Why can't we get married on the seventh day? Yes, men have a bad day.

In traditional festivals in China, the seventh day is an important day. There are also many regulations on this day among the people. Many people think that the seventh day is not suitable for marriage. If you get married on this day, it means bad luck. This is related to some traditional folk concepts. Then, the next article will introduce you.

Why can't I get married on the seventh day?

People think that people can't get married for seven days because the ancients said "yes-men", so in the traditional concept, marriage is a happy event for men and women in pairs. If it is on a certain day, it means bad luck. There is also a saying that the seventh day is a three-niang evil spirit. Legend has it that because Yue Lao didn't hold the red line for San Niang, she couldn't get married for life. She took revenge and resolutely opposed Yue Lao, so she deliberately ruined the wedding of the couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the third day of every month, that is, the third day, the seventh day, the third day, the eighteenth day, the twelfth day and the twenty-seventh day. But to distinguish between true and false SanNianZi, true SanNianZi is not suitable for wedding day, need to avoid. Zhensanniang: The third day falls on Gengwu Day, the seventh day falls on Weixin Day, the thirteenth day falls on Wushen Day, the eighteenth day, the twelfth day falls on Wu Bingri, and the twenty-seventh day falls on the sixth day, so the probability will not be too high. False Sanniang Sand: the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th of each month. It is said that if you get married on the day of "San Niang Sha", the bride will be very angry that day, so she will use a red veil and hold a red umbrella when she gets married. So people think that the seventh day is not suitable for marriage.

How to choose an auspicious day for marriage

? 1, refer to date of birth.

When choosing a wedding date, the couple can consider their birthdays to choose a good wedding date. First of all, we will see whether the eight characters of two people conflict or complement each other. Then look at the best day of the day, which is suitable for the generation of eight characters for two people.

? 2, leap year leap month

People pay more attention to leap month and leap year, so they will give priority to these two points when choosing a good wedding date. Leap year generally occurs once every three years, and there will be a leap month in leap year, thus choosing the auspicious day for the wedding of leap month.

3, pay attention to avoid parents' birthdays

? In traditional fatalism, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married and should be avoided.

What should I pay attention to when I get married?

People should pay attention to the position of marriage when they get married, and put the bed straight when they settle down, not facing the sharp corners. During the whole day of the wedding, no one can touch the new bed, nor can the bride touch the bedside. When the bride goes out, pregnant women can't see her off, because people think that pregnant women symbolize the lotus, which will bring lotus disaster to the couple, so pregnant women should avoid it when the bride gets married. If you meet another wedding motorcade on the way, you must set off firecrackers to each other, or the matchmakers of both sides exchange flowers and leave blessings. When the bride enters the man's house, pregnant women and filial people should avoid it. Three days after their marriage, the couple returned home and had to get back to their husband's house before sunset that day, so they could not spend the night. In case you can't go home for special reasons, the husband and wife should sleep separately, so as to avoid the lotus flower colliding with the family during the bride's honeymoon and bringing bad luck to the family.