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What should I do if there is a contradiction in marriage?

1. Urgent ~ There is a conflict between the zodiac signs on the wedding day.

Animals like rabbits are mice, cows, dragons, chickens and horses. Rabbit: When it comes to sheep, dogs and pigs, we are lucky, followed by other animals.

Animals related to dragons are dogs, cows, dragons and rabbits. Dragon: When it comes to mice, monkeys and chickens, we are lucky, followed by other animals.

What does it mean that the China Zodiac collided?

1, conflict representatives disagree, which is easy to conflict and contradict each other.

2. Harmony Trinity represents harmony, harmony, easy communication and common prosperity.

3. Punishing each other represents disagreement and punishing each other.

Genus is only a branch of eight characters, which is broad and not specific enough. So in reality, there are still contradictions between father and son, but they are very close. This is because there are consistent elements in their eight characters. Only by combining other branches of the eight characters to make a concrete analysis can it be accurate.

Kinship and consanguinity are the fate cultivated by generations. A natural baby means that it is predestined, sometimes in life. Treat it with a normal heart and don't pay attention to it deliberately.

If you are the solution to the mutual harm between Rabbit and Chen Long:

You can make friends with pigs, sheep or monkeys and have a baby with them. As a bridge and link of communication, you can use a black and blue tone to neutralize and accommodate in your life. In geomantic omen, you can choose a house with a master bedroom in the northwest or due north as a lucky star, or you can wear crystals in the shape of mice or pigs, or put ornaments such as fish tanks to increase the margin.

The solution to the incompatibility of Dragon and Rabbit is as follows:

1, when choosing a wedding date, choose an auspicious day with rats, monkeys, pigs and sheep on duty;

2. Newcomers who belong to dragons find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to monkeys or rats, and those who belong to rabbits find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to pigs or sheep;

3. Give birth to a child in the Year of Rat or Pig;

4. Place decorations or furniture in the Year of the Rat or the Year of the Pig at the bedside.

2. Can I get married if I belong to the same family?

Zonal conflict refers to the conflict between rats and horses, cattle and sheep, tigers and monkeys, rabbits and chickens, dragons and dogs, snakes and pigs.

Generally speaking, marriages with conflicting genera are definitely not good. In many parts of China, marriage depends on whether the genus is consistent. If they are in agreement or conflict, they think that marriage is not good and they cannot get married. Traditional marriage thinks that two people can't get married because of the conflict of their genus, otherwise the marriage will not go smoothly, or the marriage is prone to problems.

In fact, comprehensive marriage needs to look at five items. Just looking at one of the zodiac signs does not determine the quality of marriage. Even if the genus is consistent or contradictory, as long as the other four are consistent, the marriage is still very good. The warps collide with each other and also collide from the azimuth. Zi represents the north, noon represents the south, Zi represents the mouse, and noon represents the horse.

Ugly don't bump. Ugliness refers to cattle, not sheep. Yin stands for tiger and Shen stands for monkey.

You Mao collision, You Mao is the East, Youyou is the West, You Mao represents the rabbit, Youyou represents the chicken. Chen Xu stands for dragon and Chen Xu stands for dog.

Four seas meet, four represent snakes and four represent pigs. Whether two people are together is a crime. It is necessary to comprehensively analyze whether the eight characters match. The zodiac only represents one word or one aspect of the eight characters. Judging the marital status of two people from this aspect is a bit too one-sided. It is necessary to comprehensively look at the eight characters and see if two people are coordinated together. If the other seven words or several aspects are consistent, then the zodiac conflict is no problem.

Generally speaking, in the eight-character numerology, conflict, mutual harm and criminal punishment are not conducive to marriage. If these problems are not solved in time, Ryutsuki will have a hard time and even divorce. However, there are also special circumstances, some couples will have a better marriage relationship, and they can restrain each other and keep their money.

Therefore, marriage is also a complicated labor, and we can't simply look at one or two items and draw conclusions. Marriage is a life-long event, which is related to the happiness of one's life. We must treat it with caution and not rashly.

