Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - "Don't take money if you get a marriage certificate", and the man is sure that the woman will not give a bride price. How did the girl outsmart love rat?
"Don't take money if you get a marriage certificate", and the man is sure that the woman will not give a bride price. How did the girl outsmart love rat?
These are all dramatic and the other way around. People can't help being happy, excited and applauding.
However, these are TV dramas, but the fictional plot is not reality, and many people find it incredible, but in fact, life is like a play, and drama is like life. Although novels and TV plays are not true, many prototypes are also recorded from life and put on the screen after artistic processing. There are realistic shadows because they can arouse the audience's * * *.
In reality, drama and reversal are not uncommon, but sometimes, such drama is more cruel, and reversal is more heartfelt, exposing the evil of human nature.
Not all endings have a beginning and an end, and every cause has a result. People looked at the beginning with great interest, and finally found out that it was a "bad film". The audience only shouted and booed, but there was no applause.
As an emotional worker, I have seen more different feelings and marriages, which made Yan Fang deeply realize the true meaning of the sentence "Ordinary is true". There is no shortage of wonderful storylines in our life, but Yan Fang prefers that everyone's life does not have to go through reversal and drama, and plain life may be the greatest happiness.
Meng Xiao told me that she never dreamed that her beloved had learned to change her face without knowing it. This was dramatic, which made her dumbfounded and even more suspicious of life. And she dealt with a man as he deals with you, and finally reached a reversal ending. Although it has been half a year, she still hasn't come out to start a new relationship.
Meng Xiao is 27 years old. /kloc-At the age of 0/7, she was admitted to high school with her junior high school classmate Fan Xiao. After graduation, she was admitted to the same university. Meng Xiao still remembers that it was an autumn, and the main road of the school was covered with buttonwood leaves. This is the first time they met during their college years. They met, smiled and didn't say much, but secretly laid the future direction for them.
Later, Fan Xiao often "bumped into" the dream of taking CET-4 and CET-6 in the library, and their hearts got closer and closer, and finally they met unexpectedly.
Don't think this is an idol drama. The girl described to me the beginning of her beautiful love with her delicate and sentimental brushwork, which was youthful and poetic. This is the first love of scratching boots.
Meng Xiao is a sensible girl. She knew that Fan Xiao's family was not rich. At first, the boy often sent flowers and gifts to Meng Xiao. Although Meng Xiao was very happy, she felt sorry for the boy's money and deliberately scolded him for wasting it with a straight face. She asked the boy not to give her anything that was not practical in the future. Sure enough, Meng Xiao never received any gifts from the boy again.
But Meng Xiao never cared. Every time a boy invited her to dinner, she excitedly pulled the boy into the canteen and ordered a 30-yuan hot pot, which was very satisfied with the boy's face. Her childhood relationship was always so simple and carefree.
Meng Xiao and Fan Xiao have been together for three years. After graduating from college, they should have gone their separate ways. Meng Xiao hoped that Fan Xiao would return to his hometown and even take Fan Xiao home to meet his parents after graduation. However, he never thought about it but met with fierce opposition from his parents.
Meng Xiao's family is very rich. His father runs a small restaurant in the local area and his mother runs a small hotel. Meng Xiao is the only daughter in the family. She grew up in a honey pot. Her parents have carefully trained Meng Xiao and placed high hopes on her, including Meng Xiao's future partner.
My parents are both temporary workers. They used to work in Fan Xiao's hometown to make a living. In fact, Fan Xiao's hometown is thousands of miles away. First of all, my parents said they didn't want Meng Xiao to get married. Second, they think that Fan Xiao's conditions are not good enough for his daughter.
Meng Xiao and his parents are exhausted, but their parents just don't agree with Meng Xiao's continued contact with Fan Xiao, and the negotiations are fruitless. Meng Xiao ignored her parents' obstruction and went to work with Fan Xiao angrily. Until two years later, when his parents saw Meng Xiao, their parents had no room to change their minds. Their daughter didn't listen to her anyway, and they didn't trust Meng Xiao to suffer outside, so they had to compromise, but asked them to go back to their hometown and settle in their hometown in Meng Xiao.
The man's family has no different opinions about Meng Xiao's parents' demands. If you develop in Shenzhen, even if you can't afford to buy a house for ten lifetimes, it is more than enough to go to your hometown in Meng Xiao. After the man agreed to the conditions, the two quickly went to Meng Xiao's hometown, and the two sides began to make intensive preparations for the wedding.
The two families sat together to talk about marriage, and Xiaomeng's family wanted a bride price of 200,000 yuan. The amount of bride price is not much in the local area, which is matched according to the strength of Xiao Meng's family, but it is very difficult for Fan Xiao's family.
Meng Xiao's parents are very reasonable. They directly reduced the bride price from 0.2 million/200 thousand to120 thousand Meng Xiao's parents only gave the boy a word, and treat my daughter well in the future.
The bride price has been decided, but the man's family has been dragging on for a long time without money. Fan Xiao and Meng Xiao cry for poverty, saying that their family has no money, and they really can't come up with these betrothal gifts. Meng Xiao looked at his lover's embarrassment, and the bride price dropped from120,000 to 80,000, but there was still no news of implementation.
