How do sworn brothers generally become sworn brothers and what should they do? Is there a limit to the number of people?

Pinyin bà i b m: z ǐ

Explain that friends are brothers with different surnames

Qing Wu Ren Jian's "The Unfamiliar Status Quo Witnessed in Twenty Years" comes back to the 23rd time: "When you talk about becoming sworn brothers, I'll tell you a joke."

For example, Ceng Pu's "Evil Sea Flower" goes back to 19: "Our old man sent a letter to the general manager of Lian Gonggong, and it really was him."

Used as object and attribute; Used for communication, etc.

Synonym sworn brother

Becoming sworn (hereinafter referred to as "Becoming sworn"), nicknamed "Becoming sworn to Jin Lan", commonly known as "Becoming sworn" and "exchanging posts", is a form of brotherhood between peers. Originated from the story of "Three Marriages in Taoyuan" in the Three Kingdoms Period, Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei became brothers. Later, people worshipped it, and then imitated it, that is, people with similar interests and similar personalities hit it off with each other and formed a brotherly relationship through certain forms, caring for each other, supporting each other and helping each other in life, and taking care of each other when encountering difficulties. Over time, it has evolved into a kind of etiquette custom with humanistic color. This is the sublimation of friendship, the freezing of social relations, which runs through the Confucian thought of "righteousness" and fills the relationship between family and friendship. It is a special social interpersonal relationship.

Chengyi has a standard etiquette procedure, that is, on a voluntary basis, through consensus, choose an auspicious day of the zodiac, hang Guan Gong and other gods in a place that everyone thinks is more suitable, such as the ancestral temple, and hum three sacrifices, namely pork, fish and eggs (one for each person) and a live chicken (the male is a rooster and the female is a female). Everyone sends out a copy of Jin Lan Spectrum, writes down everyone's name in chronological order, and presses their fingerprints. After the ceremony, everyone will bring a wick and "Jin Lan Music". Then, kill the chicken, drop the chicken blood into the red wine, pierce the middle finger of everyone's left hand (the woman's right hand) with the needle tip, drop the blood into the red wine, stir it evenly, sprinkle three drops on the ground first, and finally take a sip in order of age, and put the rest in front of the statue of Guan Gong. This form, some are also called "blood alliance".

There is no limit to the number of people wishing, regardless of gender or age, but it must be an odd number. In the same year, the same sex became sworn, with men called brothers and women called sisters. It is usually carried out in adolescence, and most of them are like-minded, or in the same boat, or have their own needs. In the old society, there were many rituals and customs of becoming sworn: relatives did not become sworn; It is the in-laws who do not become sworn; Those who have a generation gap do not become sworn; Those who do not agree with the eight characters do not become sworn; Those who break clan rules don't become sworn (once they became enemies with other clans, they vowed to make rules not to marry or marry a certain clan); Those who fail the swearing-in ceremony are not formally sworn in, and so on. With the progress of society and the improvement of civilization, people think that as long as they get along well, they don't have to stick to a certain form. Of course, in reality, there are still some young people who are sworn and relatively indifferent to the old etiquette. The ceremony is generally simple, mostly oral oath. According to etiquette and custom, adults swear in front of Guan Gong statue, "ancestral temple" or other gods. Young people want to be allies, generally they have to get the consent of all their parents before they can take the oath, because their elders are more experienced and cautious.

After the swearing-in ceremony, people who take part in the swearing-in ceremony are called brothers. Some people add the words "Qi", "Lan" and "One" before addressing, while others are commonly known as the eldest, the second and the third ... meaning life and death and * * *, sharing weal and woe. In case of wedding, funeral and celebration, etc. They all associate like brothers.

With the changes of the times, social environment and people's thoughts, this form of mutual care, support and help is very different in form, content and function, forming a close and complicated social relationship between people. People who do good deeds can become a group that is United and progressive and beneficial to social progress. For example, when the Fujian Provincial Party Committee entered Shuikou Sakura in the middle of 1944, the leaders of the Party and guerrillas and the revolutionary masses in Sakura were blood allies. In the special era, through this form of oath, we can strengthen the relationship between the party, guerrillas and the masses, and achieve the purpose of unity, unity and unity, resisting the Japanese aggressors and opposing the Kuomintang reactionaries. Its significance is obvious.

A sworn oath is a good wish for people to realize their ideals in life, but the final result is not expected by everyone, because people's feelings will change, or become indifferent, or even turn against each other because of changes in environmental conditions. Once this happens, the sworn oath will be broken, and allies often break up in discord. Generally speaking, to end the League of Righteousness at that time, it must end in the form of righteousness.

Now the relationship between people is win-win and development, and getting along with friends is the best state. This form of worship is generally not advocated.

Attachment: "Jin Lan Spectrum"

Men's style: the cover room is full of piano books, the intersection of music and intimacy; The bed is linked with the wind and rain, and the arm is often used to talk happily. Therefore, it is appropriate to spit on the ground, and other mountains attack jade, and the sound is sky-high. Every time I look at the orderly geese, I will be attached to the ponytail. So-and-so and so on. Fill the inkstone in the north, cut the window in the west, or write vertically and horizontally, or peek at the hall. Young people shake hands, Lei Zhen's high friendship * * * Qin; White water is calm, so Zhifang Bao dust should be controlled. Stop the clouds and fall on the moon, across the Qian Shan, but I don't like to go through the years and my own determination with Meng Si, the old rain and the spring breeze. Don't compete with fame and fortune, don't compete with talent and virtue. Righteousness and Jin Lan, today, since the fairy couple, Huisheng bamboo forest, I hope other years can also be closely related. Sincerely.

Female body: poetry logging is enough to attract friends; It's easy to break gold, but it's early to meet your bosom friends. Therefore, embroidering Lu in boudoir is not only the communication of sound and gas; You can also observe the chicken window. Therefore, the alliance of friendship, friendship and loyalty is an orderly and effective way. So-and-so waits for the wind and the moon, closes the door in flowers, or sings poems, just to praise my husband; Or writing history, he is good at Ban Zhao. If the copper bowl is knocked over, you will have to wait a lot; The jade cup looks at the shadow and invites the bright moon. It's windy in first frost, so don't be frivolous. The bed is connected with wind and rain, which is suitable for the firmness of pine and cypress. Don't put talent first, don't judge people by their appearance, don't be suspicious because of their sparse appearance, and don't complain repeatedly because of their different reputations. Several gardenias are together, and nine gardenias are tied together. They swore to the gods that they would share weal and woe forever. Sincerely.

Note: Jin Lan: refers to a firm and harmonious friendship, which originated from the Book of Changes: "When two people get together, they will break the gold, and when they talk together, they will be as fragrant as orchid". Later used as a synonym for sworn brothers and sisters.

There is no problem with the number of people. 36 friends of Jiajialou became sworn brothers. Brother will never surpass this man, will he?