What are the three happy events in life?

Three happy events in life are: when I was the number one scholar, I spent a candle night in the bridal chamber and met my old friends in a foreign country.

1, which is the first time.

In ancient times, many people studied hard at the cold window for many years in order to hope that their future would be boundless and change their destiny. Therefore, in the imperial examination, being the number one scholar is the only proper way to get an official position. So being the first is the first happy event in life.

2. Candle Night

Wedding night means that two people start their own families. In ancient times, they not only wanted to be suitable, but also demanded bride price and dowry. Before getting married, they must choose a good day and hold a banquet to entertain their relatives and friends. People attach great importance to this and regard it as the second happy event in life.

Meet an old friend in another country

In ancient times, traffic was extremely inconvenient, and wanderers could only go home once after going out for many years. Seeing an old friend in a foreign country will be exciting, just like seeing family. So this is a great happy event for them, so meeting an old friend in a foreign country is naturally listed as the third greatest happy event in life.

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Wang Zhu, whose real name is Wende, was born in the late Northern Song Dynasty. Wang Zhu began to write poems when he was nine years old, and was known as a "child prodigy". Wang Zhu's poetry is brilliant. He has written many quatrains, all short poems, which are convenient for children to remember. At that time, there were more than 30 five-character quatrains, which were interpreted and compiled into the collection of Wang prodigy poems.

The words and expressions of the poem "prodigy" are easy to understand and suitable for children to recite. The ancient and modern wonderful book, which is as famous as the three-character classic, has become the main teaching material for training Mongolian children, with a very wide spread and far-reaching influence.

The other is from Hong Mai's "Rong Zhai's Essays, Four Writings, Eight Proud and Frustrated Poems" in the Southern Song Dynasty: After a long drought, I met an old friend and met an old friend in another country; Wedding night, for the first time. It means: the drought finally met the rain from the sky; Wandering in a strange place, I accidentally met my former bosom friend; The joy of the wedding night. ; Take the imperial examination and succeed in one fell swoop.

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