What should I tell my in-laws when I get married?

1. How to make a speech at the wedding of the man's parents?

Let me introduce you to a short article in my QQ space, which may be helpful to you!

What do newlyweds say at the wedding?

The woman's parents said:

Hello in-laws! Our two families will be relatives from now on. The child (female) is the only child in the family. The whole family won't let her do it, and she won't poke around. We are all spoiled and afraid of burns. We are all married, and our wayward temper has never changed. When I come to your house in the future, I hope you will be more * * * and excuse me more. Before going out, we always told her to be obedient, filial and not willful when she arrived at her in-laws' house. Female majors are also only children, so they should be harmonious, United and respect each other. Okay, in-laws! I entrust my daughter to you.

The man's parents said:

When I say in-laws, my family doesn't talk about two families. Today's children are married and have children, but they are very different from before. They are all only children, and no one can say for sure. They are used to it. Besides, the old man doesn't think about the younger generation. He is looking forward to their marriage, marriage, children, and the young couple living in harmony in pairs. Needless to say, I am also a famous knife mouth and tofu heart. I will be deeper and shallower in the future. Don't take it to heart. I said in-laws, just put your heart in your stomach! When something happens, we communicate more, the telephone traffic is very convenient, and we often come and go. I also hope that the children will go home often!

2. What should I say to my in-laws when I send my marriage certificate?

Traditional habits are not so easy to change. In most people's minds, the traditional wedding reception is still an indispensable part of the wedding day. If there is no wedding reception, it is likely that many friends will not know that you are married in a year or two.

As the saying goes, women who are legally married, especially girls, may pay more attention to this form. At the wedding reception on the wedding day, all relatives and friends will be invited to witness your wedding. With everyone's gaze and blessing, you can finally walk into the wedding auditorium. The few minutes when the bride walked down the red carpet with the groom in her arms may be unforgettable memories for many people. From this moment on, you bear not only sweet love, but also great responsibility.

At the wedding reception, everyone will share your happiness together, and may also give you some sweet little questions. Until the wedding reception was over, the couple was sent to the cave, and then there was a commotion. Everyone's joy is beyond words, so that there will be a wedding flavor. Traditional wedding ceremonies include: proposing marriage, engagement, hiring people, inviting guests and welcoming guests, commonly known as "six rituals".

It is also summarized as "four rituals": writing, inviting, sending, hiring and marrying. Asking the media to propose marriage engagement "proposal" "marriage" and "engagement", that is, the "four rituals".

The invitation period is also called "choosing a day", "sending a day" and "raising a day". After the appointment, the man chooses the auspicious day of the wedding, including cutting the wedding dress, "holding the face" and taking a bath, determining the time and hour of the wedding and informing the woman.

At this time, relatives and friends of both men and women should give gifts. The gift for the woman is called "sending pollen".

In addition to preparing the dowry, the woman should also prepare special items to carry when she gets married, mainly including: First, five pairs of "sedan chair shoes", one pair in spring, summer, autumn and winter, and one pair of water shoes, indicating that the husband and wife share joys and sorrows and will go well in the future; Second, black silk and white silk are juxtaposed, which means that after marriage, you will have a son early, and the husband and wife will grow old together; The third is a bowl of dried longan with orange cake (commonly known as "in-laws' bowl"), which is used to worship "flower parents" when they are newly married, symbolizing the sweetness of life, and "Guilin is full of grandchildren"; The fourth is powder and five-color silk thread. Before marriage, the woman should use silk thread to "pull her face", which means "opening the forehead" (starting to be sensible and managing the family), and also "pull her face" when she is married for four months, commonly known as "pulling her job".

The silk thread used in "Holding Face" should be hung on pomegranate flowers; Fifth, five-color seeds such as red shell, wine cake, mung bean, early millet, sesame and so on. , which means "the five sons are admitted to the branch", and the fortune is prosperous; Six, "Yuanyang belly bag" (also known as "purse" and "waist bag") is used to hold five-color seeds, newly cut "Yuanyang grass" (two coarse grasses) and a pair of "ruyi", which means that married couples are in pairs and are lucky. Seventh, the handkerchief is brown sugar. At the beginning of marriage, the bride should hold a handkerchief wrapped in brown sugar. When you arrive at your husband's house, before you build a well, you should pour brown sugar into the well to convey the bride's wish to "shut the door inside" and "cherish the door". Eight are "flower heads", fans (homophonic "send children") and so on.