3. What should I do if I have a conflict with my family on the wedding day?

I don't have time to look at the calendar. It's only a matter of time before I urge the dog. Generally speaking, six reds refer to the time series of "Chong Ke Tai Sui", "Eight-character collision" and "Universiade Chong", which will be more serious and will not have much to do with one day. If the date has been fixed, it doesn't matter whether it is changed or not.

If you feel uneasy, you can find a way to neutralize it: for example, the best man and bridesmaid are chickens, so Chen You alloy, according to numerology, means whatever the combination means.

Whether a person's marriage is happy or not depends on the joint construction of husband and wife, and external forces will not play much role. In Buddhism, there is a theory that everything depends on the heart. People who are cheerful and generous don't care about trivial matters, and people who are ambitious don't care about accidental bumps. Confucius said: an upright man is open and poised, I am always worried. People who haggle over every ounce often lose more than they gain, which is probably a philosophy of life!

I wish you happiness!

There is no amitabha in the south!

Open your heart!

4. What if there is a contradiction in marriage?

What should we do if there is a contradiction in marriage? People with conflicting zodiac signs will inevitably appear in our lives, such as parents, children, sisters and brothers, and couples. Although the family loves each other, there will be more contradictions and conflicts between people who contradict each other in the zodiac, and there will be many unhappy things together, and things will be very unsatisfactory.

On the principle and solution of the zodiac conflict: the contradiction of the zodiac means that they are not suitable together, which will produce contradictions and weaken each other. In addition to conflicts, there are mutual injuries, mutual punishments and mutual destruction, such as Liuhong, Liuhai, Liuhe and Sanjian. Zodiac collision: rats collide at noon; Ugly cows are not sheep; Yin Hou is busy; Hairy rabbits collide with chickens; Dragon and dog fight; The snake collided with the pig.

Zodiac harms each other: rats are not harmed by sheep; Ugly cows kill each other in the afternoon; Yin, tiger and snake kill each other; Mao, rabbit, Chen and dragon kill each other; After the gods, Haizhu harms each other; You killed a dog with a chicken. Zodiac punishment: pika punishment; Silver tigers, snakes and monkeys are punished; Ugly cows, sheep and dogs are punished; Chenchen (Dragon), Wu Wu (Horse), You You (Chicken) and Hai Hai (Pig) committed suicide.

Zodiac break: mouse and chicken break; Ugly cows, dragons and dragons break each other; Yinhuhai pig is broken; Hair and rabbits break each other at noon; Snakes and monkeys break each other; Both the sheep and the dog are broken. The essence of the collision, mutual harm, mutual punishment and mutual destruction of the zodiac is the disharmony between yin and yang, the resistance of the five elements and the deviation of orientation.

For example, in the five elements, rats belong to yang water, representing the north, and horses belong to yang fire, representing the south. Judging from the five elements, because water is like fire, rats and horses want to rush; From the perspective of yin and yang, rats and horses are yang water and yang fire, both of which are positive, belonging to the disharmony between yin and yang; From the azimuth point of view, it is also the separation of north and south, with the son (mouse) representing the north and the afternoon (horse) representing the south.

So, the mouse and the horse rush at noon. Other analogy.

Through the above analysis, we have a good understanding of the principle of collision between genera. It is not that two animals collide together, but that the five elements of the zodiac contain each other, and the yin and yang are not harmonious and in the opposite direction. It is not difficult to understand the principles of collision, mutual harm, mutual punishment and mutual destruction of the zodiac.

As long as proper feng shui instruments are used, the circulation of the five elements and the interaction of yin and yang can be guaranteed. There are two common methods.

Method 1: Ask five lines of gossip Fuzhengfu to regulate Qi-flowing, promote the energy circulation of five elements, and adjust the balance of yin and yang gas fields. The cycle of the five elements produces vitality, and the yin and yang are harmonious and auspicious, which can effectively resolve the damage caused by the punishment between the zodiac.

This is a universal solution, which can effectively solve the punishment, rush, break and harm among all zodiac signs. Now there are imitations of five lines of gossip Fu, please don't make a mistake.

