The full moon day must be a double day.

The full moon day must be a double day.

The full moon day must be a double date. In our country, when the baby is full moon, it is usually necessary to drink full moon wine. According to local customs, some places will think that the day of double dating is more auspicious. Wait until then. Why does Amin have to have a double date on the full moon?

The full moon day must be a double day 1 1. Full moon wine menu day or two days?

1. According to our traditional customs, people usually choose even numbers. Because of yes-men, when choosing days, most families will choose even-numbered days and auspicious days. To express good wishes and expectations for children's future life.

There are also many people who don't believe this. They think it doesn't matter whether they choose a double date or a single date. If the baby is born on a single day, then they will choose to hold a full moon wine on a single day. If the baby is born on an even date, then they will choose a double date to handle the full moon wine.

There is no fixed statement about this. As long as parents are happy to see their children and entertain their relatives and friends, no matter which day they choose, people nowadays are not so superstitious.

Second, why can't the full moon wine be postponed?

1, in most cases, children's full moon wine is usually held one month after the birth of the child. However, due to China's vast territory and rich resources, customs and habits may be different, and the specific time of full moon wine is not fixed, which does not mean that the banquet must be held one month later. In some places, there may be a 100-day banquet for the baby, but no matter what the argument is, it will definitely not only be given for one month 100 days. Usually choose an auspicious day.

In fact, the full moon wine didn't say it couldn't be postponed. Even if it is postponed, it doesn't matter, because this date is not fixed, and it doesn't have to be handled on the second day of the baby's full moon, so it is ok to postpone, because every family may encounter some unexpected situations, and even if it is postponed, it is understandable.

There is no absolute saying that a full moon must be a double date. Different places in China have different customs. In some places, as long as you look at the date according to the Gregorian calendar, as long as it is a good day, whether it is single or double, some places like to choose double dates and think it is auspicious. As long as the day of full moon wine is good, then choose a suitable day according to local customs, which can be a single day or a double day. In addition, there are the following taboos about the date of full moon wine selection:

1. In order to ensure that everyone can attend, parents choose to hold the full moon wine not necessarily on the day of the full moon, but a few days before and after the full moon, preferably on weekends.

2. In order to ensure the right date, it is best to check the yellow calendar, which is often said by the older generation, and refer to local customs specifically.

Therefore, whether it is a single day or a double day, as long as it conforms to the customs of your place.

Pay attention to when choosing the date of full moon wine:

1, around the full moon.

2, it is best to have time for relatives and friends on weekends or holidays.

3, it is a good day (auspicious day of the zodiac), of course, it is better, you can check the old calendar.

Of course, the customs in different regions are different. Some are 9 days, 12 days, full moon or 100 days, and some are double days.

These all need the same condition, that is, let them get together to celebrate the full moon for the baby, and everyone will be happy.

In ancient times, Han people thought that babies would have a full moon. In order to wish children a smooth passage, people often hold a full moon ceremony to congratulate them. As a banquet held by parents to celebrate each baby's arrival in this world for one month, all the elders of the baby are invited to bless the baby.

On this day, every baby is a real and unique hero. On this day, all the people around the baby, they will give the baby the most sincere wishes and the most real expectations. On this day, the baby's parents, relatives and elders have placed a lot of expectations on them. Mom and dad will want them to grow up happily and healthily, while grandparents hope they can make great achievements when they grow up, and all relatives will have their own blessings for their babies.

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1, don't order roast suckling pigs, suckling pigs are underage pigs, that is, pig babies, and it is not good to eat pig babies with full moon wine. Ordering can be introduced by the restaurant minister, who is very experienced.

There is no need to reciprocate. Just put the red eggs and sour ginger on the banquet table. Cooking by yourself is delicious.

There is generally no need to welcome guests. Babies can be put in the stroller. When guests come, they will say hello or hug. If the baby is asleep, there is no need to wake him up. The guests won't mind. Guests will put red envelopes on the baby's bed, clothes or give them directly to the mother. Red envelopes should be put away because there are many people. Don't say unlucky words at dinner, such as "death" and "short life".