After the marriage is settled, the man should ask the fortune teller to choose a date to go home, including the date and time when the bride goes out and the time when she goes home. In addition, the date when the woman cuts the red skirt and the man makes the bed should also be chosen at the same time. One or two days after the bride delivers the vegetables and brings the dowry, the man's family should ask the clan to send the bride price and the fish, meat, poultry, noodles and other things stipulated in the red list to the woman's family, and bring the bride price and furniture back to the man's family when they come back.

"Marriage certificate" is based on the "eight characters" of the married person. Generally, the teacher of Yin and Yang is invited to "see the sun", and he will "infer and understand" and copy it out as a "guide" for men and women to get married on the same day. All related actions should be carried out in accordance with the provisions of the "Marriage Certificate".

! For example, if you send the woman a wedding book in red paper and ink (the cover has been filled out), please order the child to get married on * month * day (occupying the first page), cut clothes and take a bath on * month * day * day * face * square crown * face * direction and get off the car (car). * Point * Visit the church. Seeing Fujian off is a no-no (page 2). Right-handed Dade. Hope * father-in-law Under the stage (one line to the end) (on the third page). In-laws * * The first visit to the village (this trip is written at the far left of the third page, and one line goes to the end) is followed by Qing Yu's it runs in the family: Great Virtue. The hope of an elderly family. Your son, Mr. Weng, and Mr. Weng's old in-laws, Mr. Sun, all nodded to the young man Sun Moumou (the older generation called the in-laws waiter, the older generation wrote the in-laws waiter, the younger generation wrote the in-laws waiter, and the second generation wrote the in-laws waiter, and the full name was filled in by the man's father). New position.

3. What's the name of the invited in-laws?

The invitation looks like a simple card, but there are many details to pay attention to, such as how to write the name of the invitation. Therefore, writing wedding invitations can best reflect the cultural accomplishment and etiquette quality of new people.

First of all, the address of elders in wedding invitations

Mother's brother-Zun Jiutai

Mother's brother-in-law-uncle Zun

Wife's father-in-law

My wife's mother-in-law

Father's brother-in-law and uncle.

Dad's cousin-your cousin/uncle.

Mother's cousin-your cousin and uncle.

Mother's cousin-your mother's uncle

Second, the address of the brother on the wedding invitation.

Blood brothers/cousins-respect brothers/good brothers

Cousins-Cousins/Cousins

Sister's husband-your elder sister-in-law/good brother-in-law.

Cousin's brother-in-law-respected cousin's husband/virtuous cousin's husband

Cousin's husband-Dear elder sister-in-law/virtuous brother-in-law

Wife and brother-respected brother/virtuous brother-in-law

Wife, sister and husband-respected brother/virtuous brother-in-law

Wife and Cousin-Dear brother/virtuous brother-in-law

Wives and Cousins-Respectable Cousins/Good Cousins

Third, the name of the nephew in the invitation.

My nephew.-My good nephew

My sister's son-my good nephew

My cousin's son-my good nephew.

Cousin's son-Xian Cousin

Son of Cousin-Nephew of Xianbiao

Son of wife and brother-virtuous nephew

The son of his wife and sisters-a virtuous nephew

The son of a man's family/in-laws-Uncle Xian Hui's desk

In life, we may be informal, but the title of the invitation should be standardized and solemn. Whether it is an elder, a brother, or a nephew, you should be polite and polite. This kind of invitation is perfect.

4. What should I say when toasting relatives and friends at the wedding?

First, move slowly and have a sense of lens. In a general wedding, the couple's movements are done according to the usual frequency.

As everyone knows, the frequency of such actions is too fast. Because at the wedding, there will be photographers and cameramen waiting to shoot wonderful scenes. If the couple's action frequency is fast, the photographer and cameraman may not have time to reflect. When wonderful pictures pass by, there is no chance to repeat them. Without this wonderful picture, photography and the meaning of photography will be lost.

At most weddings, newlyweds don't pay attention to the frequency of action. The wedding process flashed by, and the action was so fast that his cameraman and photographer scratched their heads. In the process of planning a wedding, the host planner should explain to the couple the links that are prone to wonderful scenes and remind them what to do and how long this posture should be maintained.

Second, relax. I believe your host is the most nervous moment for the couple before the wedding. The long-awaited wedding is about to begin, and at this moment, it seems that everything in my heart is blank.

Some people are running around anxiously, sweating like rain without preparation. Some people walk around empty-handed and don't know what to do.

Have a plenty of hard pumping, don't say a word. Some will say loudly, I don't remember anything now, anyway, I went in as soon as I closed my eyes.

