How to be a good matchmaker

"If you don't do it, you won't do it. If you don't guarantee it, you won't be a three-generation matchmaker." Because the matchmaker says that marriage is a world event, if you can't have a happy life after marriage, the harm to both men and women is immeasurable. Therefore, being a matchmaker is not an easy job.

Matchmaking is a skill. The matchmaker should not only be familiar with the basic situation of men and women and their families, but also make every effort to propose marriage at home. Moreover, he must basically and accurately reflect each other's situation to both men and women and their parents, try his best to hide evil and promote good, so that both sides can fully understand each other's strengths and are willing to reach a marriage agreement. In other words, if you want to live, you must have a matchmaker's mouth. To be a matchmaker, you should be diligent in running errands. From the day you start to match men and women, you should always shuttle between men and women, exchange information, convey each other's wishes and demands, and take precautions.

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Something unexpected happened. Traditionally, both men and women have the obligation to entertain the matchmaker, and it is not an exaggeration for the country people to say that "the matchmaker has a hundred meals". It can be seen that it is diligent in running.

The matchmaker plays an important role in the old-fashioned wedding. After both men and women have basically reached an agreement on marriage, he should guide the man on a blind date, send a modified Geng sticker on behalf of both parties, guide the man to get engaged, choose an auspicious day for marriage, guide the man to take over the marriage, and assist the wedding ceremony until the couple enters the house, and then throw the "matchmaker" over the wall. The media said it well, and both sides were satisfied. In the future, they often exchanged views and became old friends. If the media doesn't speak well and both sides are dissatisfied, they will often blame the matchmaker and be regarded as passers-by from now on.