What do you call a man posting to his parents?

The dragon and phoenix post is made by folding the golden dragon and phoenix pattern in half with dyed red rice paper and inkpad, and there is an envelope outside. There are two signatures on red and green paper in the post, one of which is written in small print. In addition to indicating the names, grades and birth dates of both parties to the marriage, the names and official positions of their fathers and grandfathers must also be indicated. And the number of words is even. Generally speaking, what is written is the name of both peers, and the peers write "I am so-and-so because of my stupid brother"; The younger generation wrote "Stupid Night"; The elder wrote "waiter". On another small note, the man wrote "the hub of the dragonfly in a certain month"; When the woman wrote, she changed the word "dragonfly" to "phoenix dance". ?

Job exchange day is an auspicious day calculated by yin and yang students. On this morning, both men and women should prepare 1-2 pairs of boxes (some people will rent them from the rental store), lay red silk boxes, and prepare 8 sets of robes, boots and hats and several pieces of red silk, one of which contains dragon and phoenix stickers, the other contains bride price, and the other contains dates, chestnuts or dried lychees and longan. Most of the people sent by the families of men and women are footmen of their own families or relatives, or neighbors living in poverty. They all wear robes, red tassels, red colored silk on their shoulders, and the red silk on their chests is tied in a cross, which is called "crossing to wear red". When rich people post in winter, they always give their posts to people wearing black and purple sheepskin to show their generosity. Male dragon and phoenix posts are sent to the woman's home, and the woman's home should at least reward the sender 1 yuan. Since then, the dragon and phoenix stickers have been placed in front of the ancestral tablets, and roasted meat is fragrant, which is to tell the ancients about the temple. The woman's family will also arrange people to post to the man's family. In return, most of them will give the man shoes, hats and materials, and the man's family will also reward the sender and hold a temple fair ceremony.