What's more, I'm too nervous for Lian Xiao to take a photo with the guests. When the couple laughed, the muscles on their faces trembled. From the above performance, a problem is exposed, that is, the new couple's ideological burden is too great, which can also be said to be "wedding anxiety."

This anxiety is caused by two reasons. One is that I have never experienced such a scene, I don't know what will happen, and I am very flustered.

(This is understandable) The other is inadequate preparation, for fear that some things may be wrong if they are not ready. For the nervous and anxious couple, it is suggested that you should fully trust your wedding host, because in the early wedding planning with the couple, the wedding host has already communicated with the couple all the processes in the wedding ceremony, and the detailed plot of the wedding process, even the specific action decomposition, has been printed in the couple's mind. Even if you forget it nervously before the wedding, you will remember it again after being reminded by the host during the wedding ceremony.

What should the couple pay attention to at the wedding? In fact, in the wedding ceremony, there should be no problem as long as you follow the prompts of the host. How to control the wedding scene, how to mobilize the emotions of the guests, etc. , all belong to the work of the host, not the problem of newcomers to consider, so don't worry about these problems.

Please believe that your wedding host will take care of everything for your wedding. In addition, you should also fully trust your friends who help you. As long as your preparatory work is in place in advance and your friends have a clear division of labor, you only need to implement your own special work.

Everyone's work is finished and your wedding is ready. If this can't solve the anxiety of the couple, then I can only advise one more thing: when the wedding ceremony begins, forget everything and just go to the wedding hall.

For the problem of insufficient preparation for the wedding scene. If a newcomer finds some problems when he arrives at the hotel, don't prepare and implement them yourself, because there is no time.

This is very important, because the time when the couple arrive at the hotel is very close to the time when the wedding begins. If the couple put aside the concept of time and prepare an unimportant question at this time, it will definitely delay the start time of the ceremony. The loss of time will delay the start of the wedding. Originally, the whole wedding was budgeted, but the delay in the start time will make the wedding end longer than expected.

Unless the wedding process is reduced to shorten the wedding time, those reduced processes will make the couple's hard-earned preparations go to waste. So, what should newcomers do when they find problems on the spot? The best solution is to find the person in charge of the duty machine immediately and let him fully implement the problems (generally, the person in charge of the duty machine is usually an experienced person) until it is solved.

If the problem involves the wedding ceremony process, the implementation result should be communicated with the wedding host immediately, because only the host can master the whole wedding ceremony, and he can adjust the specific arrangement of the wedding ceremony according to the situation of the problem, and will discuss with the couple whether to change the start time of the wedding ceremony and change the wedding content if necessary. Third, be polite to the guests. The groom should smile, strut his chest and show his handsome and generous demeanor. Especially when you come out of the float, you must pay attention. First, look around the guests, wave or make a fist at them, and then go to the bride.

This is very important, it can improve the groom's spirit, and it is also beneficial for friends to shoot. When the bride appears in front of the guests, she should appear as a gentle and reserved person.

Keeping quiet is the most important feature of the bride. The bride's eyes can't be as left and right as the groom's eyes, so it doesn't look like a "good family."

The bride's smile, serenity, gentleness and modesty should be the theme of this day. At the beginning of the wedding, the groom should hold out his chest. If the entrance is not very serious (such as a church), he can raise his free arm appropriately and wave to everyone.

The groom can grin, but don't greet the guests. It will be "bourgeois". When the bride enters the venue, it is best to hold her head high, smile, remain reserved and look straight ahead, because the front is the most beautiful stage in life.

When entering the venue, especially remind the newcomers, because there will be guests spraying flowers or colored confetti on both sides of the red carpet. When new people meet, they must not put their hands over them. This is not only against etiquette, but more importantly, your covering action completely covers your face. From the stage point of view, your arm, the guest's arm and the camera lens are all arms, and the video effect is very poor. Fourth, between new people.

What should parents say at the wedding?

What parents want to say at the wedding is mainly to thank all relatives and friends for coming and bless their children.

At the wedding, the host will say all kinds of greetings. As parents, it is appropriate to express your wishes simply and concisely.

"Ladies and gentlemen, friends and relatives, thank you for coming to the wedding of my son and daughter-in-law. The old couple have been looking forward to this day since their son was born. He held their wedding here today, and should thank all the relatives and friends present for their help and education, so that they can grow up. I hope the young couple will respect and love each other, tolerate each other, honor their elders, respect their teachers and work hard. Let your little life be harmonious and beautiful, and you will prosper! "