According to the ancient system, who can't go to the ancestral grave to worship?

Generally speaking, pregnant women should avoid the Qingming Festival, not only that. Strictly speaking, it's best for women not to take part in such activities when they have their period, especially after 3 pm. Our motherland has a vast territory, and the customs of sweeping graves in the north and south are slightly different. For example, in the south, children usually go to the grave, and in some places in the north, daughters usually don't go to the grave. If it is a married daughter, go to the grave with her husband.

1, Tomb-Sweeping Day is filial to his ancestors.

Qingming is an activity of offering sacrifices to the dead. Tomb-Sweeping Day is very important. In the eyes of China or China people, ancestor worship is closely related to filial piety. If you don't participate in ancestor worship, you are unfilial and forget your ancestors.

Qingming Festival refers to sweeping graves. Many cemeteries in Jiangnan and Jiangnan are on mountains, so they are called Chongshan. In the north, it is commonly known as sweeping graves or going to graves.

2. Is there any ethnic division in sweeping graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day?

Tomb-Sweeping Day's grave-sweeping, known as "respecting time" for ancestors, is the biggest grave-sweeping day in China. Therefore, most Han people and some ethnic minorities in China visit graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day. But remind friends that some ethnic groups will hold similar activities on other days.

3. What is the usual procedure for sweeping graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day?

According to the custom, the order of sweeping is to sweep the grave first, that is, to clean the cemetery.

Secondly, sacrifice, this procedure is very important, one is to mourn, and the other is to feel the same way with the ancestors, because the mountain has a spirit without a master, and the ancestors have a master without a spirit. Only by feeling the same way with the ancestors can we better obtain the aura of mountains and rivers. This is feng shui.

When sweeping graves, people come to the cemetery with food, wine, fruit, paper money and other items, offer food to the graves of their loved ones, then burn paper money, cultivate new soil for the graves, repair the graves, fold some fresh green branches and put some paper money on them to show that there are descendants in the graves, and then kowtow. Then sit around and eat and drink; You can also fly kites and even compete with each other for related activities. Women and children will also fold some Yang Liuzhi nearby and put on steamed food with wicker. Others put wicker into a reed ring and put it on their heads, saying that "Qingming will turn yellow in the afterlife without wearing willow."

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4. Is it better to sweep the grave at Qingming?

There are two time issues involved here:

First, can Tomb-Sweeping Day sweep the grave on the same day or before and after? The sooner the better? In fact, as long as you are in Tomb-Sweeping Day, it will be convenient for you. Of course, there are some local customs everywhere, and we should respect them. Also, for some customs, there are some differences in time between sweeping graves for relatives who have died within one year and those who have died more than one year. Do it according to local customs.

Second, is it better to leave as soon as possible on the day of grave sweeping?

The answer is yes, not really. It depends on your own situation, preferably at 5-7 o'clock, that is, Shi Mao. In the ancient calendar, it was one. Of course, it's generally not so early now, but it's best to sweep the Qingming Mountain before 3 pm, because the yang has gradually subsided and the yin has gradually increased. If people are unlucky, they are easily entangled or harassed by yin qi.

5. Can pregnant women sweep graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day?

Generally speaking, pregnant women should avoid the Qingming Festival, not only that. Strictly speaking, it's best for women not to take part in such activities when they have their period, especially after 3 pm. Our motherland is vast, and the customs of sweeping graves in the north and south are slightly different. For example, in the south, children usually go to the grave, and in some places in the north, daughters usually don't go to the grave. If it is a married daughter, go to the grave with her husband.

6. Can Tomb-Sweeping Day worship his ancestors at home?

Tomb-Sweeping Day should have been held in the cemetery in person, but for various reasons, many people can't go back to their hometown to attend the Qingming Festival, so they can also worship their ancestors at home. The method is to put worship food on the balcony or living room at home, face the hometown, light three sticks of incense, bow three times and meditate on related words. Then, burn paper money for sacrifice. This is very important.

7. What flowers should Tomb-Sweeping Day buy to mourn the dead?

It is usually chrysanthemum, because chrysanthemum is regarded as a flower of sustenance in ancient China, which means missing and nostalgia. White chrysanthemum is the most suitable, and it can also be matched with some green grass, such as lily, green leaves and carnations, which will be more beautiful. Huang Juhua is called Longevity Chrysanthemum, which is more suitable for visiting patients.

8. Why does Tomb-Sweeping Day look at his forehead in the morning?

On the morning of sweeping the grave, before washing, look at your forehead in the mirror to see if there are dark circles under your eyes. If there is, it means you are unlucky. It is recommended to avoid sweeping graves as much as possible. If you must go, you can wear jade, mahogany and so on. Work it out with you.