Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - What I saw and heard after my death (the ninth, tenth and eleventh days)
What I saw and heard after my death (the ninth, tenth and eleventh days)
Today is the ninth day after my death and the day of my burial. This is what Mr. Feng Shui has been expecting for a long time, and the specific time is set at 10 in the morning.
It's time, and my red coffin is still there, motionless.
Not everyone lost track of time, nor were there not enough people carrying coffins, but it was raining outside.
We have a local custom. At the funeral, don't touch the coffin with water, which is harmful to future generations.
At the moment, the second child is standing at the door of the house. He was the commander-in-chief of the whole funeral. He looked at the sky for a while, but the rain didn't stop.
Forced funeral, he is a little undecided.
The boss was so anxious that he asked the second child what to do.
Two brothers walked into the house together, and Mr. Feng Shui was sitting on the kang drinking water.
"It's time, Sir. What should I do? "
"It doesn't stop raining, so you can't move the coffin. I think noon 12 to 2 noon is auspicious. "
The second child wanted to say something, but he couldn't stop.
The dead have no physical ties, and I am six in one, so I am well informed. I know exactly what others are thinking.
I know what dick wants to say. He wants to ask Mr. Feng Shui, "What if it doesn't stop raining at two o'clock in the afternoon? We can't change the date! " He didn't ask, because he felt that Tiangong couldn't wait so patiently, and he didn't believe it would rain for four hours.
The second child told the kitchen to fire quickly and everyone had lunch early. As soon as the rain stopped, they acted immediately.
Hundreds of relatives, friends and helpers waiting for the funeral outside the hospital changed their time and dispersed to take shelter from the rain and wait for dinner.
At the moment, the third child is in the east room, listening to nothing outside the window, sitting on a bench and copying Hokkekyo.
The daughter sat on the edge of the kang and watched the third child copy the scriptures. She saw that no one came, quietly said to the old celebration:
"Three elder brother, it has been raining. Obviously, my mother didn't want to be buried here, and even God cried. "
The third child looked up at his daughter and continued to copy his classics.
After lunch, it rained harder than before, and everyone was very sad.
In the village, it is basically the villagers who come to help with the white work, running errands and cooking. It's autumn harvest season, and I've been dead for eight days, and my blind date's farm work has been idle for eight days. If I don't harvest, I think they will collapse.
In addition, in addition to the second child, there are many colleagues from government agencies. Everyone has a lot on their hands, thinking that if they are buried smoothly today, life will return to normal tomorrow. If we want to delay, because of the face of the second child, everyone can't leave early, and we have to bite the bullet and continue to insist.
In a word, everyone is on the verge of collapse. I hope the rain will stop soon.
When the rain stopped, I quickly buried the dead, and the life of the living continued.
"Sir, it seems that the rain may not stop today."
"We have to find a way to keep the coffin from getting wet."
Mr. Feng Shui finished staring at his penis. In fact, he thought he had an appointment with another client to see the cemetery tomorrow. Today, there must be a result here. Leave this question to the second child. He has no ability. Let him find a way.
"On my command, prepare to carry the coffin ~"
With the loud voice of the steward, there were four boys on each side of the coffin. Their faces were flushed and they lifted the coffin. As soon as the coffin came out of the mourning hall, it was sent directly to a huge golden box, which was perfectly connected and did not get caught in half a drop of rain.
This huge box is like a dragon chariot. Except that it has no wheels, there are 32 people carrying it in the middle. In front of it are the eldest brother, the second child and the third child. They are carrying a thick rope on their shoulders and are trying to pull the coffin forward, followed by a mighty farewell team composed of relatives.
The farewell party went through the village in the rain and walked to the cemetery. Firecrackers roared in the rain and the team stopped and went. They stopped, knelt down and kowtowed, then got up and moved on. The original white mourning clothes have already become filthy.
Except for the three brothers, everyone else in the team is holding an umbrella. His uncle can't stand it any longer. He asked several people to give umbrellas to the three brothers, but the second and third said no.
"Hold on, don't catch a cold. It won't work for so long. "
"Uncle, no need, we three brothers just sent my mother the last journey, and the usual filial piety is all in this rain."
His uncle wiped his face and couldn't tell whether it was nose, tears or rain.
There are many folks with umbrellas watching.
"My poor second sister-in-law, who never had a good life, grew up and made great achievements, but got such a disease and left."
This is his aunt Xiantao, with red eyes under the umbrella.
"Wow, really imposing manner. Thirty or forty people carried it, and the county magistrate and county party secretary died, but that's it. If I die, I can still be so beautiful, even if I don't live in vain. "
This is his uncle Hu Shuan, full of envy.
