What does SM mean?

Sexual sadism, known as sadism (sm) in the west, refers to the consciousness and behavior related to sadism and abuse. In China, sm has a gentler name: Sadism. SadoMasochism, a word in English, is a combination of Sadism and Masochism. Its abbreviation is what we usually call SM. Sadism was first discovered at the end of 17, and first appeared in literary activities and some commercial abuse services. Of course, the earliest sadomasochi literature was the first to introduce the works of French writer Thad and Austrian writer Masoch, and the word sadomasochi was created by psychologist Richard von Krafft-Ebing through their names. At that time, especially in Britain, which can be traced back to the whole Victorian era, a major trend of underground pornography was sadomasochism. The most obvious is the strong love of the British people for flogging at that time. Even today, flogging is still called a bad habit in Britain on the European continent. Back to Kaori Yuki (Japanese cartoonist), it is well known that Yugui is obsessed with English culture, and the story background of Cain, one of his representative works, is London at the end of19th century. In addition, the author's own creative soul is a kind of thought that violates the normal state and challenges the secular world from beginning to end. We call it a distorted mind and laughs, so there is always some kind of more or less social sadism in her works. "Sadism masochism (sm for short) refers to the consciousness and behavior related to sadism and abuse." However, my favorite definition of SM is sexual magic. What an interesting explanation. Experts define masochism as: "it is a sexual activity that connects pleasure with pain, or a sexual activity that obtains pleasure through pain." The so-called pain has two connotations, one is physical pain (such as the pleasure brought by whipping); The second is mental pain (such as the painful feeling caused by humiliation in the relationship between rule and obedience). " From the most obvious point of view, the first is Princess Thorn. When Prince Louis broke into the witch hall, the first thing he saw was the piercing tools on the wall and countless whips. Pay attention to what he said at that time: there is a special torture room at home. As a necessary place for sadomasochism, "torture room" was very popular in Britain at that time, and every brothel providing sadomasochism services would have it. In Paek Sul Hui, necrophilia, who wrote a letter to Prince Louis in a large space, can also be regarded as a sadist (fetish? An expression. Of course, the witch's M performance is too obvious, so I won't mention it here. But interestingly, in Britain, the number of people who spend money is much higher than that of abusers. Most of them are men with successful careers and decent clothes, and even advertised in the newspaper to ask the "hostess" to whip them. One obvious reason why the interest in flogging was so popular in Victorian era was the abstinence tendency and the extreme emphasis on modesty in the social atmosphere at that time. Therefore, they will think that humiliation is the biggest stimulus and further make it sexy. Next, talking about the "juvenile residual image", when Ed went to that club for the first time, he pushed open Raul's door and noticed that the men below Raul were lying in bed in a tied form. The two most common forms of sadism are flogging and thread &; Bond), the former is briefly discussed in front, and the latter is mentioned here immediately. As we all know, Ed's murder was born out of1Jack the Ripper, a famous London figure in 888. This cruel dismemberment can be said to be the extreme of a strong sadistic tendency. (Although it is generally believed that sadomasochism is just a kind of "game" and there is no real harm) But unlike Jack the Ripper, Ed also did something very S-flavored-blindfolding, which is a very common phenomenon in sadomasochism. Sadism in cleaning Yin is mainly manifested in the self-destructive tendency of cleaning Yin. If he commits suicide many times and thinks he is dirty, and so on. His abusive tendency is rooted in Oedipus complex, that is, Oedipus complex. Incest with his mother when he was young (and seeing her burned to death with his own eyes) led him to feel extremely guilty and self-denial. It was once thought that "self-loathing" was the main motivation of masochism. ) Similar to him, Cain and Kibel in Cain, the Poison Count, felt a strong sense of guilt for doing something wrong (leading to the death of their mother), and they were flogged by their fathers for a long time. This point will be discussed in detail later. Beria in Angel Shelter also has a strong sense of self-loathing. His name means worthless. He has a strong tendency to be abused, and his feelings for Lucifer are obviously sadistic. These include satire, ridicule and cruel treatment of each other, and so on. Roger El, an inorganic angel, is often compared with Gibel in Cain, the Poison Count. They are considered to be similar, especially in their attitude towards the Creator and Mr. masters. Unequal Love But in my opinion, Gibel appeared as a masochist from beginning to end. This is obviously different from the image of abuser in rougier. Before rougier began to grow up in reverse, his most common attire-leather coat and whip-was completely the wardrobe of the abuser. Coupled with his strong desire for control and conquest of others, rougier was a typical abuser at this time. However, after he grew up against Lucifer, he began to change, such as showing happiness under Lucifer's ridicule, and even finally returned to a strong attitude of inferiority, self-loathing and self-abandonment when facing the creator. According to Freud's theory, guilt is an indispensable factor in the transformation from sadistic tendency to masochistic tendency. So at this time, rougier's submission to the "Lord" (God) is similar to that of Gibel, that is, atonement. The term "sm sadomasochism" was first put forward by Pan Guangdan, a sociologist of the older generation in China, but it was not until the end of the 20th century that Li Yinhe's sadomasochism subculture really filled the gap in this research for our country. The author defines sm sadistic masochism as: "sm sadistic masochism is a kind of sexual activity that connects pleasure with pain, or it is a kind of sexual activity that obtains pleasure through pain ... The so-called pain has two connotations, one is physical pain (such as the pleasure caused by whipping) ... and the other is mental pain (such as the painful feeling caused by humiliation in the relationship between domination and obedience)." Sm sadomasochism is basically classified as abnormal in the eyes of China people, which is in sharp contrast with Japan, a neighboring country separated only by a strip of water (the Japanese cartoon Crayon Shinchan contains sm sadomasochism), so the publication of this book provides a good springboard for relevant sociological research of domestic scholars. S is a sadist: it refers to a medieval French marquis named sadist, who likes to abuse women in his life. There are a lot of descriptions of sexual perversion in his works, so later scholars named him active sadomasochism, that is, he likes to abuse others and sadomasochism, that is, sadism. M refers to masochism:19th century Austrian novelist Massock himself is a passive sadist and describes many abnormal sexual activities in his works. Therefore, passive sadism is named Massock phenomenon, namely masochism. In contemporary China, sm still belongs to a subculture. A concept to be mentioned here is "Cyber SM", that is, network SM. Like sexual fantasy, this way of getting sexual pleasure through fantasy SM scenes is called network SM. The development of instant messaging also provides a broad platform for network short messages.

