Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Almanac inquiry - Some people say that "husband" is out of date What is the most popular address now?

Some people say that "husband" is out of date What is the most popular address now?

How can the address between husband and wife be out of date? Is the address between husband and wife that important?

In fact, it doesn't matter what the name between husband and wife is, it won't affect the relationship between husband and wife, and it won't make people feel "outdated"!

Think about it. In the past, couples in Chinese mainland were called lovers, and they were rarely called "husbands", but it was common to call them "wives". It was only later that the name "husband" was "introduced" from Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan. )。

At the beginning of opening up, many people liked to imitate. They thought it was a good name for Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan, and later even called us "lover" (what a beautiful name! ) don't!

Now some people actually think that this title is "outdated". Is it really "inappropriate"? So what should it be called?

In fact, there is a "conventional" name between husband and wife at home. You don't need to talk to them in an indoor conversation. Say "ah-"at most or just call them casually. There is nothing to say about this, and there is nothing "fashionable" or "outdated". Call them whatever you want, as long as you can accept each other. In appearance, I think it's better to say "my love". Most couples are still used to calling themselves "the father of the child", "Lao Li" and "Lao Zhao", which is actually quite good, so there is no need to follow suit!

Appellations such as "wife" and "husband" all contain the desire of "caring for each other and loving each other for a long time". According to legend, this title first appeared in the Tang Dynasty, and it has been 1000 years.

In the Tang Dynasty, there was a scholar named Mai. Meidor married his wife earlier. After nearly ten years of ups and downs, it should have been love and affection. However, after Meidor was admitted to fame, she felt that her wife was getting old and faded, and she looked more and more like a yellow-faced woman. There is no new lover's love, so the idea of abandoning the old wife and accepting a new lover arises.

So, one day when two people were sitting together for dinner, Meidor had a whim and said that he wanted to write couplets with his wife. At this time, there was an upper part:

At that time, Mai Xiucai's wife was also a scholar. This couplet is meant to satirize his wife. You are a broken lotus leaf, and now you are like a wrinkled old lotus root.

The wife realized her husband's idea of abandoning the old and welcoming the new, and began to write the second part:

Replacing "lotus" with "rice" and "old lotus root" with "new grain" are not only very neat and appropriate, but also novel and popular. I know what you mean. I have worked hard for your old Mai family for so many years. Now that my children are older and my family is richer, you are beginning to dislike my age and want to marry a bride at once, right? "New grain" and "bride" are homophonic.

Mai Aixin read his wife's second couplet and was moved by her agile thinking and love. On second thought, my wife has been busy educating her children. If I move my heart, is it still a man?

So he confessed his mistake to his wife, which showed that the scholar paid attention to propriety, righteousness and honesty, immediately cut off his previous unjust thoughts and stayed with his wife at ease.

When the wife saw her husband change his mind, she did not forget the old feelings, but wrote, "My husband is very fair." Mai Aixin continued to write a couplet: "My wife is a woman." This is the origin of husband and wife.

Summary:

How do couples become popular now? It probably came from Shenzhen, Guangdong in the south after the 1980s and 1990s, and it is also called in Hong Kong movies. Spread slowly, without obvious time limit.

He has always called his other half "xianggong", "official", "lover", "gentleman", "husband" and "husband". Nowadays, couples often give each other some exclusive titles, and the more commonly used titles are "husband" and "wife".

Some people may think that the other half is "husband" and "wife", which is an outdated title. Otherwise, no one will ask questions. I think the popular names are as follows:

Name+Children:

The title of "name+child" is generally used by men to address their wives. Adding a "zi" to the suffix of a name sounds a bit coquettish.

My family:

"My family" is usually used by women to describe their husbands. Sometimes when a woman introduces her husband to other friends, she will use "my home" to describe it. This title is actually quite intimate and unique.

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"Dead ghost" is also a woman's description of her husband. This title sounds like swearing, but it is not really swearing, or there is a title that is both angry and complaining.