Before taking the baby to the restaurant, take a shower and change clothes, put on new clothes and dress up beautifully. Some elders want to shave their babies, but my family doesn't need it. I just cut her nails. After arriving at the restaurant, some guests want to give gifts or gold ornaments and bring them to the baby on the spot to make her look happy.

Do I have to go back to my parents' house on a full moon night?

Ms. Lin, 23, just gave birth to a chubby boy in June this year. She had just finished her confinement, and because there was a child in her hometown who had the custom of "moving the urine nest" at full moon, she took the baby and her husband back to her mother's house. The so-called "moving the urine nest" means that the in-laws have finished their confinement and have to go back to their parents' home for several months before going home.

Thinking about going home and letting her biological mother take care of her, Ms. Lin is very happy. Unexpectedly, just a few days later, her mother's actions made her completely collapse and fled the family. Although my mood has eased now, I still can't communicate with my mother. What the hell is going on? Let's have a look!

Ms. Lin, a new mother, has many unaccustomed places. Taking care of the baby, I feel exhausted and in a trance all day. The most embarrassing thing is breastfeeding. Because she thinks that breasts are relatively private organs, Ms. Lin never dares to breastfeed in public. Even if my husband is around, I dare not breast-feed and feel embarrassed. After communicating with her husband, he also understood her. Every time Ms. Lin wants to breastfeed, she silently closes the door and goes out.

On the first day of returning to her mother's house, the enthusiastic Ms. Lin's family came to see the baby. Everyone saw that the baby was cute and praised it. In a blink of an eye, it is time to feed. Ms. Lin made a gesture to her husband, who quickly said to everyone, "The baby is hungry, so go out first." When everyone saw that Ms. Lin wanted to breastfeed, they all went out with Ms. Lin's husband, leaving only Ms. Lin's mother.

Because she is her own mother, Ms. Lin sat on the bed and began to nurse. The baby is very smart, and the breast-fed samples are particularly interesting. You can find the pacifier with your eyes closed, and Ms. Lin is also immersed in the joy of breastfeeding. Suddenly, Ms. Lin's mother didn't know if she was moved by the child's MengMeng. She suddenly let out a cry and got up to open the door: "Look! This child is so funny! Look at this milk! "

Hearing the greetings from Ms. Lin's mother, a group of people all poured in, including seven aunts and eight aunts, plus uncles and uncles. Ms. Lin suddenly froze and her husband didn't react. When she reacted, she quickly kicked people out. Ms. Lin suddenly felt ashamed! Ms. Lin's mother has been showing it to her uncle, and she has no feeling at all!

Ms. Lin quickly got up and angrily questioned her mother: "Mom? Do I need to invite my neighbors to see it? May I take off my clothes and show you? You sold tickets again? " After that, Ms. Lin, who was angry and ashamed, put on her clothes and cried with her child because she suddenly couldn't eat milk! What was left was a room full of embarrassed relatives, stunned by Ms. Lin's mother and ugly Ms. Lin's husband.

Although Ms. Lin's husband was very reasonable to stay and solve some embarrassment, this knot between Ms. Lin and her mother was thus formed. Ms. Lin feels that her mother is too disrespectful to let relatives, even male relatives, come to see her breast-feeding; Ms. Lin's mother thinks she is making a mountain out of a molehill. Breast milk is a small matter of human nature, which makes it look like a big deal ... I don't know, what do you think?

Do you think Ms. Lin or Ms. Lin's mother is wrong about Ms. Lin's family?

In fact, I have heard from my friends about Ms. Lin. It's really embarrassing to breastfeed in public without any cover. My friends, usually in public, will choose breastfeeding clothes to solve the embarrassment. At home, they also hide and secretly feed. Behavior like Ms. Lin's mother, in their place, is estimated to be angry. Although Ms. Lin's mother didn't mean to hurt her daughter, she felt nothing. But she still hurt her daughter and caused embarrassment to her relatives.

Therefore, mothers who are still breastfeeding must explain clearly to the elderly at home. Even your own mother should explain in advance the embarrassment of breastfeeding in public to avoid incidents like Ms. Lin's, which will cause everyone's unhappiness!