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As for the phenomenon that you mentioned that there are relatively few suitors for college flowers, but there are more suitors for girls with average family and average looks, this involves many psychological factors and social phenomena. Here are some possible explanations:

Psychological stress and inferiority complex: Campus beauties are often concerned because of their outstanding appearance, which makes many boys feel that there is a gap between themselves and them, resulting in inferiority complex. They may be worried that their conditions are not good enough to be worthy of the school beauty, so they choose not to pursue it.

Expected competition: Campus beauties often have many suitors, which makes boys expect to face fierce competition in pursuing them. Faced with this kind of competition, some boys may choose to give up because they think they have little chance of winning.

Personality and interests: Although the beauty queen looks outstanding, it may not be the ideal type for all boys. Some boys may pay more attention to girls' personality and interests, which may be easier to find in girls with average family and average looks.

Sense of reality and closeness: A girl with an average family and average looks may give people a more real and close feeling. They may be more likely to establish a deep friendship with boys and develop their feelings. In contrast, the beauty queen may give people a feeling of aloof and make boys feel inaccessible.

Social concept: In some societies, there is a concept of "family-friendly". Even if boys have a good impression on the school flower, if they feel that their family background and economic conditions are too far from the school flower, they may be worried about being criticized by people around them, so they choose not to pursue it.

Personal choice: Everyone has his own preferences and choices. Some boys may prefer to pursue girls who are challenging and need to make more efforts to win love, while some boys prefer to choose girls who are easier to get close to and build relationships with.

It should be noted that the above explanations are only some possible reasons and cannot cover all situations. Everyone's situation is unique and cannot be generalized. Besides, the pursuit of love is everyone's freedom. No matter what the other party's conditions are, as long as you really like it, you should pursue it bravely.