SM professional explanation

Explain the game mode and special hobby of SM circle from a more professional point of view. The full name is "BDSM". This is the synthesis of three groups of words: B/D, D/S, S/M: S/M: masochism gets pleasure from pain, while sadism likes to give people pain. One party obtains the satisfaction of desire by physically abusing the other. The other side gets physical and mental satisfaction from the pain. There are many such people in the west, and most of INSEX belong to this category. SM commonly used means are: grasping, ice, whipping, whipping, hanging, buckling, stabbing, clamping, riding a wooden horse, hanging heavy objects, electric shock, suffocation and so on. B/D: Binding & display line. Binding usually means some restrictions on physical freedom, such as binding, imprisonment, confinement and so on. Displine means some kind of discipline or punishment. More people in the SM circle in the East belong to this category, which is commonly known as training. Hemp ropes, ribbons, handcuffs, fetters, chains and cages are generally used to restrict each other's activities. Advanced ones can transmit instructions without external instruments, which belongs to psychological binding. BD's game is very strong. Through some instructions and check the situation and degree of failure to complete instructions, give corresponding punishment and correct the other party's mistakes. It seems that punishment is the means, and making it correct is the purpose. In fact, both ends and means are changing, or both ends can be said. Because some instructions cannot be completed. For example, it is difficult to control whether you are allowed to get wet or erect under stimulation. D/S: Domination/obedience, which means domination and submission. One person plays the leading role and the other obeys. This often involves the play of roles and plots, such as master/slave, torturer/prisoner, teacher/student, master/servant or pet. People who like D/S don't necessarily like to hurt themselves or tie themselves up. Some BDSM terms: wear: use rough things, such as sandpaper. Recovery: After BDSM role-playing, participants calm down, discuss what happened and their personal reactions, and gradually return to reality. If the recovery is not good, it will lead to serious consequences. Different-year-old drama: usually refers to the role-playing of father and daughter, mother and child. There is no incest, but the relationship between parents and children, teachers and students. Anal torture: painful BDSM behavior on anus. Animal game: the weaker side plays an animal, such as a puppy, a pony, a calf, etc. Sell: Sell the abused person to the highest bidder (usually managers and temporary workers). BDSM: Bound/enslaved/abused/abused bottom people: obey someone, give up their autonomy, or just suffocate under the control of others: the abuser controls the breathing of the abused. CBT: Torture of penis and testicles. Rape fantasy: in the voluntary rape game, fantasize that you are a victim or a victim to get pleasure. Sadism: for the purpose of causing pain. Wax dripping: A recipe drops wax oil on the compliant side.

Psychological interpretation (abnormal psychology)

Abnormal psychology classifies people with sm hobbies as sexual preference disorder, which means that the way of sexual activity is different from that of ordinary people, and strange conditions are used to arouse sexual desire.