Out of the village, the team entered the farmland. Occasionally, there are some lime roads in the village, and this farmland outside the village is all dirt roads. It's muddy when it rains. For those young people who carry coffins, it is difficult to safely transport this huge box to the burial place. A long simple awning was set up here, from where the box landed to the tomb door.
The tomb was dark and boundless, and there was the coffin of the father of the eldest brother's second son.
My body is going to sleep here and I feel a chill.
The mouth of the tomb is not big, and the adobe pyramid-shaped mound below is very long, more than two meters high from the ground. It is difficult to move this coffin weighing 1000 kg below and put it in the tomb. First, put two people with ropes on their bodies slowly into the pyramid-shaped mound and meet them below. A dozen people above tied the coffin and came down little by little. When the coffin was about to descend to the pyramid-shaped mound, the following two people decided on the position and put two thick round wooden rollers on the pyramid-shaped mound below the coffin. Without these two rollers, such a heavy coffin would sink into the ground as soon as it landed, and it would be impossible to push it into the tomb again.
Then two people came down and pushed in the back. It turned out that two people were pulling in front, and the coffin finally entered the tomb. Set the position, the people inside will sweep out with brooms, and the footprints of the living can't be left in the folk graves.
Back to the tomb, the people above threw down strong sacks, and the people below piled up at the tomb. These sacks play a role in preventing moisture. The tomb was sealed, the people below were pulled up, and the shovel began to shovel the soil below.
The daughter grabbed the third child's arm with one hand and wiped her tears with the other.
Every shovel hit my daughter and me in the heart.
The pyramid-shaped mound was filled in, and a grave was gradually built on the ground. Several young students moved to the tombstone, and Mr. Feng Shui measured the position and put it down. The bottom is rammed with mud.
I saw my name engraved on the tablet, the date of birth and death, and the name and date of birth and death of my eldest brother and second father.
Next to it is the grave of Big Brother and his grandparents.
I deeply remember his grandmother's pointed face after his father left, and their relatives in the Li family left us orphans and widows, lacking food and drink. Plus it was winter, the north wind roared and the night was haunted.
My eldest brother and I curled up in the room and didn't dare to move. I don't know how I got through the most difficult time. I thank the kind people in the village who helped me.
I cried with my eldest brother and second brother about how their grandmother's family treated us at the beginning, but when they grew up, the Li family secretly found them, and they also recognized their grandmother and aunt.
I am really angry, but why did you go in the first place? The child is old and promising, you come to pick up the ready-made ones.
I stared at his grandmother's grave, and my real enemy was buried in a cemetery.
I came to my senses and saw a fire burning in my grave, and hundreds of wreath shelves crackled.
Everyone's expression is no longer dignified, and some people even smile unconsciously in the night. Finally buried, the burden in my heart can be unloaded.
At 9 o'clock in the evening, I followed everyone back to the old house in the village. Before entering the hospital, I saw everyone washing their hands, crossing the brazier, turning over the kitchen knife and looking in the mirror. Turning the kitchen knife is to tell me that there are different ways for people to make a clean break. Looking in the mirror is hoping that I can't see myself in the mirror, which makes me shrink back and stop following everyone.
I want to tell you, don't worry, I don't have many days from forty-nine days, and the days of making a clean break are more than thousands of years.
I followed you back because I couldn't bear to part with my children.
When I remarried, Boss was already a child of seven or eight years old. Maybe he kept complaining about my remarriage. The third child and his daughter's father certainly didn't treat him well with their own children. After studying, the boss spent most of his time outside until he dropped out of high school. I didn't care enough about him, and he gradually alienated from my mother. I am his closest person and a stranger. He feels that his new home is not his home, and the pain and loneliness in the process of growing up can only be experienced and tasted by himself.
The second child was five or six years old. In order to prevent the tragedy of the boss from happening to the second child, I paid special attention to the study of the second child while taking care of the third child and my daughter, and prevented him from making friends with those bad children. When the second child was in high school, I once found some axes under the pillow in his room and knew that he was close to some hooligans in school. That day, a group of them hid in the second room. I don't know what happened. I rushed in with a broom to scold him and drove his friend away. I cried and told him that it was not easy for us, hoping that he would be angry. The second child knew my good intentions, closed his heart and began to study hard, which is why he is so promising today. Compared with the boss, the heart of the second child is closer to me. He doesn't talk much, but I know he still loves this mother.
The third child and daughter were loved by their parents since childhood and felt the care of their brothers. They were born and raised in happiness, and their father is an honest man. Therefore, the two children are naive, gentle and honest, ignorant of the world and devoted to their studies. My third child and my daughter have been close to me since childhood. When I was a child, I would jump in my arms and coquetry. Even if I grow up and get married, I will still hug me when I get home and give me a big kiss on the face.