Method 2: The zodiac signs are consistent. There are not only conflicting relationships, but also consistent relationships between the zodiac signs.

As long as a compatible zodiac is introduced between two conflicting zodiac signs, it can effectively resolve the zodiac signs. For example, rats and cows are at six, and horses and sheep are at six.

In the case of collision between rats and horses, as long as one of the family members belongs to cattle and rats, or one of them belongs to sheep and horses, the collision between rats and horses can be effectively resolved. If there is no such zodiac between family members, you can put the zodiac mascot cattle or sheep to resolve it.

5. Can I get married in the year of the Zodiac?

Zonal conflict refers to the conflict between rats and horses, cattle and sheep, tigers and monkeys, rabbits and chickens, dragons and dogs, snakes and pigs.

Generally speaking, marriages with conflicting genera are definitely not good. In many parts of China, marriage depends on whether the genus is consistent. If they are in agreement or conflict, they think that marriage is not good and they cannot get married. Traditional marriage thinks that two people can't get married because of the conflict of their genus, otherwise the marriage will not go smoothly, or the marriage is prone to problems.

In fact, comprehensive marriage needs to look at five items. Just looking at one of the zodiac signs does not determine the quality of marriage. Even if the genus is consistent or contradictory, as long as the other four are consistent, the marriage is still very good. The warps collide with each other and also collide from the azimuth. Zi represents the north, noon represents the south, Zi represents the mouse, and noon represents the horse.

Ugly don't bump. Ugliness refers to cattle, not sheep. Yin stands for tiger and Shen stands for monkey.

You Mao collision, You Mao is the East, Youyou is the West, You Mao represents the rabbit, Youyou represents the chicken. Chen Xu stands for dragon and Chen Xu stands for dog.

Four seas meet, four represent snakes and four represent pigs. Whether two people are together is a crime. It is necessary to comprehensively analyze whether the eight characters match. The zodiac only represents one word or one aspect of the eight characters. Judging the marital status of two people from this aspect is a bit too one-sided. It is necessary to comprehensively look at the eight characters and see if two people are coordinated together. If the other seven words or several aspects are consistent, then the zodiac conflict is no problem.

Generally speaking, in the eight-character numerology, conflict, mutual harm and criminal punishment are not conducive to marriage. If these problems are not solved in time, Ryutsuki will have a hard time and even divorce. However, there are also special circumstances, some couples will have a better marriage relationship, and they can restrain each other and keep their money.

Therefore, marriage is also a complicated labor, and we can't simply look at one or two items and draw conclusions. Marriage is a life-long event, which is related to the happiness of one's life. We must treat it with caution and not rashly.

6. How to resolve the contradiction of marriage?

Male 1986 bing yinnian 65438+February 3 1.

Female: 1988, April 23rd, Wuchen year.

Yue Ji, who married you two in June, 5438+00-great, no bad events!

The auspicious day for you two to get married in June 5438 +2009 10 is:

(You two can choose)

Friday, June 2, 2009+August 2009 14 (dog washing)

Sunday, August 6, 2009/kloc-65438+October 4, 2009/kloc-0 (rat washing)

Tuesday, June 6, 2009, June 6, 2009, August 18, Wuyin (Chonghu)

Thursday, August 8, 2009, 10 Chen Geng (Chongqing)

June 65438 Thursday+10/October 65438+May 27, 2009 Dinghai (pig washing)

June 65438+ October 65438+June 2009, August 28th, Wuzi (washing rats)

The first day of September, Sunday, is a good day! !

Monday, 2009, 10, 19, the second day of September, Xinmao (Rabbit Run)

20091Sunday, 25th October 65438+ Badingyou (Chicken)

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009/kloc-0, 65438+September 2009 1 1 day (rat washing)

I wish you happiness!

7. Why can't the age of marriage conflict with the zodiac?

Marriage customs naturally present strange phenomena in different nationalities and races.