In the meantime, two other things happened. One is buying a house. The man even paid 200,000 yuan to buy a house locally. The little dreamer also offered a joint venture of 0.2 million/200 thousand with the man. However, the man's family, knowing the little dreamer's thoughts, quickly paid a down payment and bought a suite, so that Meng Xiao's name would not appear in the room book. For this matter, Meng Xiao and her boyfriend had a big fight.
She didn't understand why her boyfriend didn't trust herself, but because she couldn't bear it, her boyfriend cried and apologized sincerely, and Meng Xiao forgave her.
The second thing also affected the overall development of things later. The man's family didn't know where to find the magic stick and planned the most suitable day for them to get the certificate. There are many threatening remarks that they must get the license on the auspicious day of the zodiac next week, or their marriage will be ruined.
Meng Xiao didn't believe it, but the boy's family seemed convinced that the family took turns lobbying Meng Xiao, and even her boyfriend suggested Meng Xiao.
"I'm not afraid of ten thousand, just in case. For our future, I don't allow any mistakes. "
The man's eyes were sincere and sincere, and Meng Xiao had to believe that she and the boy soon got the license, but at this time, things began to get out of control.
Suddenly, the boy's family really had no money, and he couldn't get any money for the bride price. Meng Xiao is stupid.
"No money, not a penny? Who believes this? Do you believe it yourself? "
The boy said frankly, but he even gave the rake: "Our family has money, but we have already paid 200,000 yuan to buy a house. I have a younger brother below. I can't spend all my money at home and leave no money for my brother. What should I do if he gets married in the future? You are already our daughter-in-law. Why don't you consider our family, take care of yourself, and don't consider my husband's family? " Meng Xiao, you've changed. You used to be different. How did you become so materialistic now? Let me down. "
Meng Xiao was not led by her boyfriend, insisting that her boyfriend must be ready for the promised final bride price, otherwise she would not marry him.
At this moment, her boyfriend, who has always been as warm as jade, proudly shouted to her: "Be rational and recognize the situation clearly. Don't take Joe with you when you get a marriage certificate. If you don't marry me, who will you marry Divorced' second-hand goods' depends on who dares to marry you! "
At this time, Meng Xiao found himself completely passive after receiving the marriage certificate.
"My friend told me that it was because I got the marriage certificate that they felt that they had caught me and were sure of me, so they dared to directly reduce the bride price of 200,000 to zero, thinking that I must marry their family, so they dared to neglect me so much. I used to be skeptical, but now I really believe it. "
At this moment, Meng Xiao was really awakened. The next day, Meng Xiao quietly broke off his engagement with the man, but the man refused to get married. He importune, step by step, shows that Meng Xiao can't divorce, because he has become a member of their family.
After listening to the man, Meng Xiao only said, "Well, I gave you a chance. Don't regret. "
The next day, many people's circle of friends appeared a video of the boy shouting proudly. It turned out that Fan Xiao copied the surveillance video of his home that day and sent it to all relatives and friends of both sides from home.
The video quickly flowed out from relatives and spread wildly in the local area, making Fan Xiao's family famous in the local area and being pointed out when they went out.
Fan Xiao was furious and found Meng Xiao. She held out her hand, ready to hit her. When the relatives who heard the news were pressed to the ground, Meng Xiao sneered and could not speak.
"I just announced the truth, let everyone see the true face of your family, let your love rat image exposed. You said I couldn't marry, so I looked at you. Who dares to marry you later? "
After all this noise, Meng Xiao successfully divorced, and the man's wishful thinking fell through, and his reputation was discredited, and he ran away with despondency.
Meng Xiaozhi took love rat and dealt with him as he deals with you, exposing the ugly face of the other side. It sounds really cool, but square face feels very unhappy.
I feel unworthy of this girl. When this girl found me, her words were negative. After more than half a year, it is still difficult for her to go out. She couldn't understand why her first love finally came to this step, whether she was wrong, whether she was aggressive and went too far.
Do you think that girl is wrong? There is nothing wrong, she is wrong. Her mistake is that she is too stupid, too fond of others and too gullible. She should have noticed when the man repeatedly delayed the bride price. We can understand that maybe the man's family condition is not good and he can't afford so much money, but why did he promise at first and then go back on his word? This is a breach of promise, this is a moral issue.
If she had a little vigilance, she wouldn't have got the marriage certificate with the man in advance, and she completely fell into the trap of the man, leading to the final passive situation. She outwitted love rat, but she killed 1000 enemies and lost 800 people. She was badly hurt, and her internal injuries were even worse.
The man she loves has been plotting against him, but she has been kept in the dark. She is willing to sacrifice everything for a man, but that man is not willing to pay a little for her, which is enough drama. When a man thinks he is sure of winning, he thinks he is catching turtles in a jar, but the girl turns him into a street mouse, which is enough to turn Gan Kun around.
But as I said above, this ending is not a perfect ending. In this brain game, there is no winner and both sides lose. As long as there is a calculation, no one will not get hurt after the end.
At the end of the story, Meng Xiao said a movie line to me: "I only thought of the beginning, but I didn't expect the end." Yes, 17-year-old youth, beautiful first love, turned into a struggle for interests and mutual calculation in the end.
Be cautious about marriage and keep your eyes open. If you meet the wrong person, stop the loss in time. Don't think about talking about a thrilling love. Of course, the landslide is thrilling. It brings you not only shock, but also disaster. I hope everyone can meet ordinary love and live an ordinary life, ordinary but not mediocre. Satisfying your little happiness and staying away from love rat is actually a victory.
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