How to set a wedding date before sending invitations?

When designing wedding invitations, many newcomers will contact customer service for help to see if their wedding day is auspicious. Gaitu's editor-in-chief Com reminds newlyweds that they need to choose a date at least half a year in advance, and wedding invitations only need to be distributed to relatives and friends one month in advance. The traditional auspicious day algorithm pays attention to many things. In the face of many auspicious inquiries, how to choose? An auspicious day for marriage, an auspicious year, and double spring: It means that there are two "beginning of spring" years at the beginning and the end of a year. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves. For example, 20 14, 20 17 and 2020 are all "double spring years". Leap month: refers to the year when there is a leap month in the lunar calendar, that is, * * * * has thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious. Such as 20 12 leap in April, 20 14 leap in September, 20 17 leap in June, and 2020 leap in April. Double spring and leap month: "Double spring" and "leap month" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy! For example, Renchen (20 12) and Wu Jia (20 14). Real wedding day: If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better choose both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China has always regarded this day as a wedding day. Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. But this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar. Avoid parents' birthdays: In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not suitable to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, and it is ok to get married within that month. Matters needing attention in choosing an auspicious day for marriage: avoid the month or day of conflict with animals: the so-called conflict refers to the conflict between rats and afternoon horses, ugly cows and sheep, silver tigers and monkeys, hairy rabbits and unitary chickens, dragons and dogs, snakes and porcupines, * * * six groups of conflicts, that is, rats should avoid the month or day of afternoon horses, and so on. March 379: It is best to avoid auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Magnolia and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding. Avoid three years: according to legend, Yue Lao doesn't lead the red line for three years, so he can't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to fight against the old lady and specialize in the happy events of newly married couples, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage. Is the blind year optional? A blind year is a year without "beginning of spring". Usually, the year after the "double spring" is the "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year. 1, we should consider the reality of both families. Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly and relatives and friends have time to participate. 2. We should consider the reality of both sides' work and study. If one party studies in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date. 3, we should consider the physical condition of both sides, the wedding period should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be embarrassed to say it. 4. Unify the wedding date and holidays, so that the new couple can have more time to arrange the wedding, but there are many new couples who get married during the holidays, so it is necessary to book hotels and motorcades in advance. Considering the cost, June, August, September and1October are the peak periods of the year, so the wedding price in these periods is likely to be higher. However, if you get married in 1 month, March and1February, it may cost less. The general principle of choosing a wedding auspicious day is: date is more important than month, and month is more important than year. Blind years also have auspicious days, so it is not necessary to pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and it is not necessary to postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years. No matter which day you choose, you need to consider your actual situation. Considering the budget and the wedding peak, it is a good choice to try to choose the days that everyone is satisfied with.