Can I get engaged in the first month?

1, you can't get married in the first month and get engaged in the twelfth month, otherwise the husband and wife can't grow old together.

2, marriage is rarely in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagement is rarely in the twelfth month. Because the wife interferes with her in-laws in the first month, the engagement in the twelfth month is defeated, so there is a saying: just don't marry, don't order. But whenever you get married, you must choose a good day. Moreover, a few days before the date is chosen, the man must invite the matchmaker to the woman's house to inquire about the girl's little life. That is, the date of the monthly letter falls in the first half or the second half, so as to choose an auspicious day. It is said that if the bride's monthly letter comes at the time of marriage, there is a saying that the red horse will go to bed and the family will be ruined, so everyone attaches great importance to it.

3, if the groom is young, before entering the bridal chamber, parents must earnestly warn not to celebrate the festival, so as to avoid the bride getting pregnant on the wedding night, then the child born is called Maimenzi, which is unlucky. Therefore, it is very important to choose a date.