So get ready. The amount is generally given according to the local customs of both parties or the parents' prior agreement.

4. People who are going to meet.

When parents meet for the first time, it may involve substantive issues, so it is better to have a relaxed atmosphere, so parents don't need to bring seven aunts and eight aunts to meet their children.

If you consider that you can't directly refuse some key questions, you'd better bring someone with communication skills, persuasion skills and a certain social status. Some problems must be solved by him or her. Once the woman's parents are unhappy, you can have room for relaxation, so as not to make both parents unhappy when they meet for the first time.

5. Get dressed when you meet.

Be sure to dress appropriately, behave dignified, be neither supercilious nor supercilious, and be confident.