How to choose a good wedding date for marriage customs

As a lifelong event, everyone wants to have a good marriage, and a good marriage must have a good start, so the invitation date (wedding date) as one of the "six gifts" is also paid more attention to by people! Choosing an auspicious day for marriage according to the traditional mathematical viewpoint (eight-character numerology) is not only the beginning of a happy marriage, but also lays a stable foundation for future marriage life. One: Know your horoscope. Usually, we think that constellations are incompatible. In the traditional horoscope, the horoscope is only one of them, so the horoscope is only one of them, and the relative marriage of individuals is not decisive. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see the harmony and disagreement from it, and choose an auspicious day from it. Both men and women will be combined with Shenwangjiri, with a happy marriage and prosperous children. Two: Make a choice according to the bride's date of birth. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries." If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage. It is best to choose Ji Yue as the wedding day. It is best for the man to listen to the woman's opinions as much as possible and avoid the menstrual period on her wedding day. But at the same time, the opinions of others (especially husbands, wives and grooms) should also be taken seriously. After all, it is related to the future family, happiness and harmony. Avoid getting married in special months, and avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are all traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events. Because Sanniang likes to fight the old moon and destroy the new, she also needs to avoid it. Sanniangsha is the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th day of the lunar month. Avoid each other's birthdays and parents' birthdays. If your parents have died, you should avoid jealousy and death. In addition, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is not suitable for marriage, because the bride who gets married in June is called "half-moon wife" according to traditional thinking, that is, she has no background and does not help each other. In addition, there is one more thing. Although there is a saying in folk tradition that "the year without spring is the year of widowhood", there is no need to worry. You still need to choose the right wedding date and time according to your own numerology, and you can't generalize. Considering the situation of both parties and their families, it is best to hold the wedding when both parties are in good health, otherwise it will not only affect the harmony of new life, but also aggravate the illness. It is necessary to avoid the busy period of study and work for both parties and arrange the wedding and honeymoon itinerary in advance. Discuss which day to hold the wedding, inform both parents in advance, and ensure that the elderly and relatives and friends at home can come to the wedding and enjoy the festive and harmonious scene. Five: The best auspicious day for marriage is to avoid one day and choose two. It is a good choice to unify the wedding date and holidays. The advantage of this is that relatives and friends will have time to attend the wedding, which coincides with the holiday and has a warm atmosphere; The bride and groom will also share the joy of the festival with relatives and friends on the wedding day, and will also be infected by the festive atmosphere of the wedding, wishing the wedding. However, due to the large number of newlyweds who get married during holidays, we should pay attention to booking wedding banquets and hotel convoys in advance. According to traditional customs, the real wedding day should be based on the date of the wedding banquet and the wedding banquet. If the date of marriage registration is separate from the wedding ceremony, it is best to choose an auspicious day. For example; In that year, if a family member or an old man died, it would be inappropriate to hold a banquet in that year, let alone register, otherwise it would be a taboo to "live and die." In fact, choosing a day is choosing a good luck, and the essence of choosing a good luck is "seeking good luck and avoiding evil." Especially for such a happy event as marriage, we should pay more attention to the choice of date. The above is the most basic knowledge of choosing a wedding date. Like the old almanac, it can only be used as a unilateral reference, which is not comprehensive. Still need to combine their own numerology conditions, and finally choose a suitable wedding date.