Can we change our engagement before marriage and send a good day?

I thought it was hard to change the engagement and the auspicious day, but as my own wedding, it was easy to change. It depends on what I want.

First, it is not firm enough to change. My first marriage was hurried. When my husband and I were in love, my mother asked every time I called? Have you been married long? My husband's family is also urging, and my husband is also anxious. I'm actually in no hurry. What I wanted at that time was to stay for a while, because I thought my husband's personality was not mature enough, and we had to run in for a while to be better. But under my mother's repeated urging, I finally got tired of it, so I chose to compromise and finally parted.

Now my family introduces me to the blind date and calls me every day to follow up on the blind date. In fact, after knowing me, people didn't talk to me at all and didn't contact me, so I talked about a boyfriend myself. At first, my family urged me as before, and even asked me to take the initiative to be with that boy. I was so annoyed that I didn't know what to do. Later, I thought about my first marriage and simply did what I wanted.

Engagement is actually the same as sending a good day. It seems that relatives and friends are also involved. To put it bluntly, the biggest concern is yourself. After all, it is a lifelong event. If you really want to change, you must be firm and change. Don't think too much. It's not as much trouble as we thought

Second, the inability to change is the lack of ability. Of course, not everyone can do whatever they want. The reason why I made up my mind to change is because my family doesn't give me a dowry. I have to rely on myself and say a few words at home at most. There is nothing I can do. However, if you look at the things at home, the situation is different.

My classmate had a house, a car and a bride price when she got married. The object of the wedding must get the consent of parents, otherwise they can't enter the house, and the wedding date is basically arranged by parents, let alone changing the date.

Equal rights and obligations? It is not empty talk, especially in marriage, so if you want to control your own destiny, you must work harder and improve your ability!