Lichuan custom, why does the woman invite her married daughter to dinner?

On the third day, the bride will go to the kitchen to make soup and share it with her in-laws.

The full moon is called "Full Moon Pill", which is fed to the girl's family by milling rice.

On the day of returning to Ningxiang, the Yue family gave a big banquet and everyone was rewarded.

Two married families want to meet their relatives, which is called "meeting new relatives". Now, on the auspicious day after marriage, the man fetes the relatives of the woman and gives gifts to the boys and girls, which is called "seeing off the evening". The new wife and son-in-law should be the chief, and all relatives should give gifts. After the banquet, send someone to accompany the new daughter-in-law (or new son-in-law) home.

At noon on the wedding day, both men and women have to hold separate wedding banquets, unlike relatives of both sides in big cities now. Banquet has a formal menu, requiring eight bowls and eight dishes or ten bowls and eight dishes. Eight or ten bowls (all hot dishes): sea cucumber, fisheye (mostly fried dried pigskin), cuttlefish, whitebait, three fresh (mushrooms, meatballs, steamed egg pieces), belly lung (mostly stewed lion's head or mandarin duck's eggs), pig's trotters, braised pork, stewed chicken and braised fish. Eight dishes (cold dishes): sausage, salted eggs, stir-fried (fried with sauce), bones (fried pork chops), Dongpo meat (fried with cooked fat wrapped in flour), pig water, melon seeds and peanuts. There is a certain order of serving. The last two dishes must be stewed chicken and braised fish, which means "chicken flies and fish goes"

When a man gets married, it is also called "married". When a woman gets married, she is nicknamed "Yugui", and friends and relatives will congratulate her. The size of the gift depends on the distance of blood and the closeness of the relationship. The wedding ceremony is "the worship of flowers and candles" and the wedding ceremony is "the worship of pollen". My uncle is the oldest guest, so my uncle's gift will be the tallest among all relatives. If my uncle is annoyed by not attending the meeting or leaving halfway, it will be inconvenient for others to attend the meeting and the scene will be left out.

The marriage custom in Lichuan always takes marriage as joy and marriage as sorrow. Male marriage, no invitation, no congratulations; Marry a woman without saying hello or invitation.