In China's traditional marriage customs, the marriage age and the zodiac are taboo. In terms of marriage age matching, men are forbidden to be three, six or nine years older than women, and women are forbidden to be one year older than women. Therefore, there is a saying that "women are junior and hold gold bricks".

However, Yi people avoid being three years older than their daughters. For the marriage matching between men and women, the inappropriate marriage age is appropriate, from the pain after marriage to the punishment, infringement, coercion and injury, which leads to the destruction of the family.

In addition, the age of marriage should not be too early or too late, which is closely related to fertility and physiology. In fact, the taboo of marriage collocation is related to the taboo of Otawa Zodiac collocation.

For example, Han people are afraid that men are three, six and nine years older than women. In traditional marriage customs, it is not suitable for men and women to get married at the age of three, six or nine.

Because when they are six years apart, their zodiac signs are hedged, while the three-year-old and the nine-year-old are biased towards each other. That is, the theory of "three punishments" and "six evils" in the eight-character theory.

Six evils, namely six reds, refer to Woods Chong, Ugly Buchong, Shen Yinchong, You Mao Chong, Chen Xuchong and Ji Haichong, while Woods and Ugly Buchong are just six years old, so some people think that six years old is not good. The three punishments are "applying for punishment", "sub-punishment" and "one punishment", so people who are three or nine years older are not suitable for marriage.

However, because the eight characters are divided into four columns, only the year columns (year of birth, zodiac) conflict with each other, which does not mean that the other three columns (month, day and hour) are uncoordinated. For those lucky marriages with a difference of four or seven years, the year column and the zodiac are the same, which does not mean that the other three columns are the same.

In fact, two people are incompatible, which must mean the whole character.

8. What happens when couples have conflicts?

In the process of telling fortune to fortune tellers and approving horoscopes, Tao Yunge often asks how to resolve the conflict between the two zodiac signs, especially the conflict between husband and wife or lovers. He is opposed by his family or always psychologically uneasy, fearing that the creed that fate and marriage are incompatible will come true.

Tao Yunge explains in detail what should be paid attention to when there is a conflict between the genus and the genus, and how to solve such problems. Many friends will encounter the problem of Liuhong, a zodiac animal, in making friends, falling in love and getting married. Although the two sides have a good relationship, they get along very unharmoniously, and often quarrel and make conflicts, so that both sides feel very tired and even hurt their feelings. Therefore, they are eager to find a solution.

Regardless of feelings and marriage, it is actually a kind of fate. In the vast sea of people, two strangers can meet and have a good impression, and they come together first by fate.

But fate alone is not enough, because fate can only bring two people together, but it can't guarantee that two people can walk through life. Because fate also has depth, good and evil.

Good people with deep relationships will respect each other, care about each other and live together, while those with shallow relationships will fight, dislike and hurt each other. The depth of fate, good and evil, is particularly obvious from the configuration of their genera.

Those who belong to a three-in-one family generally get along well, while those who belong to six evils are generally more difficult to get along with. In a sense, the zodiac is the foundation of getting along and marriage, and the quality of this foundation directly affects the future feelings and marriage.

How to judge whether two genera overlap or collide? Tao Yunge has discussed it quite clearly in many previous articles, and readers can refer to it, so I won't repeat it here. The problem that needs to be solved now is, how to solve the problem of friends, lovers or lovers who are about to or have come together, if they can't get along, and they have committed six reds? Now, we will teach you some simple and intuitive adjustment methods from the aspects of zodiac configuration, five-element color, geomantic houses and ornaments. If you adjust according to this, I believe it will have a good effect.

First of all, let's understand the five elements and their relationship with each other. The five elements are mutually reinforcing: wood makes fire, fire makes soil, soil makes gold, and gold makes water. Aquatic wood phase grams: Mutuke, Tuke water, water can gram fire, fire can gram gold, Jin Kemu.

