What etiquette should I pay attention to when visiting a friend's house for the first time?

I can't say that I am very experienced in visiting my boyfriend's house for New Year's greetings, but it has been implemented for four or five years, and I have more or less some experiences I have summarized for your reference.

If nothing else, at least it is helpful for sisters who go to their boyfriend's house for the first time or who may go later.

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First of all, how to define when/when you should go to your boyfriend's house to pay New Year greetings?

If I remember correctly, this should be the third year that we went to each other's home to pay New Year's greetings and give gifts.

Mainly in the first two years, we were still students and had no economic ability. We took it with us in the third year after we came out for an internship and got paid, plus some new year's goods bought at home.

Another premise here is that our parents will not urge us to pay New Year greetings and give gifts just because we are students, knowing that we have no financial means.

In this regard, I think, in the state of students in love, there is no need to worry about giving gifts to the New Year, and it is not too late to go after work.

The other point is what my friends around me have experienced. They have worked for a year or two and have a stable income and work. When should I go to their home to pay New Year's greetings?

My suggestion is that you should go when your parents often mention you.

When your boyfriend's parents chat with your boyfriend every day and talk about your girlfriend many times, whether you have just been dating for a few months or not, you should take the initiative to visit your elders and have dinner with them so that they can get to know you personally.

If you say that my boyfriend didn't invite me, wouldn't it be too fall in price for me to take the initiative?

Then I think your question is stupid enough (blame me directly). When two people fall in love together, not only your boyfriend is responsible for you, but you are also responsible for him.

If you fall in love on the premise of marriage, you will meet his parents sooner or later, so why not meet your future in-laws earlier to judge whether the future family union is appropriate.

Otherwise, like a friend who has been in love for 7 years, when I met my parents in the New Year, my mother broke up because she didn't like my girlfriend. She was speechless.

Second, what should I bring to each other's house?

Be sure to do your homework before going to other people's homes. For example, you will also search for interesting places before you travel.

Ask the other parents whether they smoke or drink or not.

If you can't choose cigarettes or alcohol, please ask your elders and give a budget so that they can help you choose a good brand to buy.

If you don't smoke or drink, you can consider whether you can buy your aunt a set of skin care products, or buy some Guangdong people's favorite stew ingredients, such as jelly, cordyceps and bird's nest.

Alcohol and tobacco are the least error-prone things. Even if parents don't need them, relatives should prepare them when they go home for dinner during the New Year.

Basically, as long as you buy with your heart, even the biscuit elders will not be too picky (but it is best not to) within your ability.

By the way, I go to Zhang Nan's house to buy cigarettes and wine every year, and then when this year passed, I found that all the wine I sent last year was still on the cabinet. At this time, I have to reflect on whether I can replace wine with some other supplements next year.

Actually, I found that I have been writing this for a long time. Many things are not completely said, and it is impossible to say them all at once. If you have any questions about this, you can tell me in the comments.

Finally, I have a careful machine at the bottom of the wardrobe for everyone to try.

If your boyfriend and mother are usually in maintenance, you can choose a beautiful lipstick for her.

Try to choose some classic colors, such as Dior999, TF 16, CHANEL63, etc.

Or she doesn't usually like makeup or use skin care products. You can give her a color-changing lip balm without makeup, Dior00 1 or Dior003.

300 yuan can make the elders think that you are a very caring little girl, and you are happy when she is happy.

I hope you can all meet your parents happily and fall in love happily.