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Is the wedding lunar calendar a single day?

People in China regard marriage as an important event in their lives. Before marriage, according to the custom in China, couples will find a Feng Shui master as an auspicious day. In the lunar calendar, people pay attention to Singles' Day and Double Days, so how about choosing Singles' Day in the lunar calendar to get married? Let's take a look at it with the wedding ceremony.

First, how about getting married on Lunar Singles' Day?

The auspicious day of the zodiac is actually a relative concept. The same day may be auspicious for this person and unlucky for that person. It doesn't matter whether it is a single day or a double day, and it doesn't hurt to get married on a single day. For a family that pays more attention to tradition, Bian Xiao suggested that the wedding should choose an auspicious day suitable for marriage according to the date of birth of the new couple.

Second, the method of choosing the auspicious day of the wedding lunar calendar

You can choose a good wedding day in the lunar calendar like this.

1. Select leap year and leap month. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "leap month" and "leap year", that is, there will be a leap year every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "leap month" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a year with a leap month.

2. avoid the three seven nine. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

3. avoid three niang sand. According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

4. The Forbidden Day in Yang Gong, also known as the Thirteen Forbidden Days in Yang Gong, was handed down by Yang Junsong, a geomantic master in the Tang Dynasty. These thirteen "taboo days" are 1 month 13, February 1 day, March 9, April 7, May 5, June 3, July1day, July 29, and July 29. These thirteen "forbidden days" are not suitable for everything.

Third, the considerations for choosing the auspicious day of the lunar wedding

Pay attention to the following points when choosing a wedding date.

1, know your life.

Usually we think that the disagreement of the genus is the disagreement of the eight characters. In the traditional horoscope, the animal sign is only one of them, so the disagreement of the animal sign only represents one of them, and the personal animal sign does not play a decisive role in the marriage of relatives. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see the harmony and disagreement from it, and choose an auspicious day from it. Both men and women will be combined with Shenwangjiri, with a happy marriage and prosperous children.

2. Respect the opinions of elders.

As an old man in the family, children must care more than anyone else, so newcomers must discuss with their elders, respect their ideas and make decisions together.

3. Emotion is the foundation

Choose the wedding date according to the actual situation of both husband and wife. Marriage life must be based on feelings, not because a "good day" can lead a good life, so don't be too obsessed with "auspicious day".

4. Make a choice according to the bride's date of birth.

As the saying goes, "have children, marry a woman." If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage. It is best to choose Ji Yue as the wedding day. It is best for the man to listen to the woman's opinions as much as possible and avoid the menstrual period on her wedding day. But at the same time, the opinions of others (especially husbands, wives and grooms) should also be taken seriously. After all, it is related to the future family, happiness and harmony.

5. Choose a day when both sides are healthy.

It is best to hold the wedding when both parties are healthy, otherwise it will not only affect the harmony of new life, but also aggravate the illness. It is necessary to avoid the busy period of study and work for both parties and arrange the wedding and honeymoon itinerary in advance. Discuss when the wedding will be held, inform both parents in advance, and ensure that the elderly and relatives and friends at home can come to the wedding and share the festive and harmonious scenes during the wedding.

As long as the relationship between the two sides is stable, whether it is a single day or a double day, it is a good day to get married.