The normal behavior between my mother and my third daughter, as well as her mother and daughter, is simply unimaginable for the boss and the second child. Maybe they saw it in their eyes and tried to jump into my arms countless times, but the shadow of childhood lingered. They can only live in condoms.
Eldest brother, second child and third daughter, they are my dearest children. My palms are covered with meat, and no matter where I bury them, it will make another pair of children sad. Now that I'm buried in the graves of my eldest brother and second brother, I won't blame them, although I don't want to. The third child and daughter got all the love when I was alive. Let my cold body satisfy the boss's wish.
"Third, you won't stay for two days. When I was a child, I spent more time with my uncle. When you grow up, my uncle won't see you. "
"Don't live, uncle, the unit has been urging over there, and you will be unemployed if you don't go back. Uncle, you should take care of yourself. "
"Brothers and sisters, your mother loves me the most. When I was a child, she took me everywhere and always left me a copy of what was delicious ... "
Said the third uncle has career, old tightly hold the hand of the younger brother.
"Third son, you promised my uncle that if he wants to leave, you must come back and see him off for the last time."
I really can't watch it anymore. We go to the boss's room and the second room.
Knowing that Lao San was leaving the day after tomorrow, his two brothers discussed how to sound out Lao San's tune and what the old house in the county meant.
They came to the third house together, and his uncle had gone back, leaving only the third and Xiao Mei.
"Third, my mother has been buried, you come back so many days. The pressure at work is very tight, so it's time to go back to work. Third son, as you know, my mother spent a lot of money to see a doctor, that old house ... "
"The old house belongs to my mother, and the eldest brother and second brother belong to your family. Find a buyer to sell it and subsidize my mother's medical expenses ..."
Little sister glanced at the third child, then at the eldest child and the second child.
After listening to the old three, the boss and the second fell to the ground.
"I discussed with your eldest brother. You will leave the day after tomorrow. Tomorrow morning, everyone will come to me, call my old uncle, and sort out the accounts together. We can also do other things together. "
The next day, everyone gathered at their home in Raul County.
The second daughter-in-law first gave everyone the bill and gift money for my funeral. The total cost is less than 200 thousand, and the gift money is returned to the other party.
The funeral expenses are paid by the eldest brother and the second child, a small part by the third child and 10 thousand by the younger sister.
The third said to be like the boss. The second said it was not easy for you to be outside. Just do as you just said.
The third thought, in fact, you don't have to feel guilty for big brother and second brother. No matter where our mother is buried, her mother is the same and the expenses of the three brothers should be the same. But eldest brother and second brother insisted on that, and agreed without saying anything. Big brother and second brother are big, but they and little sister are small. It feels like big brother and second brother bought out the ownership of mother on behalf of the Li family?
Then the second daughter-in-law reported the medical expenses for my medical treatment. How much insurance was reported at present, but not how much insurance was reported, and how much money everyone paid, I also gave it to everyone.
Because the old house hasn't been sold yet, I calculated the general ledger according to how much I can sell at the market price, and I should be able to get an extra one or two hundred thousand in the end.
The second suggested that the third should take the extra money and the third should decide how to use it.
The second child said that when our mother left, she always wanted to give the third child another one, and she didn't want the third child's father to be buried there alone.
This was really my idea. I know that I am a dying man who can't beat the boss, and my third child and daughter can't change anything. But Lao San and his daughter's father can't be alone. I told my second child what I thought, and the second child promised that if the third child agreed, he would help find a suitable one for his father.
Hearing this, Lao San said on the spot that it was difficult to accept that his father was buried with a stranger who was not his mother.
The second said that he couldn't reach the third, and the third was still young. Maybe he will change his mind when he grows up.
Under the witness of his uncle, everything is in good order for me.
"Little sister, three elder brother will leave tomorrow, and my parents are gone. What worries me most is you. "
"Three elder brother rest assured, I am so big, will take good care of yourself. If you are outside, call back often. "
"Well, call me if you have any difficulties, or go to the second brother."
……
The third insisted that no one sent him, a backpack and a suitcase, and walked to the bus stop.
The third senior high school began to study outside and worked outside after graduation. I can't remember how many times I watched him drag a box, carry a backpack, walk out the door and disappear into an alley. Every time he leaves, I just walk him to the hospital gate. I couldn't see him, so I turned back to my room and sat there crying.
This time, I followed him to the bus station I watched him get on the bus, sit in the corner of the last row and look out of the window.
"When my parents are away, my hometown has become my hometown!"
The third child leaned back and covered his face with a brim. His body is shaking.
The car started, getting smaller and smaller. ...
Third, the mother-child relationship in our life is because of this.
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