Mr so-and-so:

"Mr. So-and-so" is also the name many women use to describe their husbands. For example, her husband's surname is Lei, so she calls him "Miss Lei". If her husband's surname is You, she will call him "Mr. You". Generally, women who call their husbands "Mr. So-and-so" all love and admire their husbands.

Master:

Some men will call their wives "masters", which represents the status of women in the family. When a man calls a woman this way, he listens to his wife and attaches great importance to her opinion. Let the wife be in charge of everything at home.

Got a thousand dollars:

Some women are tough and will call their husbands "a thousand knives", usually by the name of the judge. If a man always makes women angry and always causes all kinds of troubles to women, women sometimes call him "a thousand knives." Here, bread contains women's blame for men, which is actually a nickname. Not many people use this nickname, unless both of them are temperamental, and such women often have a bad temper.

Lady:

Some men will call their wives "ladies". When a man calls his wife that, she can't get angry whenever she wants, because "lady" is a very gentle address.

Bad old man:

Some women will call their husbands "bad old men". This title sounds funny and it's fun to make a phone call. Using this address will give others the feeling of an old married couple.

Big bad guy:

Between young couples, women sometimes call men "big bad guys". Maybe this person is a glib person. Sometimes, he will cheat and cheat women on trivial matters, so women will give him such a intimate name and call him "the big bad guy".

Old woman:

Calling "wife" is a bit outdated, but calling "old woman" is very witty. Calling your wife like this, plus a "son", suddenly doubles the sense of intimacy and fashion.

Summary:

Among many titles, I think the most romantic and appropriate one should be "lover"! "Lover", as the name implies, is a person with love.

The emperor called his wife Zitong; The prime minister called his wife a lady; Literati call his wife humble as Jing; A gentleman is called a broom; Merchants call it a wife; Scholars call their wives; A scholar is called a lady; The plowman is called his mother-in-law.

Northerners call their daughter-in-law and children his mother;

The northeast person is called kuai;

Huxiang people call it his mother;

Hebei people call their wives at home;

Henan people call their wives the head of the family;

Hunan people call their wives Tang Ke;

In Jianghan, Hubei, wives are called girls and maidens.

Sichuanese call their wives wife, wife and old man.

Anqing, Anhui, called his wife a tinker;

Taiwan Province province called his wife;

Newcomers are called family leaders or LD;

Chongqing people call their wives wives wives, Tang Ke;

The wife in Guanzhong, Shaanxi Province is a great-grandmother, while the wife, aunt and other people except the wife are all verbal addresses of the wife.

Shanxi people call their wives indoors;

The area around Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai Wu dialect area is called wife, young lady, housewife and inner hall.

Drinking foreign ink is called darling;

Born and raised, call that mouth;

People who are reluctant to part with their wives are called favorites;

People who leave their wives are called babies;

Say dear when making out with your wife; Call that bitch if you hate your wife;

Some people call their wives adults, while others call them my wives.

Address should take this word around this person's behavior, personality, hobbies, etc., which can play the role of flirting, reminding, educating and encouraging. It is better to say that husband and wife will definitely be husband and wife in the future. If we can add the characteristics of proportion, life will be more interesting.

Husband and wife are legal marriages between men and women. It is also a testimony to the beauty of men and women's life forms. Men and women are one, dedicated to each other, unconditionally helping and achieving the main family roles that each other needs.

Intimacy between husband and wife has many names. What do you call your partner?

Next, I will use my real experience to share what people around me call me husband and wife at home!

1, people in their fifties and sixties often call their wives "family", saying that my family just came back from going out a few days ago and my family cooked a meal. A few people call their wives your sister-in-law, your aunt, etc. It depends on your qualifications. For example, at work, even people much older than me insist that you call him brother, so chatting with them means that your sister-in-law is not at home today. Shall we go out for a drink? Your sister-in-law said she saw you in the street today, didn't she? Wait a minute.

