Puning marriage custom?

All suitors are generally mediated by the media and introduced by relatives and friends. The matchmaker took the woman's birthday and posted it to the man, so that he could invite both parties to get married. After calculation, he believes that the zodiac signs of both sides will not "conflict", that is, stick the boxer in front of the "Kitchen God". As long as the family affairs are not damaged within three days, you can think that auspiciousness can be matched, otherwise you will send the woman back.

Step 2 hire

When both men and women are suitable for marriage, it is feasible to make blind date and inspect family conditions. Generally, the woman goes to the man's house to see the house, home furnishings and so on. It's called "family style." If there is no objection, we can discuss the employment. The number of betrothal gifts for the man and the number of dowry for the bride should be listed on the red post 12 version. The bride price of the man should indicate the amount of the bride price, the amount of cloth, the amount of gold and silver jewelry, and several kilograms of tea and sugar.

Step 3 send an engagement

Sending a job is also called winning the lottery. On an auspicious day, the man sends the agreed engagement money to the woman's house. After the woman meets, she moves the man's two sugar bags back and inserts pomegranate flowers. This is called employment. In the old Puning Hongyang custom, after being hired, the woman should not only return the man's sugar bag, but also send spring grass as a gift, which is called grass knot; Pig heart is called concentric.

Step 4 get married

When a man and a woman choose a wedding date, they send it to the woman's home with a red post, which is called "reporting the day". Before the woman gets married, please ask the old aunt to pull her face up. On the eve of our wedding, I invited my sisters to eat coarse beets and sleep in front of the stove covered with straw mats. Legend has it that in ancient times, a stepmother abused her ex-wife and made her sleep like this. After the ex-wife got married, she developed and prospered, and it became a custom to obey the law.

Step 5 get married

On the wedding day, the man's family carried colorful sedan chairs and drums, and relatives and friends accompanied the groom to the woman's house to get married. The bride's father or clan elder poured a bowl of water on the top of the sedan chair and said, "When a bowl of water is poured on the sedan chair, the daughter becomes a lady." Many bridesmaids and sisters-in-law came with sedan chairs. My uncle (the bride's brother) "robbed oil" and sent flowers "hard". Hakka customs will also be "pressed on the sedan chair" by their partners.