Inventory of marriage customs in Changsha

Marriage customs in different regions are different, so it is necessary for everyone to know about the local customs when they get married. In addition to the customs of the man, the customs of the woman also need reference. As a Changsha native, how much do you know about local customs and culture? Let's follow the footsteps of this column and have a look.

Changsha xiapin

When the man gives the bride price to the woman's house, both parents should be present. As for how much bride price to give, parents of both sides should discuss it in advance before determining it, so as not to hurt the harmony between the two rooms. Generally, the bride price given by the man to the woman will be used by the woman to buy household appliances in the new house. In addition, a big red envelope should be given to the woman's parents to invite other elders in the family on behalf of the bride.

Select a date.

When you get married in Changsha, please know how to choose an auspicious day for the elderly to look at the imperial calendar, and also use the birthdays of both men and women to calculate the auspicious day.

After the date is fixed, you can write invitations, and the couple or their parents will personally come to the door to give them to relatives and friends.

Matters needing attention in Changsha wedding

1. The bride and groom can't meet the day before their wedding.

2. The wedding ceremony means that the man should bring 100 steamed bread and 100 cake, a pair of live carp (a man and a woman), peanuts, red dates, sesame seeds, tea and other things wrapped in red paper.

If the woman has grandparents, the groom will also prepare a big red envelope for everyone.

4. Drink sesame bean tea instead of tea when picking up relatives. When the groom goes to the bride's house to receive relatives, both the groom and relatives and friends should eat red dates and longan eggs.

Before starting from their parents' home, the couple should offer tea to their parents and listen to their parents' instruction.

6. Both the wedding car and the people on it must be even, and boys and girls must have 1 bucket.

7. The groom should always carry the bride from home to the car, and can't land halfway, which means that the two can grow old together.

8. When the bride arrives at the wedding room, someone should help her wash her face with face lotion.

9. We need to find a little boy and a little girl to have sex together. No one else can sit in the couple's new bed.

Go home after three days of marriage

After marriage, the newlyweds will return to their parents' home on the third day, and hold a gift and dress to keep a good image of the wedding. When the bride arrives, her family will entertain better relatives and friends for dinner. This is called a return banquet. After dinner, the couple will go home together, so that the whole wedding process in Changsha is over.