Most people in their thirties and forties just address their wives as wives, wives or family members. Depending on who they talk to. Most older people tell their wives, and most people of similar age call their wives. If they sometimes show off their family status outside, they call their wives family mouths.

People around 3.20 years old are much more romantic. They will record their wives' names as "wife's adult" in the mobile phone address book, usually call their wives as wives, and call their wives to the elderly, but they will call people of similar age or people they are familiar with. There are too many things like "My Queen", "Shopping Queen", "Princess", "Baby" and "Little Cute".

Looking down, there is no 4, no matter how young, she is not at marriageable age, and she is not married.

1. Women in their fifties and sixties call their husbands "family". For example, if he sees you talking to you, you must be Xiao Zhang, right? I am a family with Lao Wang of your unit, ok?

People in their thirties and forties call their husbands by their first names. They are in a traditional and open era. How about calling their husbands "my love" or "Wang Ge" outside? But if their husbands come home drunk, it will be miserable. They called their husbands "dirty" and "stupid dogs".

People in their twenties are much more open. They call their husbands directly on the street. The circle of WeChat friends is "my husband", sometimes they are "fools" when they are angry, and sometimes they are "dear" and "uncle" when they are happy. In private, the scale is a bit big, so I can't bear to look directly at it.

It can be seen that the address depends on the age and intimacy of two people. When they grew up, the couple became relatives. Based on traditional ideas, they are still conservative, while young people have various names. Girls are insecure and want to be protected by each other, so they express it directly. They don't care whether they are laughed at by others or why they laugh at others.

Nowadays, it is becoming more and more fashionable for young people to address their lovers. Two years ago, it was still fashionable to call "husband", but now it has been upgraded. Addressing others as "my old man", "dear" or "dear" is becoming more and more popular.

The address between husband and wife is still very sweet and kind to both of them, and there is no outdated saying. But it is true that the most extensive appellation has changed in different periods.

We don't talk about the appellations of feudal society such as "concubine", "husband" and "official" in ancient times. Let's look at the appellation between modern husband and wife.

Ashley is born in 1980s. He is familiar with the common appellations of the older generation, the previous generation, this generation and the next generation.

The appellations of the older generation of couples are mostly "old man", "old woman", "that mouth" and "wife" ... tacky but intimate;

The appellation between husband and wife in the previous generation was "baby's mother", "baby's father", "lover" or nickname, which showed their respect for each other and their relationship.

This generation is more casual, such as "husband", "wife", "dear" and "rogue", which conforms to the international trend and is very catchy;

The next generation, that is, after 00, will call each other "toad", "swan meat", "dog, little fairy", "Hal, little witch", "cow dung, flowers" and so on, which are fresh, fashionable and appropriate.

It is impossible to judge the outdated address between husband and wife. For example, in order to follow the fashion, the older generation can change it to "my dog". Although the picture is unimaginable, it is ok if someone likes it; For example, calling your lover "that mouth" after 00 is a bit ugly, but it is also very kind. ...

So the address between husband and wife, everyone likes each other.

I will call my husband when I am happy, and even call him by his first name when I am unhappy, but there are many nicknames between husband and wife. People of our age call him husband less, which should be considered avant-garde. I see that many families our age are called by their first names, and I don't know what to call them in private, but I see that many young people call them Bao Bao now, and they all think it is a nickname after 00. Some time ago, a 30-year-old couple and a woman.

Haha, conjugal love is the foundation. As for calling each other, it's not arbitrary. Call them whatever you want! He's not out of date, is he? Some people regard the former and the latter as different happiness! Some people call it honey in public and sometimes blow a kiss. If you don't understand, isn't it a bit redundant! The society is progressing, and the appellation changes with time, but it may not be correct not to read the old almanac! Singing, why are you crying? Because the person who loves me cherishes me! Haha, come on! What is the most popular name? People won't tell you, the secrets of the two people have been hidden in their hearts. If you want to know, you might as well go home and ask your wife. Once Dan is happy, she will say you are fashionable.