Generally speaking, the zodiac animals collide with each other, and they are the strongest, so there is a saying of collision. For example, Zishui is in the middle of Shenzichen Sanhe Water Bureau, and the power of water is the strongest; At noon, in the middle of the Sanhe Fire Bureau, the power of fire is the strongest, and the power of meridians is very strong. Just like a flood striking a fire, the energy generated can be imagined. This situation is mainly coordinated by the middle power, which is called "customs clearance" in numerology. For example, water is used to make wood, and wood is used to make fire, so that water and fire have a bridge between wood and will not fight each other.

Therefore, the main way to solve the conflict is to bridge the gap between the two zodiac signs through "customs clearance". If you are a son (mouse) horse (horse), you can make friends with the tiger, or have a child with the tiger as a bridge, and you can use green to neutralize and accommodate in your life. In geomantic omen, you can choose the apartment with the master bedroom in the east, northeast and southeast as a lucky star, you can also wear or place wooden and tiger-shaped home accessories, or hang a Taoyunge peach gourd on the bedside to solve it.

If you are ugly (cow) but not ugly (sheep), you can make friends with snakes, dragons and pigs, or have a baby with them. Earth color or gold and silver can be used to neutralize and accommodate in life. In geomantic omen, you can choose the apartment with the master bedroom in the south and southeast as a lucky star, or you can hang a treasure chest of Tao Yunge on the bedside to increase the love between husband and wife. If you are a Yin (tiger) god (monkey), you can make friends with mice or have a baby with mice as a bridge. Black and blue can be used to neutralize and accommodate in life. In geomantic omen, you can choose the apartment with the master bedroom in the north, northeast and southeast as lucky stars, you can also wear Tao Yunge's six-way bracelet or put a fish tank, or use mouse-shaped ornaments to increase the margin.

If you are a rabbit and a chicken, you can make friends with a pig or have a baby with a pig. As a bridge, you can use black and blue to neutralize and accommodate in your life. In geomantic omen, you can choose the apartment with master bedroom in the north and northeast as lucky stars, or you can wear Tao Yunge's six-way bracelet or put a fish tank, and use pig-shaped ornaments to increase the margin. If you have conflicts with Chen (Dragon) and Xu (Dog), you can make friends with horses, tigers and mice, or have a baby with them. In life, we can use the colors of earth, gold and silver to neutralize and contain them. In geomantic omen, you can choose the apartment with the master bedroom in the south and southwest as a lucky star, or you can wear a three-in-one bracelet of Taoyunge to increase your own fate.

If you are a snake and a pig, you can make friends with rabbits or have a baby with them. As a bridge, you can use green to neutralize and accommodate in your life. In geomantic omen, you can choose the apartment with master bedroom in the west, southwest and northeast as lucky stars, you can also wear or place wood, or use Taoyunge peach gourd to increase the margin. The above six combinations collide in people's work, career, family, marriage and other things and occasions dealing with people. In fact, there are many things in our environment that cannot be changed.

For example, our parents cannot choose, our brothers and sisters cannot choose, and even our leading colleagues cannot choose. Therefore, people often have conflicts, disputes and quarrels with their relatives, friends, colleagues and even leaders until they rise to violent conflicts. If you know that many things are directly related to the combination of the six reds of the zodiac and know the method of dredging, many problems will be solved.

Since everyone can't change others, the fastest way to change yourself is to know the way of "customs clearance", which can reduce a lot of pain and troubles and make your life full of confidence and beauty.

9. Can the zodiac get married?

This is not complete. Why do we call the eight characters? It's a match of eight words, only one zodiac sign is said, and the total * * * accounts for one of these eight words, and there are seven words to match. If we just talk about the Zodiac, now everyone knows that the Zodiac and Ma Xiao can't be matched together, but I also met many people. It's normal for them to grow old together. The old people around you will study it after all. You can't just look at animal signs. A single zodiac sign doesn't help much, and there are still seven words to match. If all seven words are good, only one word is bad.

Even marriage failed. He is a monkey and I am a pig. This is a kind of mutual harm. Two people divorced because of a verbal dispute. There are six words in the eight characters of your two zodiac signs, and the two are combined. This combination is the first one, and it is still good during love. The older you get, the more so. It is really out of place. You can't say one word to represent your happy married life. This is not right.