In ancient Chinese. What does mother mean?

Mothering relatives in the province is a custom handed down from ancient times, which can also be called living in a foreign country (Minnan dialect). It means that the husband and wife go to the woman's house with gifts, and the woman's house must also prepare a banquet at this time (usually at noon, it is called a mother-in-law banquet or a son-in-law). After mothering, the matchmaker's job is over, and the man must give gifts to the matchmaker to express his gratitude.