Parents' message to disobedient children

I am writing this letter to you for three reasons:

You are standing on the node of life: looking back is a childhood that slipped away quietly, and then moving forward, the curtain of youth slowly opens to you.

There are some things we won't tell you, and no one will tell you.

Make an agreement with each other: we work hard, you study hard, and no one will let anyone worry.

A letter from a mother to her rebellious son.

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About target

People can live without great ideals, but they can't lose their goals. Under the system of "one exam for life", no matter how hard you work, how diligent you are, how fierce you are, as long as you fail in the exam, you will be eliminated!

You have to understand that too much homework, too heavy schoolbags and studying day and night are not cruel to adults, but to reality!

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About positioning

At home, all the only children are little emperors, but at school, there are too many emperors, and no one will take you seriously! Unless your grades are better, your talents are more outstanding, and your performance is better, the teacher will still regard you as a treasure.

The same is true of society. In the future, whether you want to be rich or poor, whether you want to live in a bungalow or a villa, whether you want others to look down on you or respect you, you should be responsible for it yourself.

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About learning

In school, learning is the main thing, but it is not the only thing. Study well but be in poor health, which is no different from "reading more books and raising more pigs".

When students get together, they should compare themselves: 20-year-old education, 30-year-old ability, 40-year-old experience, 50-year-old financial resources, 60-year-old physical strength, 70-year-old medical records and 80-year calendar.

After decades of life, in the final analysis, you are still in good health. Have a good exercise, son.

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About the future

A person's future is determined by knowledge, ability and attitude. Knowledge can be acquired through study, ability can be increased through practice, but attitude is formed through habit. You sometimes lack the perseverance to cultivate good habits.

It's not too late to correct your attitude. In the future, I hope that everything you do will benefit yourself and others.

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About yourself.

At school, teachers have no obligation to be nice to you, and students have no obligation to care about you unless you respect teachers first, unless you care about your classmates first. In your life, no one has an obligation to be nice to you, except me and your father.

Don't think that the world can't turn around without yourself, and don't give up and give up because you are young.

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About friends

Making friends is like investing. Of course, you should consider the return on investment. If you find a friend, and this friend doesn't give you a return in the end, it can only prove that your investment failed. You should make friends with people who are better than you, especially remember to help your friends when they are in trouble.

Because, people who laughed with themselves are easy to forget, and those who cried with themselves are the most unforgettable. This is that giving charcoal in the snow is more meaningful than icing on the cake.

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About love

Sooner or later, you will fall in love. As an experienced person, I suggest that it is always beautiful to walk before the flowers and after the moon, and sweet words are more charming. Don't forget that there are still wind, frost, rain and snow in reality.

Love is nothing more than-you love her, she doesn't love you, she loves you, you don't love her, and you love her. The third case is undoubtedly fascinating, but the probability is less than 10%.

Therefore, don't expect the beauty of love too much, and don't exaggerate the sadness of lovelorn.

Shake hands with beautiful women, talk with profound women, communicate with successful women and live with ordinary women. That's the mentality. Good.

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About distance

As parents, everyone is eager to have a shorter distance from their children, but with the growth of children, the sky that belongs to you will definitely become wider and wider, and the time and space distance from parents will definitely become farther and farther.

Of course, parents are particularly concerned about how much space they can occupy in the sky! Because the sky of parents is just the opposite of the sky of children. As we get older, it becomes smaller and smaller.

I, as an ordinary person, also have a popular feeling and care whether you are always around. Children, parents' children are affectionate, you know?

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About gains and losses

A person can't be proud forever, nor can he be frustrated forever. Be sober when you are proud. There are too many people in this world who are stronger than themselves. Remember your own smallness. When frustrated, don't back down, stick to it: how did you come here in the past and how do you come here now?

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About people you love.

Relatives have only one fate, in this life. Even if I can't go with you, I will always want to shelter you from the wind and rain when it is stormy! Even if I can't fight with you all the way, I will always want to share the pain with you when I encounter difficulties and obstacles!

In this life, no matter how long we will get along with you, please cherish our time together. In the next life, whether we love it or not, we will never meet again.